What does 'black tie' mean on an invite?
What does 'black tie' mean on an invite?
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amirzed

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1,778 posts

202 months

Wednesday 30th May 2012
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As above really, been invited to a wedding where the attire is 'black tie', does that mean...?

Literally a black tie with any a dark suit?
Bowtie with a dark suit?
Tuxedo?

It's a Jewish wedding if that makes any difference, didn't want to ring up the couple and ask just yet...

I've hardly been to any non asian weddings so any pointers for me?

ta!

g3org3y

22,262 posts

217 months

Wednesday 30th May 2012
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Dinner jacket (tuxedo). Black bow tie with a white shirt.

Edit to add, don't be one of those jokes who wears a coloured/fun bow tie or a white suit. People who do this think they are 'indervijewel' but in actual fact just looks like tts.

craigjm

20,955 posts

226 months

Wednesday 30th May 2012
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Dinner suit, dress shirt, bow tie, cummerbund and black shoes

Cock Womble 7

29,908 posts

256 months

Wednesday 30th May 2012
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craigjm said:
Dinner suit, dress shirt, bow tie, cummerbund and black shoes
...is the right answer.


And please stop saying "tuxedo".

craigjm

20,955 posts

226 months

Wednesday 30th May 2012
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g3org3y said:
Edit to add, don't be one of those jokes who wears a white suit. People who do this think they are 'indervijewel' but in actual fact just looks like tts.
The correct etiquette is to only wear a white dinner suit (white jacket, black trousers) in locations where the evening temperatures are above 25 degrees

craigjm

20,955 posts

226 months

Wednesday 30th May 2012
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Cock Womble 7 said:
...is the right answer.


And please stop saying "tuxedo".
In the US they are called a Tuxedo as the style was first worn by King George to a dinner at the Tuxedo Club in New York

LeeMad

1,098 posts

179 months

Wednesday 30th May 2012
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Why not ask the couple?

Vieste

10,532 posts

186 months

Wednesday 30th May 2012
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craigjm said:
Cock Womble 7 said:
...is the right answer.


And please stop saying "tuxedo".
In the US they are called a Tuxedo as the style was first worn by King George to a dinner at the Tuxedo Club in New York
So not that stty tuxedo royale ship smile

Wacky Racer

41,020 posts

273 months

Wednesday 30th May 2012
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craigjm said:
g3org3y said:
Edit to add, don't be one of those jokes who wears a white suit. People who do this think they are 'indervijewel' but in actual fact just looks like tts.
The correct etiquette is to only wear a white dinner suit (white jacket, black trousers) in locations where the evening temperatures are above 25 degrees

Cock Womble 7

29,908 posts

256 months

Wednesday 30th May 2012
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craigjm said:
In the US they are called a Tuxedo as the style was first worn by King George to a dinner at the Tuxedo Club in New York
Whoopee do. However, we are not in the US.

Lost soul

8,712 posts

208 months

Wednesday 30th May 2012
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craigjm said:
Dinner suit, dress shirt, bow tie, cummerbund and black shoes
Cummerband is so Terry Wogan

Lost soul

8,712 posts

208 months

Wednesday 30th May 2012
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Cock Womble 7 said:
...is the right answer.


And please stop saying "tuxedo".
Tux is fine , or in Denmark a Smoking

CaptainSlow

13,179 posts

238 months

Wednesday 30th May 2012
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..and a normal collar...don't wear a winged one with a black tie

craigjm

20,955 posts

226 months

Wednesday 30th May 2012
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Lost soul said:
Cummerband is so Terry Wogan
It's bund not band and is formally part of the attire

Cotty

42,102 posts

310 months

Wednesday 30th May 2012
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Lost soul said:
Cummerband is so Terry Wogan
I don't care, i still wear one. tongue out

Lost soul

8,712 posts

208 months

Wednesday 30th May 2012
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craigjm said:
Lost soul said:
Cummerband is so Terry Wogan
It's bund not band and is formally part of the attire
Its an old fart add on

marshalla

15,902 posts

227 months

Wednesday 30th May 2012
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Cock Womble 7 said:
...is the right answer.


And please stop saying "tuxedo".
And while we're at it - "invite" is a verb. "Invitation" is the noun.

When it says "black tie" it means BLACK tie - don't think you can get away with any comedy patterned bow ties, or funny coloured ones either. We'll be watching. We'll also know if you sink to the level of wearing a made-up tie. The PH way is to tie it yourself so you can, as the hours wear on, nonchalantly untie it and allow it to drape raffishly as you select & seduce your next prey wink

Famous Graham

26,553 posts

251 months

Wednesday 30th May 2012
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Cock Womble 7 said:
craigjm said:
In the US they are called a Tuxedo as the style was first worn by King George to a dinner at the Tuxedo Club in New York
Whoopee do. However, we are not in the US.
I am.

You may have noticed.

Cock Womble 7

29,908 posts

256 months

Wednesday 30th May 2012
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Famous Graham said:
You may have noticed.
No, you've never mentioned it before.

tvrolet

4,715 posts

308 months

Wednesday 30th May 2012
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craigjm said:
Dinner suit, dress shirt, bow tie, cummerbund and black shoes
or kilt, dress/evening sporran, prince charlie jacket, ghillie brogues etc.... getmecoat


but still no wing collar with the bow-tie - that's white-tie only