Teacher guilty of sex with two boys

Teacher guilty of sex with two boys

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Greendubber

13,260 posts

205 months

Saturday 18th May
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Fermit said:
Greendubber said:
Fermit said:
Electro1980 said:
It’s irrelevant and victim blaming. They were groomed and assaulted by a person in a position of power and authority. The awful thing is you are trying to diminish the seriousness by bringing this up. Just the same as talking about what a rape victim was wearing. The fact that victim keeps being put in quotes says everything.
Right, I'm bowing out of the thread on this note. I am certainly not victim blaming, that's utter tosh. The word 'victim' was put in quotes, as none of us know if he were coerced by her, if he pursued he, or if he was a equal willing participant enjoying the action. Yes, she has committed a crime, as I've said numerous times, she's a wrong un.
Blimey.

Probably for the best all round that you do bow out now rather than continuing to dig yourself a bigger hole.
Blimey indeed. Did you interview the kid yourself officer? If not then you know no better than I how things unfolded between the pair. Doesn't mean she's any less guilty regardless.
No, I don't need to have to interviewed to see your quite frankly odd attitudes towards this case.

Carry on if you wish but you're choosing an odd hill to die on, personally I'd call it quits if I were you.

otolith

56,542 posts

206 months

Saturday 18th May
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He’s a victim whether he perceived that he was being abused or not. We have a law concerning the age at which someone is considered competent to consent because we recognise that children may genuinely want to do things which are not in their best interests and which they lack capacity to make decisions upon.

Evanivitch

20,426 posts

124 months

Saturday 18th May
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Rufus Stone said:
Definitions matter, or at least they should. The fact that the likes of the Daily Mail will describe anyone having sex with someone under the age of consent as a paedophile does not make it the popular definition.

Edited by Rufus Stone on Saturday 18th May 07:59
And definitions change over time.

In 2024, she's a paedophile. And she'll be on the register with all the other paedophiles.

Evanivitch

20,426 posts

124 months

Saturday 18th May
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Electro1980 said:
We need to stop this BS that boys can’t be victims. This is why boys are having so many problems at the moment. Always seen as perpetrators and never as victims. They absolutely are victims here, of being manipulated and abused by someone with direct and very real power
There's a good scene in Baby Reindeer about this, when he talks to his parents about his abuse.

Oliver Hardy

2,657 posts

76 months

Saturday 18th May
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So why would you high five a son and call the police on your daughter, girls are less mature than boys, not as capable of making decisions or what?


Internetexplorer

11,804 posts

271 months

Saturday 18th May
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Evanivitch said:
And definitions change over time.

In 2024, she's a paedophile. And she'll be on the register with all the other paedophiles.
No, the definition hasn't changed and there isn't a paedo register, theres a sex offenders register.

It is statutory rape -

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Statutory_rape#:~:te...

Rufus Stone

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6,499 posts

58 months

Saturday 18th May
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Whatever peoples definition of what she is or isn't, she is clearly going down for the offense. The question is how long?

BikeBikeBIke

8,309 posts

117 months

Saturday 18th May
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Rufus Stone said:
Whatever peoples definition of what she is or isn't, she is clearly going down for the offense. The question is how long?
At least 10 years for at least two offences. But there are a *lot* more than two offences so totality comes into play and whether offences are served concurrently or consecutively. The rules around that are fiendishly complicated woth lots of discretion as far as I can see. But comitting the same offense over and over on different occasions with a starting point of 5 years mounts up very fast. This is one of those situations that leads to 250 year sentences in America.

Getragdogleg

8,821 posts

185 months

Saturday 18th May
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Rufus Stone said:
Whatever peoples definition of what she is or isn't, she is clearly going down for the offense. The question is how long?
That's kind of what I'm getting at, it wont be for as long as a man because even the state view it differently.

Maybe a case by case basis within a framework is more effective at sorting out "justice" than a one size fits all set of rules.



Rufus Stone

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6,499 posts

58 months

Saturday 18th May
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BikeBikeBIke said:
At least 10 years for at least two offences. But there are a *lot* more than two offences so totality comes into play and whether offences are served concurrently or consecutively. The rules around that are fiendishly complicated woth lots of discretion as far as I can see. But comitting the same offense over and over on different occasions with a starting point of 5 years mounts up very fast. This is one of those situations that leads to 250 year sentences in America.
Not so sure.

