Swinging - good for a relationship? Advice needed.
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All very strange.
Mahatma Bag said:
What Ken is suggesting is that they go to a swinging club, where Ken's aim is to see Mel entertain two blokes while he provides the icing on the cake, as it were.
Your advice to her should be that you need a better understanding of their relationship and get this you need to attend the above event, video it and post it on Pistonheads TV for a considered opinion.
so, woman has affair with [possibly younger] slutty guy [who probably knew she was married], dumps husband and kids to shack up with slutty guy, then is surprised when guy, who she cheated on her husband with, thinks she is some kind of slut and wants to use and abuse her for his own sick ends?
mahatma bag said:
Newsflash....
Mel and Ken have apparently visited the planned venue. A bar with various rooms leading off. The deed was not done, they were merely windowshopping.
Mel is reported to be a bit reluctant to go through with it, but she loves Ken (yeah, crap name, sorry) so much she will do anything to please him.
Mel and Ken have apparently visited the planned venue. A bar with various rooms leading off. The deed was not done, they were merely windowshopping.
Mel is reported to be a bit reluctant to go through with it, but she loves Ken (yeah, crap name, sorry) so much she will do anything to please him.
What does Mel actually think to his idea? She must be 'interested' to have visited propective venue. I'd imagine Ken has already himself partaken in such events (is she aware of this, or is he saying it's his first time too?) If he has already been involved in this scene, then she will become part of it, if she doesn't, he'll do it anyway.
Is it too late to sort her marriage out?
So lets get this straight...
1) she left her husband and kids for another guy
2) she thought the new guy would set uphome with her, that's not happened
3) she's getting pressured into going swinging for his (and probably his mate's) jollies by being told it's good for the relationship
either this is a wind up or she's got to be the most irresponsible and feckless person to have walked this planet
nicecupoftea said:
mahatma bag said:
Newsflash....
Mel and Ken have apparently visited the planned venue. A bar with various rooms leading off. The deed was not done, they were merely windowshopping.
Mel is reported to be a bit reluctant to go through with it, but she loves Ken (yeah, crap name, sorry) so much she will do anything to please him.
Mel and Ken have apparently visited the planned venue. A bar with various rooms leading off. The deed was not done, they were merely windowshopping.
Mel is reported to be a bit reluctant to go through with it, but she loves Ken (yeah, crap name, sorry) so much she will do anything to please him.
Serious mode: Tell her to run. Run as fast as she can and keep running. Sorry but any bloke who is up for this sort of shit is not looking for a serious monogamous relationship. If she wants to keep a shred of dignity or self respect tell him to shag the two blokes himself and go off and sort her head out...
Yep, that wouldbe my take on it.
gretchen said:
mahatma bag said:
Newsflash....
Mel and Ken have apparently visited the planned venue. A bar with various rooms leading off. The deed was not done, they were merely windowshopping.
Mel is reported to be a bit reluctant to go through with it, but she loves Ken (yeah, crap name, sorry) so much she will do anything to please him.
Mel and Ken have apparently visited the planned venue. A bar with various rooms leading off. The deed was not done, they were merely windowshopping.
Mel is reported to be a bit reluctant to go through with it, but she loves Ken (yeah, crap name, sorry) so much she will do anything to please him.
What does Mel actually think to his idea? She must be 'interested' to have visited propective venue. I'd imagine Ken has already himself partaken in such events (is she aware of this, or is he saying it's his first time too?) If he has already been involved in this scene, then she will become part of it, if she doesn't, he'll do it anyway.
Is it too late to sort her marriage out?
I haven't had the full report on the visit yet, am working on it.
I think Ken is a regular, or at least has been before, as he knows the signals. Apparently a squeeze on the arm means game on!
mahatma bag said:
I think Ken is a regular, or at least has been before, as he knows the signals. Apparently a squeeze on the arm means game on!
Thought so. So she knows this isn't going to be a one off adventure then? She'll be looking at every fourth Friday.
How old are her children? They need her, far more than Ken does.
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