How long do you want to live?

How long do you want to live?

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DickyC

49,836 posts

199 months

Monday 22nd April
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glenrobbo said:
Superflow said:
Around 70 will do for me.
You won't be saying that when you're 69 and a half! biggrin
Soon after retiring to Devon, my dad's health started to deteriorate and he became maudlin. He drew my brother and me into a conspiracy. "I don't want to be one of those old boys in a home on a plastic chair with my trousers round my ankles waiting for the next accident. If it looks like I'm getting that way, row me out to the middle of the harbour and push me over the side." Every time he said it we agreed we would do this for him. Our resolve was never tested though, because the older he got, the less he said it, until eventually, he stopped saying it altogether. The will to live seems to outweigh everything in the end. He was 86 when he died.

James6112

4,411 posts

29 months

Monday 22nd April
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Luke. said:
cheesejunkie said:
James6112 said:

62 & fine
Still working as I enjoy it & wfh, paid well, don’t do a lot, plenty of time to do what I want. 5k race in 20 mins on a good day. Doing junior parkruns with the 3 grandchildren aged 7 & under every Sunday.
Grandad lived to 93, father 58
I aim to beat grandad.

Think back to when I was 30. Could still have that time ahead of me.


Edited by James6112 on Sunday 21st April 15:01
I've never been very good at running (cycling and karate are my best sports) but 5k in 20 mins impresses me. I'd consider myself doing well in the low 20's. Those grandkids might not be able to keep up.
I have to say 5k in 20 mins sounds a bit of a stretch...
I’ve been lucky as running around 45 years
Top 3 county road running championships a few times (age graded)
First in age group in races a few times (1hr21 HM @ 52)
Creaking a bit now though!
My running mates of same standard from 10 years ago
One knees are shot
The other awaiting a hip replacement!
The first grandchild to beat me will get a prize
6 year old doing the 2k junior parkrun in 11 mins now, she’ll be the first!
Cant wait, will be a proud day.
Back on topic, glad to have survived to 60s
Not quite a dribbling wreck (except weekends)

Edited by James6112 on Monday 22 April 16:14

BigHeavy10

248 posts

72 months

Saturday 27th April
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I have no interest in living now. Just sticking around long enough to see the kids into their 20s.
Another 15 years and then Ill be buggering off. Thatll be 45ish.

GT3Manthey

4,531 posts

50 months

Sunday 28th April
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BigHeavy10 said:
I have no interest in living now. Just sticking around long enough to see the kids into their 20s.
Another 15 years and then Ill be buggering off. Thatll be 45ish.
Although no one knows their 'pop off' date

bloomen

6,934 posts

160 months

Sunday 28th April
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GT3Manthey said:
Although no one knows their 'pop off' date
The younger and more drama queeny one's prediction, the greater the likelihood of lingering for the full 120 years.

Kermit power

28,692 posts

214 months

Sunday 28th April
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Skeptisk said:
General Price said:
He's the oldest man,there are older women.

As long as I'm healthy and fit enough to get about will do me.
You are right. Typo. I did mean to write oldest man.
Also, that's oldest in the UK, not the world.

The oldest person in the world is Maria Branyas Moreras in Spain, who is 117. The oldest in the UK is 114yr old Ethel May Caterham. Disappointingly we do not know if she has ever owned a Caterham, but one (possibly) interesting fact about her is that she is the last person left alive in the UK who was old enough to vote in the last General Election at which the winning party won not only the majority of seats but also the majority of votes!

As for how old I'd like to be when I pop my clogs, I have no idea because I'm not old enough to know yet!

There's only a couple of years between my octogenarian parents, but my father seems about 15yrs older. Early stages of dementia, no longer safe behind the wheel, needs to use a stairlift, has had several falls, in constant pain... My mother, on the other hand, has a few aches and pains, but still has a razor sharp mind and has just given back her blue badge following her second knee replacement.

If I turn out more like my father I doubt I'll want to get past 80. If I turn out like my mother, however, bring on triple digits!

thegreenhell

15,444 posts

220 months

Sunday 28th April
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bloomen said:
GT3Manthey said:
Although no one knows their 'pop off' date
The younger and more drama queeny one's prediction, the greater the likelihood of lingering for the full 120 years.
That reminds me of a philosophical question. If you had to choose one of these options, would you choose to know when you were going to die or how you were going to die?

Cotty

39,613 posts

285 months

Sunday 28th April
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GT3Manthey said:
Although no one knows their 'pop off' date
You can if you arrange it.

RDMcG

19,198 posts

208 months

Sunday 28th April
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Really never expected to live this long (76 this year). Certainly there is ageing,more creaky bones but no mental deterioration.

However the vast majority of my contemporaries take some kind of medication,lots of heart stuff, prostate cancer,diabetes and the like . Most just get on with it. I have outlived all of my mother’s family and am beginning to approach the father’s who all died in their eighties.

Was always aware of the value of time from a very young age, worked from 11 to 74 and loved every job, saw the world and continue to do so.

I have stopped collecting wine, especially very long maturity bottles, and have olenty. Bought my final GT3RS last year and will track it in Europe in September .

There is absolutely no doubt that I will start to get rid of stuff I no longer need. Most of the cars will go, watches ,antique toys, huge car library and so on.

As long as I am mobile and independent I will still travel-just finished a 15,000km road trip winter season and planning the Europe trip next.

I have no desire to live a very diminished life or to be a dependent. No retirement home “ for active seniors” with cheery staff who use the plural “ and how are we today?” Nonsense.

Therefore I will elect euthanasia when the time comes-legal and easy in Canada. Not fearful -could be a few years or tomorrow but zero chance of being 90 and no wish to be some TV watching codger reminiscing about the good old days with other codgers.

Gigamoons

17,739 posts

201 months

Sunday 28th April
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thegreenhell said:
bloomen said:
GT3Manthey said:
Although no one knows their 'pop off' date
The younger and more drama queeny one's prediction, the greater the likelihood of lingering for the full 120 years.
That reminds me of a philosophical question. If you had to choose one of these options, would you choose to know when you were going to die or how you were going to die?
Definitely how.

And then make a mental note to resist making impulse decisions if in the future I notice a bargain skydiving excursion when holidaying in Cuba.
Genius wink