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this could either be the turning point where you renew the commitment and passion in the relationship, or the break up point. could go either way still, but for it to come to this i'd say you are single.
happened to me prior to xmas. hurt like hell and a headf
k when it was on/off/on/off but ultimately i can see the sense in us splitting up. we were best mates but the relationship wasn't working [it was long distance].
still care for her a lot, still went for a birthday meal together and have chatted on the phone a few times, but its over. salvage what you can, if there is a friendship you need to work out whether you are willing to put up with a little 'weirdness' until your feelings subside enough to carry on as such. this does require commitment on both parts to keep it platonic, which is the hard part but no doubt gets easier with time.
happened to me prior to xmas. hurt like hell and a headf
k when it was on/off/on/off but ultimately i can see the sense in us splitting up. we were best mates but the relationship wasn't working [it was long distance]. still care for her a lot, still went for a birthday meal together and have chatted on the phone a few times, but its over. salvage what you can, if there is a friendship you need to work out whether you are willing to put up with a little 'weirdness' until your feelings subside enough to carry on as such. this does require commitment on both parts to keep it platonic, which is the hard part but no doubt gets easier with time.
Cara Van Man said:
Cap'n Custud said:
Today, after a long discussion with other half last night, I have packed a few things in a bag and am going to my brothers. We are calling it a break but I am scared it is more. We are great friends just crap at boyfriend and grilfriend. I just cant get my head around this. I instigated it as other half never would, he is a blokey put his head in the sand sort of guy.
The plan is I stay away for a week to think our future through and he does the same.
Why am I telling you? Well I guess I just want to tell some unsympathetic strangers as writing helps. I am afraid you can't have your 2 minutes back though.
It's sad when that happens, but can usually be alleviated by having wild, no strings, gratuitous bum sex with a stranger in a caravan.The plan is I stay away for a week to think our future through and he does the same.
Why am I telling you? Well I guess I just want to tell some unsympathetic strangers as writing helps. I am afraid you can't have your 2 minutes back though.
HTH
Cap'n Custud said:
Just the replies I have come to love and expect from you guys. A small smile is on my face.
Oh and red seatbelts are the best!
Should there be a PH agony section so loosers like me don't clutter up the chatter?
Just because your current relationship seems to have come to an end, that doesn't make you a loser.Oh and red seatbelts are the best!
Should there be a PH agony section so loosers like me don't clutter up the chatter?
Take a few deep breaths and carry on.
Cap'n Custud said:
Just the replies I have come to love and expect from you guys. A small smile is on my face.
Oh and red seatbelts are the best!
Should there be a PH agony section so loosers like me don't clutter up the chatter?
OK, that's enough sympathy princess. Put out or fOh and red seatbelts are the best!
Should there be a PH agony section so loosers like me don't clutter up the chatter?
k off.Edited by Landlord on Tuesday 10th February 10:55
have a break. sometimes works, mostly dont go back. You just need to think about the reasons you dont want to be together. If they are significant have some balls and leave for good, in the long run it will make you happier but you will have to go through the emotional pain initially.
Landlord said:
Cap'n Custud said:
Just the replies I have come to love and expect from you guys. A small smile is on my face.
Oh and red seatbelts are the best!
Should there be a PH agony section so loosers like me don't clutter up the chatter?
OK, that's enough sympathy princess. Put out or fOh and red seatbelts are the best!
Should there be a PH agony section so loosers like me don't clutter up the chatter?
k off.
Yeah!
Landlord said:
Cap'n Custud said:
Just the replies I have come to love and expect from you guys. A small smile is on my face.
Oh and red seatbelts are the best!
Should there be a PH agony section so loosers like me don't clutter up the chatter?
OK, that's enough sympathy princess. Put out or fOh and red seatbelts are the best!
Should there be a PH agony section so loosers like me don't clutter up the chatter?
k off.]
When I split up with my previous boyfriend of five years it was for the best. We are so much better as friends now and he really is one of my best friends.
Sometimes things don't work out and it takes a stronger person to admit that a relationship isn't working than just put up and make do. Maybe a bit of breathing space is what you need to enable both of you to decide what you really want, whether that be to work things out or separate.
Sometimes things don't work out and it takes a stronger person to admit that a relationship isn't working than just put up and make do. Maybe a bit of breathing space is what you need to enable both of you to decide what you really want, whether that be to work things out or separate.
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