Man arrested after baby girl is punched in a supermarket.

Man arrested after baby girl is punched in a supermarket.

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tommunster10

1,128 posts

92 months

Saturday 26th November 2016
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If I saw a grown man punch a toy doll whilst it was with its 'parent' (girl), that alone would warrant thinking this guy should be picked up so they could do some health checks on him at least. for his own good as much as anything.
Having a 2 year old girl she REALLY thinks these dolls of hers are real and it disturbs her to see me grab them and chuck them off the sofa let alone some bloke doing it... so no excuse even to think it was a doll, still weird and still needs professional help..

Digby

8,251 posts

247 months

Saturday 26th November 2016
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Greg66 said:
Well done for finding her. You deserve each other.

Perhaps you two could spend the afternoon at the playground kicking the st out of 6 year olds for a laugh. They're pretty robust by that age, so your japes can be full on. No one will mind.
Awesome. Now I am a child beater and agree with child molesting laugh

You guys....thank fk the world isn't full of people like you lot. thumbup

Just look how an open handed tap to wake a sleeping doll as a joke has turned in to a 'media moguls wet dream' witch-hunt.
If only you were able to think objectively rather than trying to think of abusive / funny things to say.

I did laugh by the way!

Edit to add I forgot to enter the word 'PUNCHED' in bold....may aswell just put DROP-KICKED I guess.

Talking of which...

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Cft0pr7lIWA






Edited by Digby on Saturday 26th November 22:20

Digby

8,251 posts

247 months

Saturday 26th November 2016
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tommunster10 said:
Having a 2 year old girl she REALLY thinks these dolls of hers are real and it disturbs her to see me grab them and chuck them off the sofa let alone some bloke doing it... so no excuse even to think it was a doll, still weird and still needs professional help..
So you know the actions of throwing them will upset your Daughter, but you still do it, and it's this guy making his first and only mistake such as this in life that needs help?

Good grief man, feeling sorry for this guys mistake has led to some of the unhinged on here suggesting I should beat up six year olds and molest kids.

What the hell will they say to you?!

Log off and hide your I.P address etc, now!!

e8_pack

1,384 posts

182 months

Saturday 26th November 2016
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Nanook said:
Digby said:
I am. He sounds like the kind of person who is trying to put this guy behind bars.

I'm not and never would be in this situation.

Oh and there are several people here who can see this for what it is, just read the comments. There are thousands more if you look on other forums / web pages.

I'm very far from being alone in feeling this way.

Even the law itself seems to have been a tad merciful.

Edited by Digby on Saturday 26th November 09:37
I don't believe he should have went to jail. I don't believe the courts were 'merciful', they were sensible.

But I can't understand why you're defending the guy. And I can't get my head around the fact that you state if some complete random came up to you in a supermarket, and punched your 5 day old child on the head, you'd just say "Oh, you're so silly!", shake his hand, and be done with it. That's not a normal reaction. And if you have a wife, I'm pretty certain she wouldn't respond in the same manner.
He wasn't random, he was known by the family, husband of a work colleague or something.

I have a 14 month old daughter, I spend all my spare time tickling her, kicking balls at her, throwing her on the bed and generally antagonising her playfully, which has from time to time included some doll throwing, punching and general horseplay. In turn she kicks me, climbs on me, throws stuff at me and has bitten the head off one doll, so I'm sorry to say, the dolls/teddies are usually the ones that get it worst.

Alpinestars

13,954 posts

245 months

Sunday 27th November 2016
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Digby said:
A weird sense of humour, granted, but not one we haven't seen before. It backfired.
Do you believe he thought the baby was a doll? Or do you think he thought it would be funny to hit a real baby?

e8_pack

1,384 posts

182 months

Sunday 27th November 2016
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Alpinestars said:
Digby said:
A weird sense of humour, granted, but not one we haven't seen before. It backfired.
Do you believe he thought the baby was a doll? Or do you think he thought it would be funny to hit a real baby?
It's quite clear he thought the baby was a doll, owned by the 6yr old sat next to it in the trolly.

