Anyone else's wife faff about un-necessarily?

Anyone else's wife faff about un-necessarily?

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dontlookdown

2,177 posts

108 months

Tuesday 19th March 2024
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Beko dishwasher here, bought as an emergency measure after our old Bosch one caught fire...

It has all the build quality of an 80s Lada but cleans the dishes fine and is still going strong 7 yrs later.

Like a Lada it is also fixable and parts are cheap. Last year the water heater went, I was about to just buy a brand new machine but decided to have a quick Google first. £30 later a new water heater was on its way to me which I fitted easily in about 30mins. I quite enjoyed it and the OH now thinks I am a domestic Godsmile

paralla

4,592 posts

150 months

Tuesday 19th March 2024
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I recently moved house and the appliances had to be left at the old house so needed a new washing machine, clothes dryer and dishwasher.

I want more from my appliances than for them to not break down. I want them to be quiet, efficent, self dose their own detergent and be gentle on clothes, most of all I want them to not catch fire and burn my house down.

What I didn't realise I wanted was for them to be smart but now I have smart ones it seems like a good thing. I schedule all of them to operate overnight during cheap rate electricity hours that I get on an EV tarif. Whatever they cost in electricity to run now cost's me 1/3 of that.


CivicDuties

7,752 posts

45 months

Tuesday 19th March 2024
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Do you get up to move the clothes from washer to dryer in the middle of the night, or leave them until the next night? That's the conundrum I can't solve when it comes to overnight laundry. I'm always glad to see the start of the outdoor drying season.

paralla

4,592 posts

150 months

Tuesday 19th March 2024
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CivicDuties said:
Do you get up to move the clothes from washer to dryer in the middle of the night, or leave them until the next night? That's the conundrum I can't solve when it comes to overnight laundry. I'm always glad to see the start of the outdoor drying season.
I normally drape the clothes over a rack on the long wheelbase AGA so the dryer doesn't see much action, normally just for bedding.

classicaholic

2,023 posts

85 months

Tuesday 19th March 2024
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Is this mumsnet?

robinessex

11,569 posts

196 months

Tuesday 19th March 2024
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classicaholic said:
Is this mumsnet?
Yes, are you finding your split ends such a tragedy? As for nail varnish colors, don't go there.

Antony Moxey

9,697 posts

234 months

Tuesday 19th March 2024
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paralla said:
I recently moved house and the appliances had to be left at the old house so needed a new washing machine, clothes dryer and dishwasher.

I want more from my appliances than for them to not break down. I want them to be quiet, efficent, self dose their own detergent and be gentle on clothes, most of all I want them to not catch fire and burn my house down.

What I didn't realise I wanted was for them to be smart but now I have smart ones it seems like a good thing. I schedule all of them to operate overnight during cheap rate electricity hours that I get on an EV tarif. Whatever they cost in electricity to run now cost's me 1/3 of that.

You don’t need a smart anything for that. Our washing machine’s got a simple timer on it so SWMBO sets the timer when she loads it just before she goes to bed such that it’s finished its cycle just before she gets up the following morning. We can do the same for the dishwasher, so the smart function is irrelevant - just set the timers when you load the appliance.

Speed 3

5,078 posts

134 months

Tuesday 19th March 2024
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Antony Moxey said:
paralla said:
I recently moved house and the appliances had to be left at the old house so needed a new washing machine, clothes dryer and dishwasher.

I want more from my appliances than for them to not break down. I want them to be quiet, efficent, self dose their own detergent and be gentle on clothes, most of all I want them to not catch fire and burn my house down.

What I didn't realise I wanted was for them to be smart but now I have smart ones it seems like a good thing. I schedule all of them to operate overnight during cheap rate electricity hours that I get on an EV tarif. Whatever they cost in electricity to run now cost's me 1/3 of that.

You don’t need a smart anything for that. Our washing machine’s got a simple timer on it so SWMBO sets the timer when she loads it just before she goes to bed such that it’s finished its cycle just before she gets up the following morning. We can do the same for the dishwasher, so the smart function is irrelevant - just set the timers when you load the appliance.
yes Welcome to the 1980's, we've been doing this without apps for donkeys years.

donkmeister

10,288 posts

115 months

Tuesday 19th March 2024
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Speed 3 said:
Antony Moxey said:
paralla said:
I recently moved house and the appliances had to be left at the old house so needed a new washing machine, clothes dryer and dishwasher.

I want more from my appliances than for them to not break down. I want them to be quiet, efficent, self dose their own detergent and be gentle on clothes, most of all I want them to not catch fire and burn my house down.

What I didn't realise I wanted was for them to be smart but now I have smart ones it seems like a good thing. I schedule all of them to operate overnight during cheap rate electricity hours that I get on an EV tarif. Whatever they cost in electricity to run now cost's me 1/3 of that.

You don’t need a smart anything for that. Our washing machine’s got a simple timer on it so SWMBO sets the timer when she loads it just before she goes to bed such that it’s finished its cycle just before she gets up the following morning. We can do the same for the dishwasher, so the smart function is irrelevant - just set the timers when you load the appliance.
yes Welcome to the 1980's, we've been doing this without apps for donkeys years.
I remember my parents utility room had a set of sockets that were only live during off-peak electricity costs. Economy 7 possibly? There was a second meter for those hours, so Mum left the dryer and washing machine plugged into those apart from the rare occasions something would need laundering in the daytime.

I love smart things, but sometimes it's not actually an improvement over non-smart things. For me, a smart tumble dryer would be good simply because it's in another building and somewhat fickle in its predictions of time remaining. I'd love for my HA to know the time remaining and when it's actually finished (could do that with an IP cam and the seven segment display reading add-on). Instead I find myself trudging back and forth a few times to check if it's finished and I can stick the next load in.

