Favourite Advanced Driving Quotations.

Favourite Advanced Driving Quotations.

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p1esk

4,914 posts

198 months

Sunday 30th March 2008
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BOF said:
""Fair enough. I know what you mean about the 'gut instinct' thing. It's nice when you can sense that somebody is about to do something odd, so you hang back waiting for them to do it, and then they do it, and then we all carry on again quite happily.

Best wishes all,
Dave.""

Very true,

But, in that not every driver seems to possess the 'gut instinct'...,

What would be your advice to IAM Observers on how to try to give this insight to inexperienced drivers?

BOF.
I've been struggling to find a coherent answer to this, and I'm not sure I've managed it even now, so all I can suggest is this:

One of the things I enjoy about driving is the feeling of being in a harmonious relationship with other road users - of all types - and this is something I actively seek. To me it is in no way a tiresome chore to approach it in this manner, it is what I prefer to do, and I certainly do not want to get involved in any kind of battle or competition with anybody else. If that's how they wish to do things they must get on with it, and I'll proceed when they're out of the way.

This may seem a very odd approach to many people, but I usually feel kindly disposed to other road users, ready to help them get where they're going in a sensible fashion, and looking to take my opportunities to get where I want to go without upsetting anybody else's peaceful progress.

Having adopted this generally benevolent (if that's the right word) attitude to others, I try to be aware of what they are trying to do - which comes back of course to observation and anticipation - and have sufficient time and space in which to deal easily with whatever happens. It doesn't always work out as well as I would wish, but generally it keeps things pretty decent.

As I say this might seem a strange approach, but if you look more carefully at what others appear to be wanting to do, and maintain a give and take approach, I think the improved gut instinct probably develops fairly naturally along with that. It takes time of course, but it may help to promote that ability more readily.

Best wishes all,
Dave.

GreenV8S

30,259 posts

286 months

Sunday 30th March 2008
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p1esk said:
One of the things I enjoy about driving is the feeling of being in a harmonious relationship with other road users - of all types - and this is something I actively seek.
Well said.

GravelBen

15,748 posts

232 months

Sunday 30th March 2008
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jaf01uk said:
My favourite which happens to be true as well, I pass it on whenever I can and it is "never ever trust anybody driving a vehicle with a hat on" I swear its true, any kind of hat, flat cap, baseball cap, beanie, womens hats.......... all kinds! cop
I only wear a hat when I'm driving a convertible! Surely thats different?

944Nick

931 posts

216 months

Sunday 30th March 2008
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"Mr C*ck-Up is always ready to visit"

Just a little reminder to keep it safe and sane on the road ;-)

regards
Nick

Edited by 944Nick on Sunday 30th March 23:18

Strangely Brown

10,199 posts

233 months

Monday 31st March 2008
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erdnase said:
It turns out that parents actually do know a thing or two after all. Who'd have thought it.
I have found that the older my parents get, the smarter they get.

wink

p1esk

4,914 posts

198 months

Monday 31st March 2008
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Strangely Brown said:
erdnase said:
It turns out that parents actually do know a thing or two after all. Who'd have thought it.
I have found that the older my parents get, the smarter they get.

wink
I expect they've been listening to you a bit more attentively, Mark. laugh

Our Mike seems to think I know nuffin that's of any use. frown

Best wishes all,
Dave.

PeteG

4,269 posts

213 months

Thursday 3rd April 2008
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jaf01uk said:
My favourite which happens to be true as well, I pass it on whenever I can and it is "never ever trust anybody driving a vehicle with a hat on" I swear its true, any kind of hat, flat cap, baseball cap, beanie, womens hats.......... all kinds! cop
Very true.

p1esk

4,914 posts

198 months

Thursday 3rd April 2008
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PeteG said:
jaf01uk said:
My favourite which happens to be true as well, I pass it on whenever I can and it is "never ever trust anybody driving a vehicle with a hat on" I swear its true, any kind of hat, flat cap, baseball cap, beanie, womens hats.......... all kinds! cop
Very true.
Oh I hope not. Is it OK if I occasionally wear my Ferrari hat? I don't want to have to pension it off just yet; I only bought it in 1988. laugh

Best wishes all,
Dave - advanced cheapskate.