Match.com (Vol. 7)
Discussion
mickythefish said:
Adam. said:
I am not following:
she doesn't like to message via tinder?
why are you stalking her on TikTok?
why bother asking for her number?
why haven't you asked her out on a date?
out of interest how old are you?
No I met her on tiktok common interest, thinking she doesn't like to message via tinder?
why are you stalking her on TikTok?
why bother asking for her number?
why haven't you asked her out on a date?
out of interest how old are you?
Yes all these women on tiktok love attention. But maybe I've found a real one, that's the gamble and I do genuinely like her, not just because she has big tits
Adam. said:
Aha I see.
With respect, stop dicking around and ask her out.
a) all this prevarication makes you look unconfident aka a loser
b) it will soon confirm if she is real
I have a few times but rebuffed. Told her I like her etc so clear I fancy her. Still chatting. Will give it a few months only way tbh. Is she catfishing me , she is 99% real person. Habe a look online a lot of people chatting on tiktok as you have people with common interests and you can find out all about them as well .With respect, stop dicking around and ask her out.
a) all this prevarication makes you look unconfident aka a loser
b) it will soon confirm if she is real
mickythefish said:
I have a few times but rebuffed. Told her I like her etc so clear I fancy her. Still chatting. Will give it a few months only way tbh. Is she catfishing me , she is 99% real person. Habe a look online a lot of people chatting on tiktok as you have people with common interests and you can find out all about them as well .
Months!! MONTHS!!! Ffs man - start a 72 hour countdown and move on.Eta - I have a one week rule, no date, no more chitty chatty as I'm wasting valuable beer drinking time with my mates in the local. I was happy to make an exception with the current one but that's as she was going on holiday - and even then she re-jigged things and we had an afternoon together before she went away the next morning.
Edited by Petrus1983 on Tuesday 21st May 13:57
mickythefish said:
she has clearly been hurt in the past.
So she has a history of being attracted to bad boys who have treated her like s
t? And let me guess, if she only gave you a chance then she would realise just what she has been missing out on?And as we know, nothing turns a woman on more than a white knight simp?
Wake up, she will continue to want to date these guys as they are exciting and it is a challenge to her, it is just like the job interview analogy above. She has a hundred guys like you, orbiters that she couldn't care less about who she keeps them around for attention, emotional support and maybe they might come in useful some time.
Don't be the guy she cry's to about how much of an asshole her boyfriend is whilst thinking "She just needs to realise what a nice guy I am". Before you know it she is back with the boyfriend because he sent her a message telling her he wanted to hookup.
Let her be someone else's problem. Ironically you have more chance with her if you ghost her and treat her like s
t.Remember, she is one OF a million, not one IN a million.
It's only going to end one way, you wasting a hell of a lot of your time simply feeding her ego, whilst all the bad boys are banging her silly.
You will never meet her, bin it and get on the apps, hinge is the best, however you do need to make the first move with a solid witty message, and expect most of them to even ignore that.
You will never meet her, bin it and get on the apps, hinge is the best, however you do need to make the first move with a solid witty message, and expect most of them to even ignore that.
mickythefish said:
Move on to what lol. No other takers. Not like I'm losing anything. I'm not a playa. I'll do it my way. I like to learn about them first anyway, build up confidence, she has clearly been hurt in the past. Suits me fine. Time will tell.
Whilst she's getting dicked by someone else. And for every minute you're taking mag'ing her you've lost a minute of finding someone who will actually want to talk to you. mickythefish said:
Funnily enough this come up.
Dating on tiktok
@joannerosem 1st video
I would rather people didn't as I think it is virgin ground, but definitely a lot of lonely women on there. Just got to stand out from the rest I guess.
Yes I've asked about 10 other women out no luck
How? You genuinely come across as a nice guy - I'd say around a 20-30% strike rate should be in order. I keep promising to do a list that will help - it's raining tomorrow so I'm currently covering the boat and will try and sort one. Dating on tiktok
@joannerosem 1st video
I would rather people didn't as I think it is virgin ground, but definitely a lot of lonely women on there. Just got to stand out from the rest I guess.
Yes I've asked about 10 other women out no luck
mickythefish said:
Probably is going no where tbh I'll settle for friendzone . Just wasting time
dafuq do you want to get into the friendzone with online dating."hey its been too long in coming. Im going for a few games of pool later this week do you want to join me?
or im going out for a drink this week do you want to join me?
leaves the date semi open incase there are things she has planned
if she doesnt immedietly say yes friday or yes sat or whatever but gives you a "i can't then forget her.
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