What do single women do, where TF are they?

[kind dilbert]

This is going to come across as a non coherent rant, but I don't care.

I go out searching for women and 90% of the people in shops, the street are fking men, all hte fking time. Are women just sitting at home watching x-factor of typing st on facebook? Where the fk are they?

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Does anyone else notice this? I can't comprehend it at all, it baffles me.

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Vajazzle said:

Are you a pervert?

How does wanting to find a girlfriend suggest to you that I'm a pervert? I'm at a loss with the situation.

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ZOLLAR said:

You go out "searching" for women in shops?

Where else do I find them because I'm out of options? I don't have any friends as those relationships I find too monotonous. Tried POF where I sent out 30 messages in two days and received no replies, even tried to join one of the groups on meet.com and my wish to join got declined.

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Fartgalen said:

You sound desperate.

I'm mid/late 20's and no girlfriend, so your point is fair.

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Impasse said:

They're either on their way to the school gates or on their way back from the school gates. Between these times they're watching "This Morning" or "Loose Women". For variation they go to the local soft play centre.

Good luck in your quest not to look like a weirdo.

If they're at a soft ball pool they'll have kids, not interested in women with kids.

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Foxeh said:

Maybe you're a minger?

Clearly, but there's worse than me. I'm look after myself, thus, 'in shape', dress OK etc. Honestly I think fk it. The problem is I never meet women, I'm surrounded by men all the time.

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storminnorman said:

There's your problem

When I had a social life in the past it was all the same group of guys going to the same pub every weekend, getting 'smashed'. I'm past it, I hardly drink any alcohol. How is that going to solve my problem?

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Impasse said:

Move to a different area?

Attended two different universities (undergrad then masters) in two different cities at opposite ends of the country both were 250 miles from where I grew up, this made no difference.

Impasse said:

Out of your Mum's house would be a start.

Liven on my own for the second degree, no difference.

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Defcon5 said:

Where do you work? Can you shag your way round the office until you get moved?

Just finished university, so job hunting. Still, I will be working as an engineer, so I'd rather not shag my colleagues.

Edited by kind dilbert on Tuesday 15th October 22:53

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Council Baby said:

Oh FFS. Start drinking, ugly girls will look fitter, your sense of self worth will disintegrate and it'll all be ok.

Thing is, my standards are low anyway. Just never meet any women, surrounded by cock, plus I got my fair share of social awkwardness/retardation.

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LovelyTia said:

I find the opposite is true. Lots of women, not so many men. Maybe all us women only shop in the same place

Where do you shop?

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stewies_minion said:

Unemployed
Stalks women in Asda
Ignores his mates

This may not end well OP

If I make the news it wasn't my fault.

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65 replies and I still don't know how to get a girlfriend. I'll bump this tomorrow afternoon.

Edited by kind dilbert on Tuesday 15th October 23:27

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Impasse said:

I'll expand on that a touch. Being even older I have realised it isn't necessary to have an other half. Sure, it's very nice and the many years I've spent with a wonderful woman in my life were great. But it isn't such a hardship to be a singleton. Once you reach that juncture in your thinking, it takes a huge strain off your psyche and you can concentrate on other aspects of your life rather than desperately seeking "the one" or even "any one".
Nowadays I'm of the opinion that if I meet someone then so be it, but I'm in no rush and I'm certainly not actively running around Tesco or letching at the skinny girls at the gym.

Not sure I could permanently live with a woman now, having lived alone for so long and generally enjoying my own company. Looking for more of a continuing weekend type girlfriend, like a fkbuddy.

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danjama said:

Every time I'm out working on my car I get chatted up by women. Try it.

Then again I dont have problems meeting them in most situations so not sure if it will work for you.

I never get chatted up or to by women, they rarely acknowledge my existence.

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SMcP114 said:

Easily the most embarrassing thread on the internet.

This site does attract a high volume of these people, who cannot see what it blatantly obvious to the rest of us.

There is just no hope for some people. I blame the interent.

Serious reply - what do you suggest I am overlooking?

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Disco You said:

Get yourself some confidence OP.

For me, confidence lies at the other end of exercising 6 days a week and eating well. Give it a try.

I run several times a week, and my diet is very good so I get the benefits of that. Still, it can feel like it's for nothing given the situation.

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anonymous said:

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Watched breaking bad season 3, cleaned the house, went running, went for a drive. That was it.

ETA - dress is what I'd describe as smart/casual jumpers and jeans. Never wear stuff with logos, letters or words.

Edited by kind dilbert on Wednesday 16th October 14:29

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TheJimi said:

Given WHAT situation?

Do you expect to walk up the street or into a supermarket and have girls fawn over you?

and answer my previous question - how confident a person are you?

I'm very confident in a business/academic sense, and casual social encounters with both genders, but if I'm honest, my confidence with women in 'that' way, is shaky.