Dr Murdoch

3,764 posts

150 months

Tuesday 19th March 2024
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Sorry to continue down the washing rabbit hole, but in terms of energy, would if be best to wash in the evening, and then set the dryer over night? Rather than wash overnight and then need to use the dryer during the AM peak?

Speed 3

5,078 posts

134 months

Tuesday 19th March 2024
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Dr Murdoch said:
Sorry to continue down the washing rabbit hole, but in terms of energy, would if be best to wash in the evening, and then set the dryer over night? Rather than wash overnight and then need to use the dryer during the AM peak?
Tumble dryers are a safety hazard, wholly inefficient and wreck clothes - I wouldn't want one running when I'm asleep.

Pit Pony

10,081 posts

136 months

Wednesday 20th March 2024
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Hondashark said:
donkmeister said:
Pit Pony said:
The opposite of my (aspergers) nephew.

On his arrival, he says what time he will leave.
That time arrives, he walks to the hall, puts his shoes on, pops his head back un the lounge, and says, bye then. And he's out the door and down the road.
Once I was in the kitchen for a few moments and he'd gone. At exactly the time he said he'd go.
The perfect house guest!
I wish I could do that, I hate trying to leave.
Yesterday I was chastised by my wife, for getting up, picking up our lap trays (we had our evening meal in bed) and saying, " Right. I'm off to wash up." Apparently normal people don't announce what they are about to do next. Apparently she hates my running commentary.

This was pointed out to her the same day by said nephew, who pointed out that he thinks its weird when people (at home or work) announce that they are going to the loo, going to the canteen, going for a walk, going to put some washing on, going to make a coffee, going to a meeting. My wife agrees with him.
I think it's weird not to.
But today I'm going to try not to announce anything.

Pit Pony

10,081 posts

136 months

Wednesday 20th March 2024
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Pit Pony said:
Yesterday I was chastised by my wife, for getting up, picking up our lap trays (we had our evening meal in bed) and saying, " Right. I'm off to wash up." Apparently normal people don't announce what they are about to do next. Apparently she hates my running commentary.

This was pointed out to her the same day by said nephew, who pointed out that he thinks its weird when people (at home or work) announce that they are going to the loo, going to the canteen, going for a walk, going to put some washing on, going to make a coffee, going to a meeting. My wife agrees with him.
I think it's weird not to.
But today I'm going to try not to announce anything.
I'm off to work (from home) see you all later.

Cobnapint

9,051 posts

166 months

Wednesday 20th March 2024
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Speed 3 said:
Dr Murdoch said:
Sorry to continue down the washing rabbit hole, but in terms of energy, would if be best to wash in the evening, and then set the dryer over night? Rather than wash overnight and then need to use the dryer during the AM peak?
Tumble dryers are a safety hazard, wholly inefficient and wreck clothes - I wouldn't want one running when I'm asleep.
Washing machines too. I used to do mine overnight many years ago but after reading some horror stories I like to be wide awake whilst washing and drying now, so do it during the day. I never go out while they're on either.

snuffy

11,304 posts

299 months

Wednesday 20th March 2024
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"I'm just off for a st", try saying that and see what she says!

Cotty

41,314 posts

299 months

Wednesday 20th March 2024
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Pit Pony said:
Yesterday I was chastised by my wife, for getting up, picking up our lap trays (we had our evening meal in bed) and saying, " Right. I'm off to wash up." Apparently normal people don't announce what they are about to do next. Apparently she hates my running commentary.

This was pointed out to her the same day by said nephew, who pointed out that he thinks its weird when people (at home or work) announce that they are going to the loo, going to the canteen, going for a walk, going to put some washing on, going to make a coffee, going to a meeting. My wife agrees with him.
I think it's weird not to.
But today I'm going to try not to announce anything.
Wouldn't it be considered rude if someone just got up and walked out of a room and not return for at least an hour?

CanAm

11,240 posts

287 months

Wednesday 20th March 2024
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Pit Pony said:
Yesterday I was chastised by my wife, for getting up, picking up our lap trays (we had our evening meal in bed) and saying, " Right. I'm off to wash up." Apparently normal people don't announce what they are about to do next. Apparently she hates my running commentary.

This was pointed out to her the same day by said nephew, who pointed out that he thinks its weird when people (at home or work) announce that they are going to the loo, going to the canteen, going for a walk, going to put some washing on, going to make a coffee, going to a meeting. My wife agrees with him.
I think it's weird not to.
But today I'm going to try not to announce anything.
On the other hand, whenever I left the room, my wife would always ask me where was I going or what was I doing.......

Gigamoons

18,075 posts

215 months

Wednesday 20th March 2024
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CanAm said:
On the other hand, whenever I left the room, my wife would always ask me where was I going or what was I doing.......
Likewise!

daqinggregg

4,578 posts

144 months

Wednesday 20th March 2024
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I have the opposite of this, Mrs DG will be sat less than a couple of metres away and ask “What are you doing?” I’m tempted to reply “Furiously …”, but always think the better of it.

Monkeylegend

27,721 posts

246 months

Wednesday 20th March 2024
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Pit Pony said:
Yesterday I was chastised by my wife, for getting up, picking up our lap trays (we had our evening meal in bed) and saying, " Right. I'm off to wash up." Apparently normal people don't announce what they are about to do next. Apparently she hates my running commentary.

This was pointed out to her the same day by said nephew, who pointed out that he thinks its weird when people (at home or work) announce that they are going to the loo, going to the canteen, going for a walk, going to put some washing on, going to make a coffee, going to a meeting. My wife agrees with him.
I think it's weird not to.
But today I'm going to try not to announce anything.
But you just have.