What is cheating?

[Poledriver]

OK, for a guy with lots of female friends (or a girl with lots of male friends) who has got into a 'relationship' with a slightly jealous partner. What would you deem as cheating?
You have obviously had a friendship with the other persons for a while and may do certain things which you've always regarded as innocent, how far can you go before it is deemed as cheating on your new partner?
It would be interesting to get different peoples views on this!

[Poledriver]

Romanymagic said:

Need to go off and think about this, have a sleep and come back to you tomorrow, awake and sober and then, and only then will I figure out a way to be both honest to you and to my wife, oops!

Too late, she's already seen your response!

[Poledriver]

deviant said:

Anything you feel you should hide from your partner or that you feel would make him / her unhappy.

These situations can easily be avoided by dicussing boundaries with your partner though.

You really don't live up to your nickname!

[Poledriver]

goldblum said:

Poledriver -

"and may do certain things which you've always regarded as innocent, "

uhoh

I'll bet there's big trouble brewing.

rudecherub said:

Actually you've missed the real cheating off the list, that's giving someone else your heart ie switching your emotional attachment, seeking emotional support, confiding in, and seeking advice about important and personal matters, the other things are pretty meaningless as stand alone events.

That's really interesting!
I didn't start this thread because of any problems with my relationship. I was talking with a friend about hoe jealous some people are.

Rudecherub... My OH and I have known each other for 31 years but have only 'got together' recently. What you described is the relationship which we have always had, despite having had partners at the time!

[Poledriver]

Nolar Dog said:

So is the wedding still on then Poley?
I've got my hat and everything.

This thread was not generated from any personal worries!

[Poledriver]

onomatopoeia said:

Bad assumption. I cannot imagine liking anyone enough to put up with that level of insanity. Actually I can't imagine liking someone at all if they thought it was acceptable behaviour to try to drive a wedge between friends.

That's me up the creek then!

Edited by Poledriver on Monday 26th July 12:58

[Poledriver]

Cock Womble 7 said:

Justayellowbadge said:

Cock Womble 7 said:

Maybe it's just me, but if some bird invited me to share a bed "just to sleep", she'd be getting the sex, one way or another.

That could be construed as a touch, well, rapey.

Semen sticks.

EFA

[Poledriver]

goldblum said:

Glassman said:

Is tantric sex cheating?

Let me ask you this:

If you had Tantric sex behind your wife's back and she found out,d'you think she would be happy?

Or if your wife had tantric sex with someone else, would you be happy?