Odd things your neighbours do?

Odd things your neighbours do?

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Cotty

39,649 posts

285 months

Tuesday 7th May
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As for noisy kids I think the parents just get de-sensitised to all the banging, crashing, screeching, shouting etc and just let the kids get on with it.
I think some have the opinion "I have to put up with my kids noise so everyone else can". tts

Sporky

6,419 posts

65 months

Tuesday 7th May
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CivicDuties said:
You want noise, try living next to someone whose kid is a basketball enthusiast. Christ. Once the ball itself has inevitably flown over the fence and landed on my patio table, even keeping it my side as long as possible doesn't help because he just deploys his infinite collection of footballs as substitutes. Bounce bounce bounce bangy bang bang rattle rattle rattle whoooop. Repeat ad infinitum. I'm beginning to pray for the rains to never end. How the parents put up with it I don't know.
That would very much do my nut.

borcy

3,048 posts

57 months

Tuesday 7th May
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Kid noise sned road noise are similar in that people just zone them out after a while. Building noise is harder to zone out.

Spare tyre

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9,664 posts

131 months

Tuesday 7th May
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I think a lot of people are just selfish and simply can’t think of anyone else than themselves

Years ago we purchased a do er upper and I was very considerate of the neighbours and noise, I thought they appreciated it

We had a baby and out of the blue the dozy sod next door started drilling at 2130 on a Sunday evening.

I let it slide for an hour in case it was some urgent work, when I knocked on the door he just looked puzzled at why I was asking him to stop


The house was an old ex authority house with concrete gutters and also needed a new roof (concrete gutters are fine until they are not, then you are in all sorts of lining / leaking / seeping)

I got a quote for a new roof and sanding off of the gutters to be replaced with conventional guttering

For arguments sake let’s say they wanted 25 grand to do my half and 32 to do mine and the other half of semi all done at the same time. (So basically a tiny material cost difference)

At the time i couldn’t really stretch to get mine done but could if I could get next door involved we’d both get it done a lot cheaper and a MUCH neater job. I approached him and he wasn’t really interested which is fine

A year or so later his mum dies and he gets some inheritance

I was asleep in bed and hear a scaffolding start to go up, the daft sod is only getting his done, this annoyed me as the overlap always becomes a gray area.

He had it all done and I asked how much he paid, it was roughly the same as I was quoted, he would have saved himself about 10k if we’d had it done together. I can only think he either didn’t think of others or he didn’t like me

Thankfully we had decided to move and moved on before our roof and gutters became a problem, so in hindsight his selfishness was a blessing but I still can’t figure out the thought process

Cotty

39,649 posts

285 months

Tuesday 7th May
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borcy said:
Kid noise and road noise are similar in that people just zone them out after a while. Building noise is harder to zone out.
Can be similar with dogs. There is no one as deaf as the owner of a barking dog.

Snow and Rocks

1,948 posts

28 months

Tuesday 7th May
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Reading these last few pages makes me glad to live in a house with 3ft thick stone walls in a forest in the arse end of nowhere - probably wise given we have a couple of dogs that like to enthusiastically announce the arrival of anyone within half a mile.

There is occasionally a noisy bd of an owl who likes to sit on the roof hooting half the night though!

KAgantua

3,916 posts

132 months

Tuesday 7th May
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Cotty said:
borcy said:
Kid noise and road noise are similar in that people just zone them out after a while. Building noise is harder to zone out.
Can be similar with dogs. There is no one as deaf as the owner of a barking dog.
What????

The Wookie

13,973 posts

229 months

Tuesday 7th May
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Spare tyre said:
I still can’t figure out the thought process
No thought process they’re usually just thick

borcy

3,048 posts

57 months

Tuesday 7th May
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Cotty said:
borcy said:
Kid noise and road noise are similar in that people just zone them out after a while. Building noise is harder to zone out.
Can be similar with dogs. There is no one as deaf as the owner of a barking dog.
Yeah that's another one. I've had that before, i wondered the owner was deaf. Probably just used to it and zoned it out. Probably linked to not taking it for a walk.

hidetheelephants

24,715 posts

194 months

Tuesday 7th May
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Snow and Rocks said:
Reading these last few pages makes me glad to live in a house with 3ft thick stone walls in a forest in the arse end of nowhere - probably wise given we have a couple of dogs that like to enthusiastically announce the arrival of anyone within half a mile.

There is occasionally a noisy bd of an owl who likes to sit on the roof hooting half the night though!
Foxes can be noisy bds too.

Cotty

39,649 posts

285 months

Tuesday 7th May
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KAgantua said:
Cotty said:
Can be similar with dogs. There is no one as deaf as the owner of a barking dog.
What????
It means the owner can't hear their own dog barking.

generationx

6,850 posts

106 months

Tuesday 7th May
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Cotty said:
KAgantua said:
Cotty said:
Can be similar with dogs. There is no one as deaf as the owner of a barking dog.
What????
It means the owner can't hear their own dog barking.
Whoosh!

number2

4,328 posts

188 months

Tuesday 7th May
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Cotty said:
KAgantua said:
Cotty said:
Can be similar with dogs. There is no one as deaf as the owner of a barking dog.
What????
It means the owner can't hear their own dog barking.
Whoosh biggrin

number2

4,328 posts

188 months

Tuesday 7th May
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Sporky said:
CivicDuties said:
You want noise, try living next to someone whose kid is a basketball enthusiast. Christ. Once the ball itself has inevitably flown over the fence and landed on my patio table, even keeping it my side as long as possible doesn't help because he just deploys his infinite collection of footballs as substitutes. Bounce bounce bounce bangy bang bang rattle rattle rattle whoooop. Repeat ad infinitum. I'm beginning to pray for the rains to never end. How the parents put up with it I don't know.
That would very much do my nut.
Yup, the thudding of a ball against a wall. banghead.

Cotty

39,649 posts

285 months

Tuesday 7th May
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number2 said:
Whoosh biggrin
explain that one to me confused

Sporky

6,419 posts

65 months

Tuesday 7th May
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Cotty said:
number2 said:
Whoosh biggrin
explain that one to me confused
KAgantua was pretending to be deaf.

Cotty

39,649 posts

285 months

Tuesday 7th May
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Sporky said:
KAgantua was pretending to be deaf.
In reference to a written comment scratchchin

generationx

6,850 posts

106 months

Tuesday 7th May
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Cotty said:
Sporky said:
KAgantua was pretending to be deaf.
In reference to a written comment scratchchin
Implying aforementioned dog ownership and deafness to the barking

KAgantua

3,916 posts

132 months

Tuesday 7th May
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Sorry guys I cant hear anything because of my parrot barking

Cotty

39,649 posts

285 months

Tuesday 7th May
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generationx said:
Implying aforementioned dog ownership and deafness to the barking
Oh I get that, but the comment was written not verbal. Maybe the joke works in person, but not written down.