This guy only got 3 years 4 months.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cx7djg42q31o

Admittedly Joynes committed further offenses while on remand for the first, so she will likely get longer.

bitchstewie

51,952 posts

212 months

Saturday 18th May
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Wonder if part of her mitigation will be they were "lucky bds" and "they loved every minute of it" and "technically I'm not a pedophile" scratchchin

Electro1980

8,432 posts

141 months

Saturday 18th May
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Getragdogleg said:
That's kind of what I'm getting at, it wont be for as long as a man because even the state view it differently.

Maybe a case by case basis within a framework is more effective at sorting out "justice" than a one size fits all set of rules.
The state does not view it differently. Judges are swayed by their own biases, which is a whole other issue that needs to be addressed, for many reasons, but there is no difference in law, and nor should there be.

The difference between boys and girls/men and women here is nothing but social expectations. Ones that need to be broken down. It’s one of the major issues today. We can’t on the one hand tell men they need to be more open, empathetic etc. and on the other have crap like this. This impossible position is one of the reasons why boys are turning to the scum like Tate who offer them a much clearer answer.

Want evidence that it’s social? In the early modern and medieval eras the view of men’s and women’s sex drive was the opposite of recent times, that women were viewed as sexually insatiable and it was men that were the ones resisting sex.

Edited by Electro1980 on Saturday 18th May 16:24

fourstardan

4,411 posts

146 months

Saturday 18th May
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andyA700 said:
What do people think of the President Macron situation with his ex teacher, now wife. Should she be put in prison because he was "only" 15?
Acceptable for the French though, it's average behaviour compared to some of the films they've made.

fourstardan

4,411 posts

146 months

Saturday 18th May
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Rufus Stone said:
You appear to be searching to make excuses for her behaviour.
No I'm not, locking her up is the best cure.

Simbu

1,796 posts

176 months

Saturday 18th May
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Sentencing ought to be towards the top end of guidelines. There are several aggravating factors:
- position of trust as a teacher
- grooming by buying gifts
- two victims, the second of which she abused while under investigation for the first. Clearly was arrogant enough to not heed the consequences.
- offending over a sustained period, resulting in pregnancy. This will aggravate victim impact.

The apologists need to get their head straight. It's predatory abuse, plain and simple.

Oliver Hardy

2,657 posts

76 months

Saturday 18th May
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Simbu said:
Sentencing ought to be towards the top end of guidelines. There are several aggravating factors:
- position of trust as a teacher
- grooming by buying gifts
- two victims, the second of which she abused while under investigation for the first. Clearly was arrogant enough to not heed the consequences.
- offending over a sustained period, resulting in pregnancy. This will aggravate victim impact.

The apologists need to get their head straight. It's predatory abuse, plain and simple.
When she became pregnant the boy was 16 and she was no longer a teacher, so I presume no offences were committed, I don't think?

Simbu

1,796 posts

176 months

Saturday 18th May
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Oliver Hardy said:
When she became pregnant the boy was 16 and she was no longer a teacher, so I presume no offences were committed, I don't think?
Depends on the minutiae of the law. Their relationship (not sexual) was established when she was a teacher.

redrabbit

1,434 posts

167 months

Saturday 18th May
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Stick Legs said:
You haven’t met my wife! biglaugh

All joking aside even in you ignore age it’s still wrong as the position of trust was abused.

If I were a teacher in my early 20’s and a pupil & I had a chemistry then it would be my responsibility to tell them to wait until they left school.
Anything else is rightly judged harshly by the law.

Similarly I am a ship’s Master, if a female junior officer & I started a relationship it would be incredibly inappropriate and would harm both our credibility among the rest of the crew.

I suspect in this case she enjoyed having the power in the relationship and that her age and position meant she felt in control. The fact she didn’t date men of her own age suggests a psychological issue with trust & control.
Unless you were a chemistry teacher - in which case it would be your responsibility to explain covalent bonds (amongst other things).

popeyewhite

20,146 posts

122 months

Saturday 18th May
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An absolute offence, and a very stupid girl. I notice from reading the news article yesterday that boy 2 didn't freak out until after he'd had consensual sex with her 30 times and then she told him she was carrying 'their' baby. It suits society and the law to pursue a 'grooming' narrative, but if anyone really thinks that was the case with boy 2 I'd suggest they're a bit naive.

Daz68

3,404 posts

212 months

Saturday 18th May
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As much as I think the lads were enjoying themselves it was still wrong of her and she should really have know better.