Biting your nails

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Bobberoo99

39,101 posts

100 months

Monday 3rd June 2019
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illmonkey said:
illmonkey said:
I was a serial nail biter, to the point they'd bleed. I just stopped one day as I was fed up of pain from water on my fingers.

Now, I have very strong thick nails that clippers struggle to go through! My cuticles, or what ever the skin that edges the nail, are still a mess, some 7 or so years later. I've tried special oils, creams etc, they just won't sort themselves out.
Took a shot. I cut my nails very close to the limit, as anything longer annoys me, I always flick the nail on stuff and break them. The image shows my crappy cuticles.
That looks pretty much what mine look like, apart from my nails are cut shorter!!

illmonkey

18,290 posts

200 months

Monday 3rd June 2019
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Bobberoo99 said:
illmonkey said:
illmonkey said:
I was a serial nail biter, to the point they'd bleed. I just stopped one day as I was fed up of pain from water on my fingers.

Now, I have very strong thick nails that clippers struggle to go through! My cuticles, or what ever the skin that edges the nail, are still a mess, some 7 or so years later. I've tried special oils, creams etc, they just won't sort themselves out.
Took a shot. I cut my nails very close to the limit, as anything longer annoys me, I always flick the nail on stuff and break them. The image shows my crappy cuticles.
That looks pretty much what mine look like, apart from my nails are cut shorter!!
That's 3 days growth! Generally go this short then file the crap out of them. You only cut the skin under your nails once! So I go longer and use a file.


Shuvi McTupya

24,460 posts

249 months

Tuesday 4th June 2019
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Day 4..

everyone else still not biting?

I cant see any progress yet, but will be taking a photo every few days so i can hopefully playback any growth smile

Bobberoo99

39,101 posts

100 months

Tuesday 4th June 2019
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I haven't actually bitten my fingers since Friday, and I cut my nails short last night to stop myself from picking!! smile

Shuvi McTupya

24,460 posts

249 months

Tuesday 4th June 2019
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If your nails are long enough to use clippers on, it doesn't sound like you have much of a biting problem!

Gary29

4,185 posts

101 months

Tuesday 4th June 2019
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I used to bite them when I was a kid, up until my 20's I reckon, they've never really 'grown out' since, I do seem to pick at them quite a bit and hate having dirt under them, so always cleaning them and scraping any dirt out from under them, which prevents the nail bed getting any bigger.


Otispunkmeyer

12,673 posts

157 months

Tuesday 4th June 2019
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same, done it all my life

And now I think I do it as a thinking aid. If i'm sat at my desk and I am trying to solve something, i'll either be twiddling my hair or running my nails through my mouth.

When I was younger my mum tried to get me to stop by painting on that acrid tasting anti-nail biting stuff. But in the end, I just bore the taste and eventually got used to it. So she gave up.

Patch1875

4,902 posts

134 months

Tuesday 4th June 2019
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I bit my nails up until around 20yo don’t anymore although I bite them to cut them!

Kewy

1,462 posts

96 months

Tuesday 4th June 2019
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Firstly, thank you OP for starting this thread!

Terrible nail biter here, have done for 20+ years. I hate it, always conscious about my hands and I often work events where I interact with the public, find myself using a pen or pointing with my knuckle because I hate my fingers.

I stopped about 6 months ago for a few months and they started looking much better, not sure what caused it but relapsed and now they look like this:




I can't even look at them tbh.

I'll make an effort to stop again from today and see how I get on…

Aphex

2,160 posts

202 months

Tuesday 4th June 2019
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If you've made it to your current age with this being your biggest problem then you're doing well thumbup

gregs656

10,950 posts

183 months

Tuesday 4th June 2019
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I am going to make this happen. Currently my nails are a mess, I didn't do a very good job of not biting over the weekend.

This may draw a few comments but I am seriously considering going to get a set of acrylic or gel nails.

Terminator X

15,267 posts

206 months

Tuesday 4th June 2019
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Wacky Racer said:
Been biting my nails all my life but suddenly stopped 2/3 weeks ago, the funny thing is I didn't make any conscious effort to do so, just don't feel the urge to do so. Really strange.

Cool story bro' and all that.

Anybody else done the same, maybe with smoking?
Did you start working at a sewage farm wink

TX.

Aphex

2,160 posts

202 months

Tuesday 4th June 2019
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gregs656 said:
I am going to make this happen. Currently my nails are a mess, I didn't do a very good job of not biting over the weekend.

This may draw a few comments but I am seriously considering going to get a set of acrylic or gel nails.
You know when you see someone that is obviously wearing a wig? Make sure its not the same for your hands hehe

gregs656

10,950 posts

183 months

Tuesday 4th June 2019
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Aphex said:
You know when you see someone that is obviously wearing a wig? Make sure its not the same for your hands hehe
Yes that would be a bit tragic, although honestly I don't think it could look worse than my nails do now.




mcelliott

8,741 posts

183 months

Tuesday 4th June 2019
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Been a nail biter for as long as I can remember - I'm 47 now. Have tried all sorts to stop (actually that's a bit of a lie) biggrin

Recently I've been more into biting the skin around my nails, which is immensely satisfying, except when they bleed of course.

On a side note, I got served by a gentleman in a shop today, who had very long fingernails. Revolting! smile

Wacky Racer

Original Poster:

38,347 posts

249 months

Tuesday 4th June 2019
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Terminator X said:
Wacky Racer said:
Been biting my nails all my life but suddenly stopped 2/3 weeks ago, the funny thing is I didn't make any conscious effort to do so, just don't feel the urge to do so. Really strange.

Cool story bro' and all that.

Anybody else done the same, maybe with smoking?
Did you start working at a sewage farm wink

TX.
No, but think where your nails have been when you have had a shower? hehe

Two weeks in, my nails are pristinebiggrin

Come on lads, you know you can do it.teacher

Shuvi McTupya

24,460 posts

249 months

Tuesday 4th June 2019
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Wacky Racer said:
No, but think where your nails have been when you have had a shower? hehe

Two weeks in, my nails are pristinebiggrin

Come on lads, you know you can do it.teacher
Five days in, no discernible difference.

Bobberoo99

39,101 posts

100 months

Wednesday 5th June 2019
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Not bit since Friday, it's all going dry and ripe for gnawing on down the sides of my fingers and nails, must..........resist!!!!!!

Shuvi McTupya

24,460 posts

249 months

Wednesday 5th June 2019
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Bobberoo99 said:
Not bit since Friday, it's all going dry and ripe for gnawing on down the sides of my fingers and nails, must..........resist!!!!!!
I am finding it quite easy to not actually bite, so far. I know I will struggle to stay on the wagon at some point!

Bobberoo99

39,101 posts

100 months

Wednesday 5th June 2019
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Stay strong!!! I wear gloves at work so that helps, it's sat in front of the telly that I start to chew, I've given Mrs Bobbers the okay to belt me if she sees me chewing, she's only had to raise her hand a couple of times so far!!