What do you want for your 50th?

What do you want for your 50th?

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ollya

Original Poster:

45 posts

214 months

Monday 15th April
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I'm 50 in a few weeks. My parents want to get me something nice....probably about £750 tops..maybe £1k.
They suggested a Belstaff International coat but I don't know when I would wear it. Other ideas were a watch but I never wear one or a Leatherman tool but I don't think I'd use it.

Sooo...what decent 50th present would you like?
...I might pinch your idea smile

I dont have hobbies except motorbikes and tinkering.

Spare tyre

9,710 posts

132 months

Monday 15th April
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25 year old

Shnozz

27,564 posts

273 months

Monday 15th April
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More time that I could have treasured with my parents.

Do something together with that £1k and treasure the memories. Trinkets mean fook all by comparison.

Japveesix

4,491 posts

170 months

Monday 15th April
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Some cheese and a bottle of whisky. £750 should cover it as then I could stretch to a £50 whisky.

NorthDave

2,373 posts

234 months

Monday 15th April
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Shnozz said:
More time that I could have treasured with my parents.

Do something together with that £1k and treasure the memories. Trinkets mean fook all by comparison.
Couldn't agree more. Go out as a family and have a nice meal or something

Mobile Chicane

20,874 posts

214 months

Monday 15th April
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Blowout lunch somewhere Michelin starred.

ETA: Not in Central London. Half of the price of the meal is taken up by the square inches of space your arse is occupying. Go out into the regions.

Edited by Mobile Chicane on Monday 15th April 21:57

interstellar

3,383 posts

148 months

Monday 15th April
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I was 50 on Saturday and had similar issues with no material things wanted . I ended up with several restaurant vouchers for nice meals out at a couple of local places and a trip to one on the Isle of Wight.

Memories will be created with all of those which is what I wanted.


Edited by interstellar on Monday 15th April 22:41

romft123

423 posts

6 months

Monday 15th April
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weekend away, 4 2

dandarez

13,317 posts

285 months

Monday 15th April
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Spare tyre said:
25 year old
laugh


dandarez

13,317 posts

285 months

Monday 15th April
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Congratulations will suffice.

50th Wedding Anniversary this Saturday.

Baldchap

7,746 posts

94 months

Monday 15th April
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I'm 43 but I do quite fancy a drone.

egor110

16,928 posts

205 months

Monday 15th April
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I just had my 50th and didn't want anything.

gazza285

9,843 posts

210 months

Monday 15th April
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I bought myself a thirty odd year old Gretsch guitar.

My missus bought me a pint, and my parents bought me a card.

paua

5,854 posts

145 months

Monday 15th April
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Spare tyre said:
2 x 25 year olds
FTFY

cherryowen

11,750 posts

206 months

Monday 15th April
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dandarez said:
50th Wedding Anniversary this Saturday.
beer

On topic, and as others have posted, trinkets can be somewhat meaningless for important occasions. For my 50th we planned a long weekend in Bruges with some dear friends of ours. Unfortunately, my 50th was on April 29th 2020 irked So that was that idea down the drain. New Year's Eve was spent at Jan & Mark's place where we all wished 2020 a merry fk you.

In October 2021, we celebrated my wife's birthday with Jan & Mark at a nice local restaurant when all that covid st had been binned and all was well. Mark fell ill a month later, and Christmas Day he sounded unusually frail during a telephone call. By February 2022, after continual requests for referrals, it was confirmed as pancreatic cancer - 18 months with treatment, maybe 6 without. Mark opted out of treatment, and died 3 months later. 59 years old, an ex semi-professional rugby player, who two years previously had cycled from Lands End to John O' Groats for charity, was gone.

So, from my perspective, celebrate your 50th with your closest friends and family in the most agreeable manner possible.

ATG

20,717 posts

274 months

Monday 15th April
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dandarez said:
Congratulations will suffice.

50th Wedding Anniversary this Saturday.
Congrats

Skyedriver

18,006 posts

284 months

Monday 15th April
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71 in 12 days, I've been asked the same Q every year for as long as I can remember....

Don't need anything, if I do it'll be something I just get myself. Last year as it was my 70th a flight over the islands, Tiree, Colonsay, Coll, was agreed upon. Still haven't got around to sorting that....

cobra kid

4,993 posts

242 months

Tuesday 16th April
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Mine in June. Can't say I'm even slightly interested as I'm not that sentimental about my birthdays. I'll go to work, go home, make tea, help son with homework. Go to work the next day. Job done.

I bought myself a cheap second hand mountain bike last month and I've said that's my present! Then there's no fuss an bother at the time.

MitchT

15,956 posts

211 months

Tuesday 16th April
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paua said:
Spare tyre said:
2 x 25 year olds
FTFY
I'm 50 in September. I could't think what I'd want but that would definitely do! hehe