Teacher guilty of sex with two boys

Teacher guilty of sex with two boys

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towser44

3,511 posts

117 months

Friday 17th May
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rossub said:
Rufus Stone said:
rossub said:
He’s looking at it from the perspective of when he was 15. Having sex with a pretty teacher when I was 15 would have made me a god among my peers.

You don’t like it, but it’s true.

Also, sex at 15 is legal in an awful lot of countries.
But not the UK. Do you consider the boys victims?
I don’t agree with what she did, I’ll say that.

Victims… not sure to be honest. 15 year old boys are randy little fkers, let’s face it.

I'd like to know how they’ve suffered as a result of it. Wouldn’t be surprised if they’ve suffered more as a result of it going public than the experience itself.
The child is living with the father. She gets 3 hours, 3 times a week to see the child.

BikeBikeBIke

8,309 posts

117 months

Friday 17th May
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Rufus Stone said:
But not the UK. Do you consider the boys victims?
I wouldn't have considered myself a victim in this case. I doubt if if these lads did, I strongly doubt it.

In legal terms obs she's the culprit amd they're the victims.

Dingu

3,895 posts

32 months

Friday 17th May
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Sixsixtysix said:
BikeBikeBIke said:
Lucky bds.
What a fking stupid comment. Would you say lucky girls if the victims were female and the teacher male? tt.
Not much dafter than their usual contributions

rossub

4,527 posts

192 months

Friday 17th May
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Rufus Stone said:
You are indeed.

I was actually meaning a male teacher and two boys. Are the boys then lucky or victims?
I suppose in theory they may be ‘lucky’ in some people’s views if the boys were homosexual.

Would be interesting to see what the views of homosexual males were. Perhaps they would have loved to have had a good looking male teacher of 28 when they were 15.

rossub

4,527 posts

192 months

Friday 17th May
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towser44 said:
The child is living with the father. She gets 3 hours, 3 times a week to see the child.
Agree that the young child hasn’t had a great start to life.

Silvanus

5,406 posts

25 months

Friday 17th May
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rossub said:
Rufus Stone said:
rossub said:
He’s looking at it from the perspective of when he was 15. Having sex with a pretty teacher when I was 15 would have made me a god among my peers.

You don’t like it, but it’s true.

Also, sex at 15 is legal in an awful lot of countries.
But not the UK. Do you consider the boys victims?
I don’t agree with what she did, I’ll say that.

Victims… not sure to be honest. 15 year old boys are randy little fkers, let’s face it.

I'd like to know how they’ve suffered as a result of it. Wouldn’t be surprised if they’ve suffered more as a result of it going public than the experience itself.
One of these victims underage boys is now a father. I'd 100% say he's a victim. An older consenting adult may have made different choices.

rossub

4,527 posts

192 months

Friday 17th May
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Silvanus said:
One of these victims underage boys is now a father. I'd 100% say he's a victim. An older consenting adult may have made different choices.
Agree in that respect.

Silvanus

5,406 posts

25 months

Friday 17th May
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rossub said:
Silvanus said:
One of these victims underage boys is now a father. I'd 100% say he's a victim. An older consenting adult may have made different choices.
Agree in that respect.
At the end of the day, a teacher has a duty of care, if they'd been 16, it's still bellow the age of consent for a teacher pupil relationship. We have to have limits and an adult having sex with a minor is not on, even if it's some sort of badge of honour for the child. Not all 15 year old boys want to have sex with an older women (person), so we have laws to protect them.

OzzyR1

5,764 posts

234 months

Friday 17th May
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From the article linked in the OP, she bought one of them a Gucci belt for £330!

Assume something like this:
https://www.gucci.com/uk/en_gb/pr/men/accessories-...

£330 for a leather belt that looks identical to a £30 leather belt except for a small logo.
Others on the Gucci site are £500!

Am I tight or is £330+ on a plain leather belt (albeit with a Gucci logo) absurd?

Deep Thought

35,945 posts

199 months

Friday 17th May
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g4ry13 said:
What's the betting she doesn't get the same sentence as a male offender?
I see she had her baby taken away from her and is only allowed supervised visits a few hours per week.

