Its all about money with some people.....

Its all about money with some people.....

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Original Poster:

3,642 posts

237 months

Thursday 2nd April 2009
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A friend of mine just bought himself a Gallardo, good on him I say. He works hard, came into some money and bought an iconic car!

However instead of congratulating the guy and being happy for him, some people are more interested in asking either:

'How did he afford that?'

'What a waste of money'

'Did daddy buy that?'

For the record, the guy runs a successful property business, is 33, is married etc.

Granted, he had a priviliged upbringing, but so what?

I think some people judge success based on what their own limits are.

Arese

21,020 posts

188 months

Thursday 2nd April 2009
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I hate people like that. There's a guy I work with, always asks people 'How much did you pay for that?!' and even had the cheek to call me decadent for having a dishwasher. tt.

digger_R

1,807 posts

207 months

Thursday 2nd April 2009
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Arese said:
I hate people like that. There's a guy I work with, always asks people 'How much did you pay for that?!' and even had the cheek to call me decadent for having a dishwasher. tt.
I thought everyone had hired help these days? I could give some things up but don't know where I'd be without my butler and maids

dibbers006

12,236 posts

219 months

Thursday 2nd April 2009
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Arese said:
I hate people like that. There's a guy I work with, always asks people 'How much did you pay for that?!' and even had the cheek to call me decadent for having a dishwasher. tt.
A dishwasher... well la dee fking da with your 'wonder' product from the future. The maid have the day off did she... tongue out




wink


Dammit, beaten to it!

Edited by dibbers006 on Thursday 2nd April 15:26

UncappedTag

2,102 posts

186 months

Thursday 2nd April 2009
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Green eyed monster comes out of a lot of people unfortunately frown

Nice choice of motor though biggrin

Hereward

4,206 posts

231 months

Thursday 2nd April 2009
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Arese said:
...and even had the cheek to call me decadent for having a dishwasher...
How much was your dishwasher?

pugwash4x4

7,541 posts

222 months

Thursday 2nd April 2009
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i always ask people what they paid for stuff

so i know how much harder i have to work to buy it myself!

good on him i say- we don't reward success enough in this country.

G'kar

3,728 posts

187 months

Thursday 2nd April 2009
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I'm guessing the property company is merely a front for his drug dealing.

Mr POD

5,153 posts

193 months

Thursday 2nd April 2009
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Arese said:
even had the cheek to call me decadent for having a dishwasher.
Lazy Yes.
Decadent No.

I don't have a dish washer because My kitchen is too small. Because I'm poor.

Moose.

5,339 posts

242 months

Thursday 2nd April 2009
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pugwash4x4 said:
good on him i say- we don't reward success enough in this country.
So true! If you've earnt it, why shouldn't you have nice things smile

f13ldy

1,432 posts

202 months

Thursday 2nd April 2009
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pugwash4x4 said:
i always ask people what they paid for stuff
So do I.

So I can say you could have got it cheaper on the internet.

Knocked.

Mr POD

5,153 posts

193 months

Thursday 2nd April 2009
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Hereward said:
Arese said:
...and even had the cheek to call me decadent for having a dishwasher...
How much was your dishwasher?
He got it off FREE CYCLE.

NiceCupOfTea

25,298 posts

252 months

Thursday 2nd April 2009
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Jealousy, pure and simple.

It's why people spit at nice cars rather than smiling and waving, and is par for the course in Britain.

Guybrush

4,358 posts

207 months

Thursday 2nd April 2009
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Chip-on-shouldery bitterness, envy, loser mentality. It's a Labour throwback, the lefties have always encouraged their flock to keep themselves down, not to look (or be) too successful. They usually pass on this ethos to their children but will also snipe at others. Often, it's clothed in self-righteousness, for example they'll say it's not very "green" or some similar BS, but that'll usuually be a cover for envy and the desire for you not to appear to rise above them.

chris watton

22,477 posts

261 months

Thursday 2nd April 2009
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Guybrush said:
Chip-on-shouldery bitterness, envy, loser mentality. It's a Labour throwback, the lefties have always encouraged their flock to keep themselves down, not to look (or be) too successful. They usually pass on this ethos to their children but will also snipe at others. Often, it's clothed in self-righteousness, for example they'll say it's not very "green" or some similar BS, but that'll usuually be a cover for envy and the desire for you not to appear to rise above them.
yes

Nail hit squarely on head.

triggersbroom

2,377 posts

205 months

Thursday 2nd April 2009
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What is the politest way of saying fk off when someone asks you how much you paid for something?

I have this neighbour that constantly asks, and as I have to live with him next to me, want to say it in the nicest way possible.

To the OP. Yes, there are too many people like this, and I wish your friend many years of happy hooning biggrin

Plotloss

67,280 posts

271 months

Thursday 2nd April 2009
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Rags said:
I think some people judge success based on what their own limits are.
Either that or they are in the majority, appalling.

I think its the latter.

mouseymousey

2,641 posts

238 months

Thursday 2nd April 2009
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triggersbroom][b said:
What is the politest way of saying fk off when someone asks you how much you paid for something? [/b[

I have this neighbour that constantly asks, and as I have to live with him next to me, want to say it in the nicest way possible.

To the OP. Yes, there are too many people like this, and I wish your friend many years of happy hooning biggrin
How about, if you have to ask you can't afford it?

Deva Link

26,934 posts

246 months

Thursday 2nd April 2009
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Rags said:
A friend of mine just bought himself a Gallardo, good on him I say. He works hard, came into some money and bought an iconic car!

However instead of congratulating the guy and being happy for him, some people are more interested in asking either:

....

I think some people judge success based on what their own limits are.
This is what the class system is for in the UK. He should only mix with people who also drive Gallardos (or other similar vehicles) and then they wouldn't ask.

TubbyRutter

2,070 posts

207 months

Thursday 2nd April 2009
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triggersbroom said:
What is the politest way of saying fk off when someone asks you how much you paid for something?
Reply with "More than you can afford Pal" then race off!