Cheating wife - what to do?
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R500POP said:
Kateg28 said:
By the way, I did have an affair for 5 years but I was the other woman.
Bloody homewrecker..................Just kidding.
KrazyIvan said:
Anyone else starting to think that some of theses "My ho's been sucking off other Bro's" threads are starting to get a little too common for them All to be real. This is fast becoming the Lounge equivalent to "What Car should I buy"
I mean if you take PH, as a guide then pretty much every women out there is struggling to keep here knickers where M&S intended, and they are all money grabbing snakes.
No offence to the OP, if it is as you say it is, I hope you get it all sorted out and wish nothing but the best for you, and herpes for her.
unfortunately buddy it is rife, especially among professionals who work long hours and earn a decent wage.I mean if you take PH, as a guide then pretty much every women out there is struggling to keep here knickers where M&S intended, and they are all money grabbing snakes.
No offence to the OP, if it is as you say it is, I hope you get it all sorted out and wish nothing but the best for you, and herpes for her.
it seems the more you earn the more likely you are to cheat and while your out earning your other half is lonely and getting some attention from someone else
took me a minute, that would have been funnier than M$S, dam my middle class wannabe status.Allow her back into your life and suggest spicing up your sex life with toys etc
Take her out for an evening, wine and dine her and take her back to your home. Take her straight to bed and while you kiss and undress eachother, pull out the handcuffs and blindfold and suggest you want to try something kinky.Tie her to the bed, wrap her eyes and then kiss her gently from her neck down to her thighs, then pull out the vibrator and start teasing her vagina, suggest some KY might make it easier to slip it in, this is where you pull out the Tabasco sauce, coat the dildo and ram it where the sun don't shine
Take her out for an evening, wine and dine her and take her back to your home. Take her straight to bed and while you kiss and undress eachother, pull out the handcuffs and blindfold and suggest you want to try something kinky.Tie her to the bed, wrap her eyes and then kiss her gently from her neck down to her thighs, then pull out the vibrator and start teasing her vagina, suggest some KY might make it easier to slip it in, this is where you pull out the Tabasco sauce, coat the dildo and ram it where the sun don't shine
Happy82 said:
Allow her back into your life and suggest spicing up your sex life with toys etc
Take her out for an evening, wine and dine her and take her back to your home. Take her straight to bed and while you kiss and undress eachother, pull out the handcuffs and blindfold and suggest you want to try something kinky.Tie her to the bed, wrap her eyes and then kiss her gently from her neck down to her thighs, then pull out the vibrator and start teasing her vagina, suggest some KY might make it easier to slip it in, this is where you pull out the Tabasco sauce, coat the dildo and ram it where the sun don't shine
I can't believe you actually invested time to write that drivel.Take her out for an evening, wine and dine her and take her back to your home. Take her straight to bed and while you kiss and undress eachother, pull out the handcuffs and blindfold and suggest you want to try something kinky.Tie her to the bed, wrap her eyes and then kiss her gently from her neck down to her thighs, then pull out the vibrator and start teasing her vagina, suggest some KY might make it easier to slip it in, this is where you pull out the Tabasco sauce, coat the dildo and ram it where the sun don't shine
johnfm said:
Happy82 said:
Allow her back into your life and suggest spicing up your sex life with toys etc
Take her out for an evening, wine and dine her and take her back to your home. Take her straight to bed and while you kiss and undress eachother, pull out the handcuffs and blindfold and suggest you want to try something kinky.Tie her to the bed, wrap her eyes and then kiss her gently from her neck down to her thighs, then pull out the vibrator and start teasing her vagina, suggest some KY might make it easier to slip it in, this is where you pull out the Tabasco sauce, coat the dildo and ram it where the sun don't shine
I can't believe you actually invested time to write that drivel.Take her out for an evening, wine and dine her and take her back to your home. Take her straight to bed and while you kiss and undress eachother, pull out the handcuffs and blindfold and suggest you want to try something kinky.Tie her to the bed, wrap her eyes and then kiss her gently from her neck down to her thighs, then pull out the vibrator and start teasing her vagina, suggest some KY might make it easier to slip it in, this is where you pull out the Tabasco sauce, coat the dildo and ram it where the sun don't shine
anonymous said:
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Just make sure that they do not have "NEXT" written in them. 
Sorry for your situation OP. Not knowing either of you, or your depth of relationship outside of this excursion, I am afraid I can't offer any meaningful advice.
My best guess is that she needs to know that she wants the relationship to work going forward, because it would seem that you have up till now.
To take a contrary view to the "bin her" style, there is a possibility that it was a one off and something fairly innocent that got out of control. Perhaps she will have learned the value of her relationship with you and your child, and vow to herself and you to nip such things in the bud and maintain control in future.
Now you have to prove to each other that you can deal with this mentally, and strive to make the relationship work - not just on the trust and faithfulness, but on all levels.
Good luck whatever you do.
You'll never trust her again. Don't be a bitter d
head, in this situation I would sit down with her and speak fankly about what has happened. Explain that you love her and want to stay with her forever but due to her actions you can't(this is guaranteed to upset her a lot) ensure you 'dump' her. You will think your doing the wrong thing many times but trust me you aren't. As mentioned earlier if you stay together you will be wondering where she is all the time and it will eat at you. In turn you will most likely become stty with her as your paranoid which creates the viscios circle of her disliking you and shagging your colleagues.
