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Steffan
6,221 posts
98 months
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Sex, like every other form of human activity, varies according to the individuals personal preferences. There really is no general rule as to the intensity of the Sex drive in humans, just as the appetite for food varies between individuals, and varies in virtually every other form of human activity.
There are no rights and wrongs. There are averages, such as the average UK couple between the ages of 20 and 40 tending to have sex, in one form or another, roughly twice a week. But this can vary between ten times the average, or even more, and virtually no sex.
There is a general tendency for sexual activity to diminish with age. Few octogenarians have huge amounts of sex, but there are no rules. Purely a matter of personal preference and stamina.
One lesson I have learned over years of experience. A willing woman makes a huge difference to the whole experience. Never hope to change a woman in a relationship. The building blocks are fixed in early life. It is all down to the preferences of the individual. IMO intelligent women are much better and more inventive, lovers. But they are also better Mothers, Cooks, Companions and Sweethearts. That's been my experience.
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Deva Link
26,934 posts
115 months
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Steffan said: IMO intelligent women are much better and more inventive, lovers. But they are also better Mothers, Cooks, Companions and Sweethearts. That's been my experience. Intelligent women are also a bit more Mental - which possibly explains why you've been married 5 times. 
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Kermit power
14,977 posts
83 months
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uk_vette said: I met my current girlfriend about 3 years ago, living together for about 2,5 years.
She was 27 when I met her, and I was 53.
She will be 31 this September.
Sex has never been so good for many a year, or since I was about early twenties any way.
She's fantastic.
vette So her urge for kids is going to go into manic overdrive roundabout the time you're hitting your 60th? Ouch!
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jshell
5,050 posts
75 months
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superkartracer said: Interesting one. At one point ( some years ago ) i'd have at least 8 w  ks per day Nah, there's the rule of the 7 shot limit!
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Steffan
6,221 posts
98 months
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Deva Link said: Steffan said: IMO intelligent women are much better and more inventive, lovers. But they are also better Mothers, Cooks, Companions and Sweethearts. That's been my experience. Intelligent women are also a bit more Mental - which possibly explains why you've been married 5 times. No, that is down to me being a complete nightmare to live with. I am the cause of all the difficulties in my life, every time. That is why, I am so appreciative of the efforts of my partners. All I want is Everything Now, is my life philosophy which is not really very good at all. But, as I have said before, I enjoy myself. That is the problem. Me.
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superkartracer
6,697 posts
92 months
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jshell said: superkartracer said: Interesting one. At one point ( some years ago ) i'd have at least 8 w ks per day Nah, there's the rule of the 7 shot limit! Dude, back in the day i'd shaft the GF(s) for a good 4-6 hours. Miss them days. A lot.
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Zwolf
22,321 posts
76 months
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jshell said: superkartracer said: Interesting one. At one point ( some years ago ) i'd have at least 8 w ks per day Nah, there's the rule of the 7 shot limit! AKA "dirty dishwater".
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VinceFox
14,794 posts
42 months
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Zwolf said: jshell said: superkartracer said: Interesting one. At one point ( some years ago ) i'd have at least 8 w ks per day Nah, there's the rule of the 7 shot limit! AKA "dirty dishwater". Potato water? Couple of old timers at work. Accused one of them of shooting dust the other day, that went down well. Evening Z.
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NotDave
20,951 posts
27 months
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VinceFox said: Potato water?
Couple of old timers at work. Accused one of them of shooting dust the other day, that went down well.
Evening Z. I thought you were the "old timer" ?
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VinceFox
14,794 posts
42 months
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NotDave said: VinceFox said: Potato water?
Couple of old timers at work. Accused one of them of shooting dust the other day, that went down well.
Evening Z. I thought you were the "old timer" ? All relative. These guys look like wizards.
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Zwolf
22,321 posts
76 months
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VinceFox said: shooting dust  Evenin' V.
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NotDave
20,951 posts
27 months
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VinceFox said: All relative. These guys look like wizards. And ironically, wizards sleeves are something they see little of
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VinceFox
14,794 posts
42 months
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NotDave said: VinceFox said: All relative. These guys look like wizards. And ironically, wizards sleeves are something they see little of We've got quite a few greybeards here. All of them follow the opinions of that skiffle quiff critic c**t mark kermode, while talking left and voting right. Grauniads, the lot of em.
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NotDave
20,951 posts
27 months
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VinceFox said: We've got quite a few greybeards here. All of them follow the opinions of that skiffle quiff critic c**t mark kermode, while talking left and voting right.
Grauniads, the lot of em. Niiiiice! I feel soooo young right now
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Pickled Piper
5,185 posts
105 months
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Lostprophet said: I am 31, turning 32 in Aug. I have been married for 6 years and we have a 2 year old. I cant be bothered with sex. Currently trying for a 2nd child...
Sex is to darn messy and I just cant be bothered. Maybe having the kid is off putting... tbh I would rather watch TV than get down to it...
What the heck is wrong with me? Married life? Nothing wrong with you. Perfectly normal with young sprogs around. I remember wanting nothing more than a cup of tean and a biscuit and a good nights sleep. Don't worry it will pass........eventually. pp
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Old Merc
903 posts
37 months
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Lostprophet said: I am 31, turning 32 in Aug. I have been married for 6 years and we have a 2 year old. I cant be bothered with sex. Currently trying for a 2nd child...
Sex is to darn messy and I just cant be bothered. Maybe having the kid is off putting... tbh I would rather watch TV than get down to it...
What the heck is wrong with me? Married life? That`s sad,you have got to get that spark back?? or I`ll be tempted to say that any one who finds sex boring is either doing it the wrong way or with the wrong person. Here is an example? I met a local Vicar who is 70!! has a cracking young oriental wife and three kids at school.
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Deva Link
26,934 posts
115 months
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Lostprophet said: . tbh I would rather watch TV than get down to it... I'd rather have a good s t.
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PoleDriver
20,247 posts
64 months
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Deva Link said: Lostprophet said: . tbh I would rather watch TV than get down to it... I'd rather have a good s t. I'd rather have a cup of tea coffee!
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Lostprophet
1,742 posts
39 months
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lol!!! Thats so funny.
I think I should get the wife some new nightwear...
The vicar with a far eastern wife... lucky git. Far eastern women are suppose to be amazing! Lets hope his heart holds up or he will be doing another form of gods work...
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EdBarrett
198 posts
13 months
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Steffan said: One lesson I have learned over years of experience. A willing woman makes a huge difference to the whole experience. Surely if your women have been unwilling in the past, you should be reffered to the ''speed, plod and the law'' section, as that opens a whole can of worms....
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