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Great to hear ABD, glad things are going so well.
This doesn't just apply to relationships. I actually had this experience with an employer. I didn't even realise how badly my former company treated me, and how much my confidence had been hurt until a few months in at my current company. And by God does it feel good to be appreciated!
A bit down said:
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elvismiggell said:
This doesn't just apply to relationships. I actually had this experience with an employer. I didn't even realise how badly my former company treated me, and how much my confidence had been hurt until a few months in at my current company. And by God does it feel good to be appreciated!
Not meaning to thread hijack....but thats so so true!Thanks for checking in, and no need for anyone's face to be punched . I can't believe it's been nearly two years since this all kicked off.
There's not much to update really - I'm still seeing the person I was just getting comfortable with last time. It's pretty casual, we only really see each other at the weekend and occasionally during the week. I suspect she would like things to move on a bit from this but I don't think I would and it's all I really have time for anyway. We get on well and enjoy each others company and it's working for me at the moment. I'm making up for lost time in the intimacy stakes too .
The kids are doing well and I'm spending a lot of time with them, plus I'm very busy at work.
Given the circumstances I think things have played out about as well as they could have for me. I'm enjoying life and keeping a good balance - I'm certainly much happier overall than I have been for a long time.
X seems to be getting on with her life too, although I fully expect things to become more difficult when I ask for a divorce in the new year - we'll see.
I hope everyone in a similar boat is doing OK.
There's not much to update really - I'm still seeing the person I was just getting comfortable with last time. It's pretty casual, we only really see each other at the weekend and occasionally during the week. I suspect she would like things to move on a bit from this but I don't think I would and it's all I really have time for anyway. We get on well and enjoy each others company and it's working for me at the moment. I'm making up for lost time in the intimacy stakes too .
The kids are doing well and I'm spending a lot of time with them, plus I'm very busy at work.
Given the circumstances I think things have played out about as well as they could have for me. I'm enjoying life and keeping a good balance - I'm certainly much happier overall than I have been for a long time.
X seems to be getting on with her life too, although I fully expect things to become more difficult when I ask for a divorce in the new year - we'll see.
I hope everyone in a similar boat is doing OK.
A bit down said:
Thanks for checking in, and no need for anyone's face to be punched . I can't believe it's been nearly two years since this all kicked off.
There's not much to update really - I'm still seeing the person I was just getting comfortable with last time. It's pretty casual, we only really see each other at the weekend and occasionally during the week. I suspect she would like things to move on a bit from this but I don't think I would and it's all I really have time for anyway. We get on well and enjoy each others company and it's working for me at the moment. I'm making up for lost time in the intimacy stakes too .
The kids are doing well and I'm spending a lot of time with them, plus I'm very busy at work.
Given the circumstances I think things have played out about as well as they could have for me. I'm enjoying life and keeping a good balance - I'm certainly much happier overall than I have been for a long time.
X seems to be getting on with her life too, although I fully expect things to become more difficult when I ask for a divorce in the new year - we'll see.
I hope everyone in a similar boat is doing OK.
Thanks for the update ABD and almost word for word how the situation is for me at present. Good luck with the big 'D'. I'm pressing that button in the next few weeks as the ex now wants equity from the house to buy her own place. We'll see how that goes down when I speak to her this weekend..!!There's not much to update really - I'm still seeing the person I was just getting comfortable with last time. It's pretty casual, we only really see each other at the weekend and occasionally during the week. I suspect she would like things to move on a bit from this but I don't think I would and it's all I really have time for anyway. We get on well and enjoy each others company and it's working for me at the moment. I'm making up for lost time in the intimacy stakes too .
The kids are doing well and I'm spending a lot of time with them, plus I'm very busy at work.
Given the circumstances I think things have played out about as well as they could have for me. I'm enjoying life and keeping a good balance - I'm certainly much happier overall than I have been for a long time.
X seems to be getting on with her life too, although I fully expect things to become more difficult when I ask for a divorce in the new year - we'll see.
I hope everyone in a similar boat is doing OK.
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