Went ballistic at my OH browsing my facebook
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V8mate said:
isee said:
V8mate said:
isee said:
V8mate said:
I'll give it seven days until you post again bleating about your wife having left you.
in 7 days maybe but at this precise moment in time i feel like i'd help her pack her things.
k-off huge diamond - you have no business being married.Is it just a malicious rumour, or are you really just some attention-seeking school-kid?
V8mate said:
isee said:
V8mate said:
I'll give it seven days until you post again bleating about your wife having left you.
in 7 days maybe but at this precise moment in time i feel like i'd help her pack her things.k-off huge diamond - you have no business being married.Edited by V8mate on Tuesday 31st March 16:55
It wont be the first time she has been checking up on you I guarantee it. She obviously doesnt trust you, otherwise why is she snooping?
I think you may have seen her true colours, whats even worse is she is making it your fault.
Seems like you might have a lucky escape if you ditch her now.
I think you may have seen her true colours, whats even worse is she is making it your fault.
Seems like you might have a lucky escape if you ditch her now.
collateral said:
V8mate said:
isee said:
V8mate said:
I'll give it seven days until you post again bleating about your wife having left you.
in 7 days maybe but at this precise moment in time i feel like i'd help her pack her things.k-off huge diamond - you have no business being married.Well your reaction is going to tell her there is something to hide that much is for sure. Whether anything incriminating is on there or not, she now won't believe you, that is also for sure. If your relationship wasn't strong before, I'd say it's pretty much pooped now, caused by your overreaction
Lesson learned for you, assume anything you post on the internet or send on the internet will be read by the other half sometime. Then ask yourself if thats what you really want to say or if it's really what you mean.
Lesson learned for you, assume anything you post on the internet or send on the internet will be read by the other half sometime. Then ask yourself if thats what you really want to say or if it's really what you mean.
V8mate said:
collateral said:
V8mate said:
isee said:
V8mate said:
I'll give it seven days until you post again bleating about your wife having left you.
in 7 days maybe but at this precise moment in time i feel like i'd help her pack her things.k-off huge diamond - you have no business being married.There's no guessing what kind of sensitive messages might be sitting in someone's private in-box. Even if my in-box was empty I'd be annoyed in the OP's position
isee said:
Caught my mrs browsing my facebook on the iphone, reading the messages from my female friends etc.
There was nothing incriminating on there but that really pissed me off in principle.
I confiscated the phone and told her in strong language that what she did is just not on.
To make a long story short she is now upset with ME and is not talking to me unless she has to...
WTF!?
Have I overreacted?
I suppose I made myself look guilty in her eyes by reacting so strongly. I have nothing to hide but it doesn't mean it's ok to read my personal inbox. I never read her messages whenever she leaves her mailbox open on my pc. I never browse through her text messages on her phone either.
I do believe that if you are looking for something you will find it eventually though...
It pisses me off that rather than apologising I am the guilty one now. Not sure how that works but if she keeps that up I am tempted to throw in the towel.
Hello, may I be so presumptious as to ask how old you are?There was nothing incriminating on there but that really pissed me off in principle.
I confiscated the phone and told her in strong language that what she did is just not on.
To make a long story short she is now upset with ME and is not talking to me unless she has to...
WTF!?
Have I overreacted?
I suppose I made myself look guilty in her eyes by reacting so strongly. I have nothing to hide but it doesn't mean it's ok to read my personal inbox. I never read her messages whenever she leaves her mailbox open on my pc. I never browse through her text messages on her phone either.
I do believe that if you are looking for something you will find it eventually though...
It pisses me off that rather than apologising I am the guilty one now. Not sure how that works but if she keeps that up I am tempted to throw in the towel.
I'm guessing about 12?
Either that or you met your missus at the 'special needs' school disco.
escargot said:
What the fk? Why are people siding with the psychotic, jealous bunny boiler in this?
Mate, you did absolutely the right thing and the reason she's giving you the silent treatment is because she's embarrassed that you caught her.
+1. Do NOT marry the bk? Why are people siding with the psychotic, jealous bunny boiler in this?Mate, you did absolutely the right thing and the reason she's giving you the silent treatment is because she's embarrassed that you caught her.
h.SHE has a guilty conciense. How many affairs has she had with married/attached men I wonder that you dont know about, and she is projecting this onto you.
collateral said:
V8mate said:
collateral said:
V8mate said:
isee said:
V8mate said:
I'll give it seven days until you post again bleating about your wife having left you.
in 7 days maybe but at this precise moment in time i feel like i'd help her pack her things.k-off huge diamond - you have no business being married.There's no guessing what kind of sensitive messages might be sitting in someone's private in-box. Even if my in-box was empty I'd be annoyed in the OP's position
I said:
"If you want to play 'secret messages' with other women...."
'If' is a conditional statement. Your selective quote is based upon choosing to carry out that conditional statement.
Chainguy said:
escargot said:
What the fk? Why are people siding with the psychotic, jealous bunny boiler in this?
Mate, you did absolutely the right thing and the reason she's giving you the silent treatment is because she's embarrassed that you caught her.
+1. Do NOT marry the bk? Why are people siding with the psychotic, jealous bunny boiler in this?Mate, you did absolutely the right thing and the reason she's giving you the silent treatment is because she's embarrassed that you caught her.
h.SHE has a guilty conciense. How many affairs has she had with married/attached men I wonder that you dont know about, and she is projecting this onto you.
Georgiegirl said:
I see why you are a bit annoyed, but that level of reaction means one thing to women - you are very very guilty!
Personally it wouldnt bother me if someone looked at my email, facebook, phone.....anything really
TBH I've looked at my boyfriend's phone and he was so mad about it 'I've got nothing to hide, it's just my private phone'....which screams guilt to most women. I'm happy to leave my phone around, my facebook/emails open, if he wanted to look at anything he could but he is so cagey!Personally it wouldnt bother me if someone looked at my email, facebook, phone.....anything really
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