The question is, have you ever played with a child by use of its toys?

And when playing with those toys, do you treat them as delicate human beings incase they are real babies, or do you treat them like, well, toys.

Welshbeef

49,633 posts

199 months

Sunday 27th November 2016
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e8_pack said:
It's quite clear he thought the baby was a doll, owned by the 6yr old sat next to it in the trolly.

The question is, have you ever played with a child by use of its toys?

And when playing with those toys, do you treat them as delicate human beings incase they are real babies, or do you treat them like, well, toys.
Given children watch and learn from adults "punching a baby" isn't he sort of pretend games any sane person would want to do.
I can picture the scenario - day after you've been playing "punch the baby" school call you your child needs to be collected he/she has just struck another child & oddly stated you were playing that game yesterday and she was showing her/his friend. Social care will be notified.

popeyewhite

20,089 posts

121 months

Sunday 27th November 2016
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Alpinestars said:
Digby said:
A weird sense of humour, granted, but not one we haven't seen before. It backfired.
Do you believe he thought the baby was a doll? Or do you think he thought it would be funny to hit a real baby?
Oh come on!

Digby

8,251 posts

247 months

Sunday 27th November 2016
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e8_pack said:
Nanook said:
Digby said:
I am. He sounds like the kind of person who is trying to put this guy behind bars.

I'm not and never would be in this situation.

Oh and there are several people here who can see this for what it is, just read the comments. There are thousands more if you look on other forums / web pages.

I'm very far from being alone in feeling this way.

Even the law itself seems to have been a tad merciful.

Edited by Digby on Saturday 26th November 09:37
I don't believe he should have went to jail. I don't believe the courts were 'merciful', they were sensible.

But I can't understand why you're defending the guy. And I can't get my head around the fact that you state if some complete random came up to you in a supermarket, and punched your 5 day old child on the head, you'd just say "Oh, you're so silly!", shake his hand, and be done with it. That's not a normal reaction. And if you have a wife, I'm pretty certain she wouldn't respond in the same manner.
He wasn't random, he was known by the family, husband of a work colleague or something.

I have a 14 month old daughter, I spend all my spare time tickling her, kicking balls at her, throwing her on the bed and generally antagonising her playfully, which has from time to time included some doll throwing, punching and general horseplay. In turn she kicks me, climbs on me, throws stuff at me and has bitten the head off one doll, so I'm sorry to say, the dolls/teddies are usually the ones that get it worst.
Obviously, going by some of the responses, some here had pretty boring childhoods - although they may not realise it or want to admit it.

We set fire to my "Flame on" Human Torch Fantastic Four doll in the 70's. I suppose I should be sectioned immediately!

Alpinestars

13,954 posts

245 months

Sunday 27th November 2016
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e8_pack said:
It's quite clear he thought the baby was a doll, owned by the 6yr old sat next to it in the trolly.

The question is, have you ever played with a child by use of its toys?

And when playing with those toys, do you treat them as delicate human beings incase they are real babies, or do you treat them like, well, toys.
The question was specifically for the poster I asked it to.

But, how is it clear he thought it was a toy? The judge didn't believe that to be the case. Why do you, with a lot less evidence?

Digby

8,251 posts

247 months

Sunday 27th November 2016
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Alpinestars said:
The question was specifically for the poster I asked it to.

But, how is it clear he thought it was a toy? The judge didn't believe that to be the case. Why do you, with a lot less evidence?
The judge was no doubt just sending a message and trying to be sensible - not uncommon.

And can we now drop the media favoured / witch-hunters special "Punch" wording ?

He saw a young girl hanging over the "doll", asked if he should wake it up and flicked it with his finger in an attempt to make the young girl laugh.

I would rather see the family fined for wasting police time.







Alpinestars

13,954 posts

245 months

Sunday 27th November 2016
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Digby said:
The judge was no doubt just sending a message and trying to be sensible - not uncommon.