Seems wildly harsh on the mother but in line with what with happen to a male pedophile who had a relationship with someone who had a child

Edited by Deep Thought on Friday 17th May 19:09

Mr Penguin

1,599 posts

41 months

Friday 17th May
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OzzyR1 said:
From the article linked in the OP, she bought one of them a Gucci belt for £330!

Assume something like this:
https://www.gucci.com/uk/en_gb/pr/men/accessories-...

£330 for a leather belt that looks identical to a £30 leather belt except for a small logo.
Others on the Gucci site are £500!

Am I tight or is £330+ on a plain leather belt (albeit with a Gucci logo) absurd?
Gucci products (and other big brands) are usually very poor quality and you do pay for the name.

BikeBikeBIke

8,309 posts

117 months

Friday 17th May
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Silvanus said:
One of these victims underage boys is now a father. I'd 100% say he's a victim. An older consenting adult may have made different choices.
Sorry, I missed that. Yeah, that would have devastated me as a teenager (not just as a teenager) and even if he wants this situation the tax payer is certainly a victim here.

Electro1980

8,431 posts

141 months

Friday 17th May
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Buying expensive accessories for them on a teaching salary doesn’t exactly scream consenting relationship. It has grooming written all over it.

This reaction is why we have so many issues with boys now. Headline news is an MSP trying to defend a stalker, where the victim is a man.

A few weeks ago questions about charging Caroline Flack for domestic violence were back in the headlines.

On the other hand we have demands footballers be stopped from playing over accusations, where there hasn’t even been police involvement yet.

It’s no wonder boys and men are feeling alienated and attacked when these are the attitudes in society. I feel sad and frightened for my two boys and the world they grow up in.

Mr Penguin

1,599 posts

41 months

Friday 17th May
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rossub said:
I don’t agree with what she did, I’ll say that.

Victims… not sure to be honest. 15 year old boys are randy little fkers, let’s face it.

I'd like to know how they’ve suffered as a result of it. Wouldn’t be surprised if they’ve suffered more as a result of it going public than the experience itself.
Lots of 15 year olds will want it to happen, including girls. It doesn't mean they have enough emotional or even logical understanding to give informed consent or that sleeping with someone in a position of care and authority has other implications beside just being a shag.

Chris Type R

8,069 posts

251 months

Friday 17th May
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OzzyR1 said:
Am I tight or is £330+ on a plain leather belt (albeit with a Gucci logo) absurd?
If nothing else It demonstrates a pattern of poor judgement and bad decision making.

Rusty Old-Banger

4,128 posts

215 months

Friday 17th May
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A few posters conspicuously absent from this thread, which I'm sure wouldn't be the case if the sexes were reversed.

Colours showing, masks slipping, blah blah.

bitchstewie

51,950 posts

212 months

Friday 17th May
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Change the thread title to “Male Teacher Guilty of Sex with Two 15 year old Boys” and see how many people would be saying "lucky bds" and "they would have loved it”.

Some people here clearly can’t tell right from wrong.

fourstardan

4,411 posts

146 months

Friday 17th May
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2024 where everything needs to be justified across 5028 different sexualities and people chopping bits off to be another sexuality.

Everyone has spent a far few years of their sexuality growth years wking off over a teacher they had a crush on, whether thats internally using something or externally!

This woman pushed the legal line and probably had experiences way before crimes like this were brought up by "victims".

A 15 year old boy knows what he is doing....including not using contraception. That said maybe she said she was on the pill.


Derek Smith

45,846 posts

250 months

Friday 17th May
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Electro1980 said:
Buying expensive accessories for them on a teaching salary doesn’t exactly scream consenting relationship. It has grooming written all over it.

This reaction is why we have so many issues with boys now. Headline news is an MSP trying to defend a stalker, where the victim is a man.

A few weeks ago questions about charging Caroline Flack for domestic violence were back in the headlines.

On the other hand we have demands footballers be stopped from playing over accusations, where there hasn’t even been police involvement yet.

It’s no wonder boys and men are feeling alienated and attacked when these are the attitudes in society. I feel sad and frightened for my two boys and the world they grow up in.
A sensible and considered post. Are you sure you're on the right thread?

Rivenink

3,737 posts

108 months

Friday 17th May
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The boys involved don't need to be labelled "victims" for what she did to be wrong.

They are protected by law the regardless.