Parking abuse....
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Jonathan27

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761 posts

190 months

Friday 17th May 2013
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So, a bit of a rant here, but as I'm not the worlds greatest swearer I may well disappoint. 


There is street around the corner form the local train station, this street has no parking restrictions, so as its a choice between a £1k annual permit at the station, or a two minute walk, this street is poplar with commuters for parking. I know this must be frustrating for residents, but this has been the case for years, so it's not like they didn't know when they moved in.    
   The locals have started putting street cones out to reserve 'their spot'.   
So this morning I moved some cones to park, and the tattooed chav came out shouting abuse and threatening to smash my car whilst I'm at work.    I ignored him and went to work.  

Late I got back to find a van parked at the front bumper to bumper, another one at the back and an abusive not.  the guy then comes out to threaten me, and eventual (after I call the police) he moved his van.


Now I don't want to be intimidated away from parking their, but am in two minds on the issue.   So what would you do?

I has crossed my mind to but a cheap banger with tax and mot, and leave it outside his house for a year:-) 


Over to you.....

TheTurbonator

2,792 posts

177 months

Friday 17th May 2013
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You pay your road tax, the road is unrestricted, what is there to discuss?


petewaugh

69 posts

158 months

Friday 17th May 2013
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I can understand both points of view, and it's a difficult one. Take the path of least resistance, arrive 10 minutes earlier each day and park outside someone else's house instead of the Chavvy man.

Like the banger idea, but can't help thinking tax, insurance and banger purchase price = the purchase price of the car parking permit, and 4 minutes less walking each day!

M3CS

380 posts

199 months

Friday 17th May 2013
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I've had a very similar situation. My workplace only allow more senior people to park in the office car park, so when I joined I had to park my previous car (a tidy Mercedes coupe) in a residential road. It was that, or spend £14 per day to park in a multi-storey further away, where the stairwell smelled of tramps' piss. Easy decision.

I once came back to find a note along the lines of "park here again and you'll not have air in your tyres next time". I don't think they planned on using the valves.

By sheer coincidence, I found out a week later (after getting rather tired of a week of smelling urine on my way to work) that more junior guys would be allowed to park at the office (as we were only half-using it).

Unfortunately, there's nothing you can do, short of fitting a camera to your car.... I feel for you mate.

caprirob

263 posts

171 months

Friday 17th May 2013
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As you've already had a run in I'd suggest finding somewhere else to park

I can see both sides of this but to be honest if someone dumped their car outside my house all day every day so I couldnt park in front of my own house I'd be p1$$ed off too.

Geekman

2,904 posts

172 months

Friday 17th May 2013
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Used to have a similar situation at my old sixth form, we just moved the cones and parked there anyway.

A205GTI

750 posts

192 months

Friday 17th May 2013
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SWMBO had this when she used to go from sevenoaks to London.

Parked in a nice leafy suburb, would have notes left on car etc.. bearing in mind these houses had the biggest hedges and gates so you couldnt see in the houses, they would park there cars on the road to stop people parking outside,

Eventually they persuaded the council to put single yellow lines in for no parking between 11am and 12noon.

I feel for you on this matter, but as we have seen too many times on here, people seem to think the land outside there house is exclusively for them.

Dangerous Dan

624 posts

197 months

Friday 17th May 2013
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I have the same issue at my place of work.

I find politely informing the retards that I a. know what they look like and b. know where they live works wonders if they give me any st.

No, I am not a tough guy or some secret squirrel commando, however they don't know that.

Frances The Mute

1,816 posts

267 months

Friday 17th May 2013
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It's not a great situation to be in. I have sympathy for the bloke and others who live there.

The fact is, he's already riled so seeing your car there again will simply prompt an eventual reaction in my opinion.

rehab71

3,362 posts

216 months

Friday 17th May 2013
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It's unrestricted so continue to park their, fk him!

Remember you know where he lives.

poing

8,743 posts

226 months

Friday 17th May 2013
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rehab71 said:
It's unrestricted so continue to park their, fk him!

Remember you know where he lives.
Not going to help when you get back from work after a long day and find 4 flat tyres. He'll just claim he saw some kids hanging about and there is nothing to prove otherwise.

405dogvan

5,329 posts

291 months

Friday 17th May 2013
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Reality called - it said that parking there is going to be more stressful than it's worth.

People get very defensive about people parking outside their house all day long - you probably would.