And can we now drop the media favoured / witch-hunters special "Punch" wording ?

He saw a young girl hanging over the "doll", asked if he should wake it up and flicked it with his finger in an attempt to make the young girl laugh.

I would rather see the family fined for wasting police time.
The judge said it was "implausible" that he thought it was a doll. Don't you believe the judge's judgement or do you have evidence the Judge didn't have?

Digby

8,251 posts

247 months

Sunday 27th November 2016
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Alpinestars said:
The judge said it was "implausible" that he thought it was a doll. Don't you believe the judge's judgement or do you have evidence the Judge didn't have?
"Earlier, the judge accepted that the attack had been an isolated incident and ‘completely out of character’."

Given he was shown it wasn't a punch, on this emotive topic, he was being sensible and sending a message maybe? Not uncommon.

Unless, of course, you accept that you can be a serial baby puncher and only expect a fine?

Alpinestars

13,954 posts

245 months

Sunday 27th November 2016
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Digby said:
"Earlier, the judge accepted that the attack had been an isolated incident and ‘completely out of character’."

Given he was shown it wasn't a punch, on this emotive topic, he was being sensible and sending a message maybe? Not uncommon.

Unless, of course, you accept that you can be a serial baby puncher and only expect a fine?
If I go out and kill someone would it be ok because I've never done it before? What a stupid argument.

anonymous-user

55 months

Sunday 27th November 2016
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Digby said:
Alpinestars said:
The judge said it was "implausible" that he thought it was a doll. Don't you believe the judge's judgement or do you have evidence the Judge didn't have?
"Earlier, the judge accepted that the attack had been an isolated incident and ‘completely out of character’."

Given he was shown it wasn't a punch, on this emotive topic, he was being sensible and sending a message maybe? Not uncommon.

Unless, of course, you accept that you can be a serial baby puncher and only expect a fine?
I like you way you sidestep what the judge said by claiming it was "sending a message" because it doesn't agree with your conclusion.

Of course it's much more likely the judge would lie about the plausibility (that's what he would have to be doing, which you claim is 'hardly uncommon') to 'send a message' rather than it actually being the judge's assessment of the defendant's defence...



Mr GrimNasty

8,172 posts

171 months

Sunday 27th November 2016
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Baby punch Russian roulette? Only 1 is real.



These things are so realistic Police Officers have broken into cars to 'save' them i.e. even professionals are fooled.

The peculiar thing is that very young babies do have a very doll like complexion, if I had a £1 every time I'd heard someone ask a new mum if her baby was real.....

Why some people can't understand that the bloke made a very stupid but understandable mistake still baffles me.

Despite all the 'outrage', clearly the punishment reflected that it was not intended, and he was effectively let off with a slap on the wrist.


Digby

8,251 posts

247 months

Sunday 27th November 2016
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Make up what you like, chaps. I don't care how you want to entertain yourselves.

He got fined for flicking his finge.....sorry, PUNCHING a baby.

Sentence wasn't too harsh, wasn't too lenient, was quite sensible if you ask me.




anonymous-user

55 months

Sunday 27th November 2016
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Digby said:
Make up what you like, chaps. I don't care how you want to entertain yourselves.
The one making things up is you by claiming the Judge's comments on the plausibility were him 'sending a message' (and indirectly saying the judge was lying).

Alpinestars

13,954 posts

245 months

Sunday 27th November 2016
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Mr GrimNasty said:
Despite all the 'outrage', clearly the punishment reflected that it was not intended, and he was effectively let off with a slap on the wrist.
Did you also not read that clearly the judge didn't believe that the boxer thought it was a doll?

Alpinestars

13,954 posts

245 months

Sunday 27th November 2016
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Digby said:
Make up what you like, chaps. I don't care how you want to entertain yourselves.

He got fined for flicking his finge.....sorry, PUNCHING a baby.

Sentence wasn't too harsh, wasn't too lenient, was quite sensible if you ask me.
Troll (doll). That's the only explanation I can come up with.