Thinking of leaving the OH
Discussion
frumpytrickle said:
He seems very quick to respond at times. Clearly watching. And sadly I believe that he's been unfaithful too, in body as well as mind.
He's clearly nailed her no doubt about that but Christ is being unfaithful in the mind a crime now as well?? if so I was unfaithful four times on the tube this morning, will I never get to see my kids again?
ascayman said:
He's clearly nailed her no doubt about that but Christ is being unfaithful in the mind a crime now as well?? if so I was unfaithful four times on the tube this morning, will I never get to see my kids again?
No of course not don't be silly.Making plans to leave someone with whom you were so committed to that you made a baby together on the other hand..
Edited by frumpytrickle on Thursday 9th October 13:54
dirty boy said:
I'm quite lucky in that I do actually love my wife and she's also my best mate, but in her eyes I play second fiddle to the children and rightly so, she does also to me, they're number 1.
Possibly naively, whilst I sort of understand how this is intended, I don't get this as a principle.Surely in a family, everyone and everyone's happiness is equally important?
I can't imagine relegating my wife for a child in the same way I can't imagine relegating a child vice versa?
boobles said:
Here's you lot slating the OP for "having a bit on the side" but look at what you are doing......
Flirting leads to other things don't you know!
boobles, if you really, if you really seriously think that I am flirting with Boudicca, then you need a long hard chat with yourself!Flirting leads to other things don't you know!
That would be like swapping your Kid's Playdoh for Semtex for s
ts and giggles. 
Muzzer79 said:
dirty boy said:
I'm quite lucky in that I do actually love my wife and she's also my best mate, but in her eyes I play second fiddle to the children and rightly so, she does also to me, they're number 1.
Possibly naively, whilst I sort of understand how this is intended, I don't get this as a principle.Surely in a family, everyone and everyone's happiness is equally important?
I can't imagine relegating my wife for a child in the same way I can't imagine relegating a child vice versa?
(but happy)Example, The wife and I would love lazy lie in Sunday, however I am up early (ish) taking my young'un to rugby and standing on a cold touchline for 2hrs. It's the same with swiming, netball, etc, etc on other days.
boobles said:
Just saying how it looks from here.... 
I know you are.I am just trying to make frumpy feel a bit more welcome, that's all. Sure, she started off all effing this and effing that, and also scares the living s
t out of me. But sometimes it takes time to produce a Diamond from a lump of Coal. 
When she enters PH it's like a bright ray of sunshine entering the room and then frying a thousand little Ants through a magnifying glass.
And besides, I have a wife and two kids that depend on me.
What are you up to this weekend, Frumps?
Adenauer said:
boobles said:
Just saying how it looks from here....
I know you are.I am just trying to make frumpy feel a bit more welcome, that's all. Sure, she started off all effing this and effing that, and also scares the living s
t out of me. But sometimes it takes time to produce a Diamond from a lump of Coal. When she enters PH it's like a bright ray of sunshine entering the room and then frying a thousand little Ants through a magnifying glass.
And besides, I have a wife and two kids that depend on me.
What are you up to this weekend, Frumps?
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