Definatly get rid, and feel sorry for her as she has made the biggest mistake of her life. Have some self respect man. Its something a lot of people are lacking in this day and age.
head, in this situation I would sit down with her and speak fankly about what has happened. Explain that you love her and want to stay with her forever but due to her actions you can't(this is guaranteed to upset her a lot) ensure you 'dump' her. You will think your doing the wrong thing many times but trust me you aren't. As mentioned earlier if you stay together you will be wondering where she is all the time and it will eat at you. In turn you will most likely become stty with her as your paranoid which creates the viscios circle of her disliking you and shagging your colleagues.Definatly get rid, and feel sorry for her as she has made the biggest mistake of her life. Have some self respect man. Its something a lot of people are lacking in this day and age.
Phers are getting weak, who ever said you can't respect her because you called her a bh? Get real she is a bh a cheating bh.
Colleague needs sorting out him and rest of them probebly think your a walk over, smash his head in, at home where ever, if he has a missus ruin his life too.
Leave now, make her know you love her but its finished, sell up now if you can fiddle your cash plead poverty, give her fk all, love your child, give them everything, until there old enough to tell mummy there moving in with dad.
If you don't do this you fail at being a man.
h? Get real she is a bh a cheating bh.Colleague needs sorting out him and rest of them probebly think your a walk over, smash his head in, at home where ever, if he has a missus ruin his life too.
Leave now, make her know you love her but its finished, sell up now if you can fiddle your cash plead poverty, give her f
k all, love your child, give them everything, until there old enough to tell mummy there moving in with dad.If you don't do this you fail at being a man.
My ex royally screwed me over a couple of years ago, 3 weeks before xmas while I was at work! We tried again and finally packed it in nearly a year ago now. I wanted to try again for the kids sake but it was no good.
We actually get on quite well now, despite both having new partners. Not that it has been easy mind. She was even asking me car advice last week!
Your main concern now is damage limitation. DO NOT MOVE OUT OF THE HOUSE.
Don't be a mug OP, good luck.
Oh and...
We actually get on quite well now, despite both having new partners. Not that it has been easy mind. She was even asking me car advice last week!
Your main concern now is damage limitation. DO NOT MOVE OUT OF THE HOUSE.
Don't be a mug OP, good luck.
Oh and...
Landlord said:
hora said:
Theres also another saying 'when a womans heads been turned only a spade will turn it back'.
Are you seriously suggesting some kind of interracial cuckold/bull scenario?! I'm not sure that'll help!Whoever said: "Take no advice from this thread" is spot on. We all no know PH is mainly full of bitter divorcees 
I know a cousin where he caught his wife cheating. He admitted, as the OP, that he'd been a pretty crap husband. She confessed that she still loved him and wanted him but he'd shown only irritation, crticism and rejection towards her for some time (he agreed) and she really needed someone in her life who wanted her company and gave some affection. Men being men some predator spotted the opportunity, affection moved on a bit, probably with a bit of a bit of emotional blackmail from the scoundrel other guy. The husband mended his ways, realising what was at stake and she got what she wanted from the right source and I think they've been together about 25 years now. It can be done if the wronged can admit they were are large contributor to the situation.
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I know a cousin where he caught his wife cheating. He admitted, as the OP, that he'd been a pretty crap husband. She confessed that she still loved him and wanted him but he'd shown only irritation, crticism and rejection towards her for some time (he agreed) and she really needed someone in her life who wanted her company and gave some affection. Men being men some predator spotted the opportunity, affection moved on a bit, probably with a bit of a bit of emotional blackmail from the scoundrel other guy. The husband mended his ways, realising what was at stake and she got what she wanted from the right source and I think they've been together about 25 years now. It can be done if the wronged can admit they were are large contributor to the situation.
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FamilyGuy said:
Whoever said: "Take no advice from this thread" is spot on. We all no know PH is mainly full of bitter divorcees
I know a cousin where he caught his wife cheating. He admitted, as the OP, that he'd been a pretty crap husband. She confessed that she still loved him and wanted him but he'd shown only irritation, crticism and rejection towards her for some time (he agreed) and she really needed someone in her life who wanted her company and gave some affection. Men being men some predator spotted the opportunity, affection moved on a bit, probably with a bit of a bit of emotional blackmail from the scoundrel other guy. The husband mended his ways, realising what was at stake and she got what she wanted from the right source and I think they've been together about 25 years now. It can be done if the wronged can admit they were are large contributor to the situation.
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She had a workmate back to HIS HOUSE. She was openly talking about a shagging a guy on facebook. Come on, does that sound like a case of a minor indiscretion caused by a "lack of affection". I am not the bitter divorcee at all - there is however no way I would take that Harpy back. I know a cousin where he caught his wife cheating. He admitted, as the OP, that he'd been a pretty crap husband. She confessed that she still loved him and wanted him but he'd shown only irritation, crticism and rejection towards her for some time (he agreed) and she really needed someone in her life who wanted her company and gave some affection. Men being men some predator spotted the opportunity, affection moved on a bit, probably with a bit of a bit of emotional blackmail from the scoundrel other guy. The husband mended his ways, realising what was at stake and she got what she wanted from the right source and I think they've been together about 25 years now. It can be done if the wronged can admit they were are large contributor to the situation.
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as for the bloke - I do hope when you walked in on him, in your lounge you said: You know, you can ball my wife if she wants you to. You can lounge around here on her sofa, in her ex-husband's dead-tech, post-modernistic bulls
t house if you want to. But you do not get to watch MY fkING TELEVISION SET R.
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