Playful slaps with OH - Is it on?
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Justayellowbadge said:
Very much NOT this.
Don't take advice from individuals for whom a vest is outerwear.
Why not, men & women are equal aren't they? If a man slapped you would return the favour.Don't take advice from individuals for whom a vest is outerwear.
I'm only joking though, talk to her OP. Maybe she doesn't realise your getting pissed off.
My wife often says "I really really want to punch you in the face now" to which I always reply "Go ahead, as hard as you can. I believe in equality. If you can't kill me, with one punch, I get to punch you as hard as I can, It's only fair and equal that way"
Suggest the OP tells his OH that if she thinks it's okay to slap him, that he can slap her, at any time he feels fit.
Suggest the OP tells his OH that if she thinks it's okay to slap him, that he can slap her, at any time he feels fit.
Leptons said:
Justayellowbadge said:
Very much NOT this.
Don't take advice from individuals for whom a vest is outerwear.
Why?Don't take advice from individuals for whom a vest is outerwear.
Give her a slap.
If I were you, I'd find the nearest hills, and run for them. She sounds like a bit of a loon and no doubt worse is to come if you stick around.
TwigtheWonderkid said:
Leptons said:
Justayellowbadge said:
Very much NOT this.
Don't take advice from individuals for whom a vest is outerwear.
Why?Don't take advice from individuals for whom a vest is outerwear.
Give her a slap.
If I were you, I'd find the nearest hills, and run for them. She sounds like a bit of a loon and no doubt worse is to come if you stick around.
I am the victim of DV.
Quite simply, if you are uncomfortable with it, and you have asked her to stop but she doesn't, you are in the wrong relationship.
By all means give her one last chance if you wish, but if that fails, walk.
Do not ever retaliate with violence. She will then automatically be seen as the victim. Three times I called the police for assistance, three times they believed her and not me even though I was injured and she was not. I didn't bother the fourth time but left the relationship never to return.
Quite simply, if you are uncomfortable with it, and you have asked her to stop but she doesn't, you are in the wrong relationship.
By all means give her one last chance if you wish, but if that fails, walk.
Do not ever retaliate with violence. She will then automatically be seen as the victim. Three times I called the police for assistance, three times they believed her and not me even though I was injured and she was not. I didn't bother the fourth time but left the relationship never to return.
PurpleMoonlight said:
I didn't bother the fourth time but left the relationship never to return.
This - if it doesn't stop or she even argues that she thinks it fine, I'd be out the door sharpish. Life really is too short and not a rehearsal. Regardless of what we all say on PH, there are some nice ladies out there to have fun with Gassing Station | The Lounge | Top of Page | What's New | My Stuff