Even the middle classes are beginning to feel the pinch

Even the middle classes are beginning to feel the pinch

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Cotty

39,659 posts

285 months

Friday 20th November 2015
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Oakey said:
well, unless you're the Hatton Garden Deposit Co biggrin
I had a bit of that, but I don't believe the guys were armed, no one to hold up just a big drill.

otolith

56,451 posts

205 months

Friday 20th November 2015
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They've got 360k in equity. Enough to have little or no mortgage in a decent house somewhere pleasant that the state schools are not stabby. Accept a long commute or a big pay cut. Or stay on the London treadmill, if those numbers matter so much. Either way, quit whining.

Gecko1978

9,789 posts

158 months

Friday 20th November 2015
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On the long commute note I live in Herts but work in morgate heart of the city of London an all that. Door to door is like 60 mins. Hardly a huge commute but instead of a flat I get to live in a house. I know people so caught up living in London they live in 1 bed flats they paid 400+ for in a run down area when they cold live in Herts good schools have a garden etc.

People want a lifestyle or others to think of them like that

Sheepshanks

32,922 posts

120 months

Friday 20th November 2015
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otolith said:
They've got 360k in equity. Enough to have little or no mortgage in a decent house somewhere pleasant that the state schools are not stabby. Accept a long commute or a big pay cut. Or stay on the London treadmill, if those numbers matter so much. Either way, quit whining.
I'm sure a lot of Telegraph readers will think a £725K house must be something amazing but in SW London it could be 3 bed semi. So if they move out they could end up mortgage free in a better property.

They've got non-jobs anyway, so it doesn't matter where they're based.

otolith

56,451 posts

205 months

Friday 20th November 2015
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Exactly.

ClaphamGT3

11,327 posts

244 months

Friday 20th November 2015
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Alex said:
I sympathise with them, seriously. When you earn that sort of money, you expect to have a comfortable life and be able to afford luxuries like private schooling. As this thread shows, everyone else thinks you can. But the truth is, you can't.

It says their take-home is £10k a month, which means they are paying £70k a year in tax. THAT'S the real disgrace. Be smart, work hard, and we'll confiscate your earnings.
Would agree with this. Unless you happen to be mortgage free, there is no way that you can afford to put two children through school on £190k income.

KingNothing

3,172 posts

154 months

Friday 20th November 2015
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Hoofy said:
KingNothing said:
Those poor souls, I don't know how they cope. Get Geldof and Bono on the phone, these are the people who need the real help.
<click> <click> <click>

Every time I click my fingers, 1 child is taken out of private school.
"For just £5 a month, you can provide stabling and haylage for Emme and Belle's horses. Imagine a world, where without your help, these poor children will have to go without Sunday morning riding lessons, it would just be utter barbarity. Which is why we desperately need your help."

vonuber

17,868 posts

166 months

Friday 20th November 2015
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£190k is middleclass? Blimey.

scenario8

6,585 posts

180 months

Friday 20th November 2015
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ClaphamGT3 said:
Alex said:
I sympathise with them, seriously. When you earn that sort of money, you expect to have a comfortable life and be able to afford luxuries like private schooling. As this thread shows, everyone else thinks you can. But the truth is, you can't.

It says their take-home is £10k a month, which means they are paying £70k a year in tax. THAT'S the real disgrace. Be smart, work hard, and we'll confiscate your earnings.
Would agree with this. Unless you happen to be mortgage free, there is no way that you can afford to put two children through school on £190k income.
I strongly doubt the majority of kids at my nephew's public school would be in the mortgage free/household income over £190k camp. I have no interest in checking but I would find that very surprising. FWIW he and his sister attend a fairly well known public school in Surrey. His dad doesn't make over £200k and isn't mortgage free.

Sheepshanks

32,922 posts

120 months

Friday 20th November 2015
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ClaphamGT3 said:
Alex said:
I sympathise with them, seriously. When you earn that sort of money, you expect to have a comfortable life and be able to afford luxuries like private schooling. As this thread shows, everyone else thinks you can. But the truth is, you can't.

It says their take-home is £10k a month, which means they are paying £70k a year in tax. THAT'S the real disgrace. Be smart, work hard, and we'll confiscate your earnings.
Would agree with this. Unless you happen to be mortgage free, there is no way that you can afford to put two children through school on £190k income.
It suggests their net income is £120K/yr. With £30K mortgage and school fees for the first few years of £24K, they've still got £65K/yr to live on - more than £1000 per week. Manageable, surely?

Where they'll have trouble is school fees increasing as the kids go to senior school, plus the additional costs on top of fees are higher then too. They could also have a double whammy of the fee rates themselves increasing faster than their salaries. If school costs are totalling £50K/yr then things get pretty tight.

MC Bodge

21,769 posts

176 months

Friday 20th November 2015
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Sending your children (unnecessarily) to private school is something that you do if you have lots of spare cash -after you have spent enough cash on your expensive lifestyle of choice- or you have a reasonable amount of money and decide to make 'sacrifices' to fund the schooling.

The Telegraph often mentions "school fee angst".

Of course, your children could just go to a local state school....



Sheepshanks

32,922 posts

120 months

Friday 20th November 2015
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MC Bodge said:
Of course, your children could just go to a local state school....
yikes

If their house is only worth £725K it must be in a pretty dodgy area so the schools are likely to be carp. Don't know if you're familiar with these matters but most state schools are rammed so you don't exactly get much choice.

