Single parents' rights

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Lois

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Tuesday 31st March 2009
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My brother and his girlfriend have recently split up. They have a 2 year old daughter together.
It was the girlfriend's decision to split and despite my brother being completely gutted, he left the family home in order to "not upset the daughter" (this excuse has been used by the girlfriend to pretty much get what she wants). He hadn't cheated, hit her etc etc, it just came out of the blue to all of us.
He's been paying maintenance (which she hasn't declared) and has had amicable access several times a week. Now she's suddenly decided that he can't see his daughter at all (coincidently this coincides with him having a date with another woman).

As an unmarried father what rights does he have? He's also on a relatively low way and there's no way he could afford a lawyer if that would be required.

Lois

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Tuesday 31st March 2009
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Thanks, will pass those on.

I just hope he has the balls to stand up to her. So far she's had the upper hand because she plays the "daughter" card to get what she wants.

Lois

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Lordbenny said:
the only way out is to 'make her disappear'!
ooooo don't tempt me!!! wink

Lois

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Tuesday 31st March 2009
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Just had a phone call and she's suddenly changed her mind and is allowing him to have her Friday night, not that I'm sceptical or anything but certain resources lead me to believe that's when she's going out clubbing.....

Lois

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Tuesday 31st March 2009
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Deva Link said:
Wouldn't it generally be better if couples got married before they had children?
Oh he's had all the lectures, great coming from your little sister!!