What do single women do, where TF are they?
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RSoovy4 said:
taylor172 said:
You talk about us like we are some crazy other breed!
Look, on Radio 4 this morning it said that men share 99.9% of their DNA with a chimpanzee, and 94% with women.I think that tells you all you need to know.
moreflaps said:
RSoovy4 said:
taylor172 said:
You talk about us like we are some crazy other breed!
Look, on Radio 4 this morning it said that men share 99.9% of their DNA with a chimpanzee, and 94% with women.I think that tells you all you need to know.
theshrew said:
Magog said:
There's someone out there for everyone...
... for some reason this story jogged my memory of the OPs problems.
Defo some very special people in world ... for some reason this story jogged my memory of the OPs problems.
but looking at that photo makes me feel so much better about my life.
SmuttyYoda said:
spikey78 said:
Ahhh, but they're 'soulmates' apparently! It's so beautiful
I'm not exactly in the same boat as the OP (i'm only 20) but it's damn hard work and tiring playing the game.
So there seems to be two schools of thought here:
I've had minor success with girls in the past, i've rejected girls I wasn't attracted to several times, i've met girls in person who i've met initially over the internet, i've made out with girls in bars, i've met girls through friends, but my problem is simply that I haven't met someone i've truly connected with and wanted to spend any real time with as anything more than just friends.
Sometimes I can be a confident guy, sometimes i'm not, but it doesn't seem to really correlate to how successful I am in meeting women (when I was 16 i didn't make any effort to look good and was shy talking to girls but met more single girls who were interested in me than I have in the 4 years since then, despite being confident now).
OP, i think what you need to do is find a hobby you enjoy that involves getting out and meeting new people at the same time. The most successful days of my life were when i was involved in lots of social clubs. You really do need to break out the habit of not actually starting afresh because you know by now that whatever it is you're doing now isn't working.
I think i need to be able to recognise when a lady is interested because it's shocking how many times i've been told by a friend that a girl was wet for me and i've either inadvertently rejected her because I was chasing someone else who was out of my league or i simply haven't recognised the signals and let it pass. Any help with that?
So there seems to be two schools of thought here:
- Be patient, confident, clean etc and it WILL happen one day
- It won't happen unless you make it
I've had minor success with girls in the past, i've rejected girls I wasn't attracted to several times, i've met girls in person who i've met initially over the internet, i've made out with girls in bars, i've met girls through friends, but my problem is simply that I haven't met someone i've truly connected with and wanted to spend any real time with as anything more than just friends.
Sometimes I can be a confident guy, sometimes i'm not, but it doesn't seem to really correlate to how successful I am in meeting women (when I was 16 i didn't make any effort to look good and was shy talking to girls but met more single girls who were interested in me than I have in the 4 years since then, despite being confident now).
OP, i think what you need to do is find a hobby you enjoy that involves getting out and meeting new people at the same time. The most successful days of my life were when i was involved in lots of social clubs. You really do need to break out the habit of not actually starting afresh because you know by now that whatever it is you're doing now isn't working.
I think i need to be able to recognise when a lady is interested because it's shocking how many times i've been told by a friend that a girl was wet for me and i've either inadvertently rejected her because I was chasing someone else who was out of my league or i simply haven't recognised the signals and let it pass. Any help with that?
Council Baby said:
I dated one earlier in the year, woke up manacled to her bed one morning being molested.
I remember it fondly.
But she was madder than a cat being bummed by a horse.
PS have had similar experiences (but without the manacles) with accountants and scientists and the like. There's a lot to be said for it!
BruceV8 said:
Council Baby said:
I dated one earlier in the year, woke up manacled to her bed one morning being molested.
I remember it fondly.
But she was madder than a cat being bummed by a horse.
PS have had similar experiences (but without the manacles) with accountants and scientists and the like. There's a lot to be said for it!
Try Tinder, the dating app for your phone. Loads of fit looking single women on there. Mate of mine with no scruples seems to get a couple of shags a week out of it and he's always on the road. Mind you he's only 30 so it hasn't worked for me at 51.
I did get a few hits when I changed my age to 41 but being a soppy gentleman, I have always told the truth before meeting up. Suddenly they disappear.
I did get a few hits when I changed my age to 41 but being a soppy gentleman, I have always told the truth before meeting up. Suddenly they disappear.
Monkeylegend said:
BruceV8 said:
Council Baby said:
I dated one earlier in the year, woke up manacled to her bed one morning being molested.
I remember it fondly.
But she was madder than a cat being bummed by a horse.
PS have had similar experiences (but without the manacles) with accountants and scientists and the like. There's a lot to be said for it!
Bruce, a fair point mate.
Mobile Chicane said:
KFC said:
john2443 said:
Agree with people who suggest not going to car events, 99% of the women have just gone along because their OH is there, go to things where there are more women than men, look at voluntary things for instance.
And the other 1% you wouldn't touch with a stolen dick anyway.
along with the rest of the women I've met at car meets & on PH!Not an ugly fat one amongst them!
Guys, join dance classes. As long as you don't look like the elephant man and so not look like you're convulsing while doing the cha-cha... you'll be doing the horizontal cha-cha guaranteed. Bonus is that those classes are mostly women and most are fit. I would recommend Tango, Salsa, that kind of stuff. Also, in ANY foreign city you'll go to there will be Salsa discos.
Nikolai Petroff said:
Guys, join dance classes. As long as you don't look like the elephant man and so not look like you're convulsing while doing the cha-cha... you'll be doing the horizontal cha-cha guaranteed. Bonus is that those classes are mostly women and most are fit. I would recommend Tango, Salsa, that kind of stuff. Also, in ANY foreign city you'll go to there will be Salsa discos.
It is one of the better ways of meeting a lass. I wouldn't do it simply because I wouldn't enjoy dancing to that kind of music.Gassing Station | The Lounge | Top of Page | What's New | My Stuff