Just because it's not illegal doesn't mean it's not wrong - tho he should take his issue up with the council and not you personally perhaps.

Most times they will introduce a resident parking system when you're close to shops/stations etc.

Roo

11,504 posts

233 months

Friday 17th May 2013
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I've lived in my house fifteen years. When I moved here the secondary school the other side of the main road, and crossroads, was exactly that. A secondary school.

Now it's one of the new academies which is three times the size.

My road is a private road. As such it has no parking or turning restrictions. Except for the fact that us residents are responsible for its upkeep.

It's now a car park, turn round, drop off, pick up point for the lazy parents/students who won't travel the extra two minutes to the school.

Not all homeowners have bought houses in an area that is populated by inconsiderate non residents. Some of us have bought homes in nice area that have subsequently been invaded by non residents and are, quite rightly, fed up with it.

s p a c e m a n

11,805 posts

174 months

Friday 17th May 2013
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rehab71 said:
Remember you know where he lives.
yes The bloke is obviously not very intelligent

LukeSi

5,780 posts

187 months

Friday 17th May 2013
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Roo said:
I've lived in my house fifteen years. When I moved here the secondary school the other side of the main road, and crossroads, was exactly that. A secondary school.

Now it's one of the new academies which is three times the size.

My road is a private road. As such it has no parking or turning restrictions. Except for the fact that us residents are responsible for its upkeep.

It's now a car park, turn round, drop off, pick up point for the lazy parents/students who won't travel the extra two minutes to the school.

Not all homeowners have bought houses in an area that is populated by inconsiderate non residents. Some of us have bought homes in nice area that have subsequently been invaded by non residents and are, quite rightly, fed up with it.
Gates...

Tallbutbuxomly

12,254 posts

242 months

Saturday 18th May 2013
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LukeSi said:
Roo said:
I've lived in my house fifteen years. When I moved here the secondary school the other side of the main road, and crossroads, was exactly that. A secondary school.

Now it's one of the new academies which is three times the size.

My road is a private road. As such it has no parking or turning restrictions. Except for the fact that us residents are responsible for its upkeep.

It's now a car park, turn round, drop off, pick up point for the lazy parents/students who won't travel the extra two minutes to the school.

Not all homeowners have bought houses in an area that is populated by inconsiderate non residents. Some of us have bought homes in nice area that have subsequently been invaded by non residents and are, quite rightly, fed up with it.
Gates...
Sadly this may be the only option. Or for a little more fun raising bollards so for the entertainment of watching the truly lazy trying to follow those who are allowed into the road ruin their cars for being so lazy.

LooneyTunes

9,194 posts

184 months

Saturday 18th May 2013
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Roo said:
My road is a private road. As such it has no parking or turning restrictions. Except for the fact that us residents are responsible for its upkeep.
It's private property, so you can set them. Enforcing them might be harder, but, if bollards/gate aren't an option, signs might be a start.

Welshbeef

49,633 posts

224 months

Saturday 18th May 2013
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If I were the owner it would be frustrating.

If I were you I'd be annoyed but the thing is every day you park near that house now you'll be worrying are tyres intact keyed etc not what is call.

For £1k and 4 mins a day saved and no issue with residents of would now be a strong consideration.

Or imagine you had to get somewhere quickly when you get bac to the car only to find near bumper to bumper parking and they have gone out fr the evening meaning the SE is stranded for the night.

Brigand

2,547 posts

195 months

Saturday 18th May 2013
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In my opinion, its all about common courtesy really; dumping your car outside someone's house all week whilst you're at work is, although perfectly legal, just bad manners. Those who say to hell with the home owner, just keep parking there as its legal are as militant in their thinking as the guy who thinks that the road outside his house is for his use only.

Do you really want to risk having your car smashed up though? It doesn't matter if the chav bloke did it or not, what are you really going to do? Come back, find your car bashed then run right up to his door, kick it in and fight him? Fitting cameras etc to your car won't stop him doing anything to it, and seems a ridiculous length to go just to keep cluttering up someone's street because you want to save money on parking.

I'm playing devils advocate here as I've been on both sides of the fence on this one, but IMO its just good manners not to park outside someone's house all week long, however legal it might be to do so.

Urban Sports

11,321 posts

229 months

Saturday 18th May 2013
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If he does anything to your car throw a dog egg coated brick through his window.