Welshbeef

49,633 posts

199 months

Saturday 21st November 2015
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Sheepshanks said:
It suggests their net income is £120K/yr. With £30K mortgage and school fees for the first few years of £24K, they've still got £65K/yr to live on - more than £1000 per week. Manageable, surely?

Where they'll have trouble is school fees increasing as the kids go to senior school, plus the additional costs on top of fees are higher then too. They could also have a double whammy of the fee rates themselves increasing faster than their salaries. If school costs are totalling £50K/yr then things get pretty tight.
Is wager (we have 4 overseas holidays a year) that they do a number of overseas holidays every year

Skiing £5k
May holiday £5k
August big 2 week holiday £12k
Oct Caribbean/canaries/Maldives/Africa £8k+

On top of lots of weekends doing things and doing things not being cheap. Heck a meal out and a rushed one at that will be not far off £120 before you start.

Depends on your lifestyle really - when I had a job as a 16yo I only earned £13k with college and then going to Uni. No way could I live on that now but back then outgoing a were exceptionally low how things change.

Granfondo

12,241 posts

207 months

Saturday 21st November 2015
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Welshbeef said:
Is wager (we have 4 overseas holidays a year) that they do a number of overseas holidays every year

Skiing £5k
May holiday £5k
August big 2 week holiday £12k
Oct Caribbean/canaries/Maldives/Africa £8k+

On top of lots of weekends doing things and doing things not being cheap. Heck a meal out and a rushed one at that will be not far off £120 before you start.

Depends on your lifestyle really - when I had a job as a 16yo I only earned £13k with college and then going to Uni. No way could I live on that now but back then outgoing a were exceptionally low how things change.
You on the red wine again? wink

rouge59

332 posts

128 months

Saturday 21st November 2015
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Welshbeef said:
Is wager (we have 4 overseas holidays a year) that they do a number of overseas holidays every year

Skiing £5k
May holiday £5k
August big 2 week holiday £12k
Oct Caribbean/canaries/Maldives/Africa £8k+

On top of lots of weekends doing things and doing things not being cheap. Heck a meal out and a rushed one at that will be not far off £120 before you start.

Depends on your lifestyle really - when I had a job as a 16yo I only earned £13k with college and then going to Uni. No way could I live on that now but back then outgoing a were exceptionally low how things change.
You'd be lucky to afford a week in a 2 star in Benidorm, you bullstting knobhead.

WolfAir

456 posts

136 months

Saturday 21st November 2015
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If 190k a year is middle class, what does that make my 18k a year....with overtime?

AJS-

15,366 posts

237 months

Saturday 21st November 2015
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It's the sort of "advice" people come on here looking for.

I especially liked "Their dilemma is how to fund the cost of the girls’ education without sacrificing their lifestyle."

How to buy expensive stuff without making sacrifices elsewhere. Let me know if you crack that one.

Welshbeef

49,633 posts

199 months

Saturday 21st November 2015
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rouge59 said:
Welshbeef said:
Is wager (we have 4 overseas holidays a year) that they do a number of overseas holidays every year

Skiing £5k
May holiday £5k
August big 2 week holiday £12k
Oct Caribbean/canaries/Maldives/Africa £8k+

On top of lots of weekends doing things and doing things not being cheap. Heck a meal out and a rushed one at that will be not far off £120 before you start.

Depends on your lifestyle really - when I had a job as a 16yo I only earned £13k with college and then going to Uni. No way could I live on that now but back then outgoing a were exceptionally low how things change.
You'd be lucky to afford a week in a 2 star in Benidorm, you bullstting knobhead.
Hold on can you clarify here - are you saying a family of 4 skiing at Feb half term all in costs ski passes lessons food drink etc & given you earn £190k your not going to slum it it's not going to be far off £5k.

From the language you use it sounds like your either jealous or simply are unarmware of the cost of things if you want to upscale holidays.

Lol 2 star in Benidorm is what £600 ? - this is £200 a month less than we spend on the months food shopping.

Welshbeef

49,633 posts

199 months

Saturday 21st November 2015
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rouge59 said:
Welshbeef said:
Is wager (we have 4 overseas holidays a year) that they do a number of overseas holidays every year

Skiing £5k
May holiday £5k
August big 2 week holiday £12k
Oct Caribbean/canaries/Maldives/Africa £8k+

On top of lots of weekends doing things and doing things not being cheap. Heck a meal out and a rushed one at that will be not far off £120 before you start.

Depends on your lifestyle really - when I had a job as a 16yo I only earned £13k with college and then going to Uni. No way could I live on that now but back then outgoing a were exceptionally low how things change.
You'd be lucky to afford a week in a 2 star in Benidorm, you bullstting knobhead.
So this is £3,900 which is half board only so all drinks on top plus you need to pay for ski passes for all 4 which is £250per person comfortably plus hire of kit plus lessons plus airport parking.

Pretty easy to get to £5k for skiing & this is not really trying hard at all.

Just what do you expect skiing to cost at half term week for a family of 4?

johnwilliams77

8,308 posts

104 months

Saturday 21st November 2015
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Welshbeef said:
Hold on can you clarify here - are you saying a family of 4 skiing at Feb half term all in costs ski passes lessons food drink etc & given you earn £190k your not going to slum it it's not going to be far off £5k.

From the language you use it sounds like your either jealous or simply are unarmware of the cost of things if you want to upscale holidays.

Lol 2 star in Benidorm is what £600 ? - this is £200 a month less than we spend on the months food shopping.
What a great achievement (£800 on food PCM)