Death of my daughter

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thebraketester

14,281 posts

139 months

Sunday 3rd July 2022
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TVR1 said:
I’m ok guys. Actually just had Police here. Thank you if you called them. I’m not good. Just want to sleep. ??????? It’s not me though.

I’ll be ok.
Keep talking. I hope you can get through this TVR1.

extraT

1,774 posts

151 months

Sunday 3rd July 2022
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TVR1 said:
I’m ok guys. Actually just had Police here. Thank you if you called them. I’m not good. Just want to sleep. ??????? It’s not me though.

I’ll be ok.
Thankful to see you post.

Call the samaratins. Reach out.

Stay strong.

ET

croyde

23,058 posts

231 months

Sunday 3rd July 2022
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TVR, I'm crying on finding out you are OK. Obviously I don't know you but I've been in that dark place so many times.

It's not worth it!

I honestly am crying. Please look after yourself.

LosingGrip

7,841 posts

160 months

Sunday 3rd July 2022
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TVR1 said:
I’m ok guys. Actually just had Police here. Thank you if you called them. I’m not good. Just want to sleep. ??????? It’s not me though.

I’ll be ok.
Im sure you’ve been signposted by the police already, but just in case.

Along with the Samaritans you can contact 111 for some mental health support. Your GP as well. Mind are excellent as well.

My emails are always open as well if you want.

bristolbaron

4,871 posts

213 months

Sunday 3rd July 2022
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TVR1 said:
I’m ok guys. Actually just had Police here. Thank you if you called them. I’m not good. Just want to sleep. ??????? It’s not me though.

I’ll be ok.
woohoo I’ve been trying every Google search I can think possible with info from your previous posts to find any contact details. Im so pleased to see you’ve posted.

Take your time, and know we’re here if you need us. Alongside the professional suggestions you’ve been given of course.

Fermit

13,083 posts

101 months

Sunday 3rd July 2022
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TVR1 said:
I’m ok guys. Actually just had Police here. Thank you if you called them. I’m not good. Just want to sleep. ??????? It’s not me though.

I’ll be ok.
A big relief. Now sleep it off, and tomorrow think about getting some support, to 'mend' yourself.

CheesecakeRunner

3,889 posts

92 months

Sunday 3rd July 2022
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TVR1 said:
I’m ok guys. Actually just had Police here. Thank you if you called them. I’m not good. Just want to sleep. ??????? It’s not me though.

I’ll be ok.
I’m unbelievably relieved to read this. Help is out there. Please try and let them in.

Monkeylegend

26,532 posts

232 months

Sunday 3rd July 2022
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CheesecakeRunner said:
TVR1 said:
I’m ok guys. Actually just had Police here. Thank you if you called them. I’m not good. Just want to sleep. ??????? It’s not me though.

I’ll be ok.
I’m unbelievably relieved to read this. Help is out there. Please try and let them in.
Same here.

0a

23,906 posts

195 months

Sunday 3rd July 2022
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Fermit said:
TVR. Please take the time to talk to anyone, a friend, your wife, The Samaritans or Mind. You have been through hell, but others, your wife, family, friends will not want this. I've been there, I don't mind PH'er's knowing, reach out. And for tonight, stay off the coping juice.
The kind of post which reminds one what a decent kind of place PH is.

TVR I wish you all the best, take things slowly but do please follow the suggestions on this thread. It can be hard to see the wood for the trees when you are down.

LordHaveMurci

12,047 posts

170 months

Sunday 3rd July 2022
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Monkeylegend said:
CheesecakeRunner said:
TVR1 said:
I’m ok guys. Actually just had Police here. Thank you if you called them. I’m not good. Just want to sleep. ??????? It’s not me though.

I’ll be ok.
I’m unbelievably relieved to read this. Help is out there. Please try and let them in.
Same here.
Yep, been thinking about this since you first posted.

So glad you updated us, please take care & do whatever you need to to look after yourself.

take-good-care-of-the-forest-dewey

5,308 posts

56 months

Sunday 3rd July 2022
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TVR1 said:
I’m ok guys. Actually just had Police here. Thank you if you called them. I’m not good. Just want to sleep. ??????? It’s not me though.

I’ll be ok.
Thanks for letting us know you're OK.

The world is a better place with you in it...your friends and family think that. Remember that if the dark thoughts crowd in.



NorthDave

2,371 posts

233 months

Sunday 3rd July 2022
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Seriously glad you are ok.

My parents went through something similar and there can be good times in your future. People love you and care about you.

scenario8

6,585 posts

180 months

Sunday 3rd July 2022
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So glad you reported back in, TVR1.

sparkyhx

4,156 posts

205 months

Sunday 3rd July 2022
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Good to hear you are still with us.

Try Andysmanclub.co.uk see if there is a local branch to you. ALL branches meet on a Monday night at 7pm. Just rock up and see what its like, no pressure to talk or anything, all confidential, it might help, its simple and it works.

Good luck


ruggedscotty

5,639 posts

210 months

Sunday 3rd July 2022
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With all the leg pulling jesting and general pissing about on here, its threads like that that bring sanity back with a bump.

Have to say so pleased that your still here. Please please please get the support reach out and connect.

Ill say this here Im always ready for a chat and a coffee, no matter what. when it comes down to it were all on here for a bit of unwindiing.

thankfully your ok. and I really really do hope that you get the help and support that is out there.

SteRB5138

173 posts

215 months

Sunday 3rd July 2022
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TVR1 said:
I’m ok guys. Actually just had Police here. Thank you if you called them. I’m not good. Just want to sleep. ??????? It’s not me though.

I’ll be ok.
Good to hear you have got help, all the best.

Tekno

195 posts

102 months

Sunday 3rd July 2022
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From someone that’s recently unexpectedly lost someone, please find something/someone, hold it tight and hopefully in time, the pain will subside. You are loved.

Big love to you and your family.

MYOB

4,834 posts

139 months

Sunday 3rd July 2022
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Glad to see your latest post. Well done to the PH crew as it sounds like they sought the assistance of the police for a welfare check.

TVR1, sorry to hear you’re still struggling. Get some support for yourself. Sometimes we need help to recalibrate and start to live life again, no matter how much we don’t believe it.

Good luck and thanks for updating us.

RDMcG

19,226 posts

208 months

Monday 4th July 2022
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Very good news indeed.

Things can get way ahead of you sometimes. Welcome back and there are lots of people who have been there and who want to help. Your loss is devastating and understand the inclination.

There is a lot of future and I am hopeful that it will be brighter.

It was for me.

superlightr

12,866 posts

264 months

Monday 4th July 2022
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Tekno said:
From someone that’s recently unexpectedly lost someone, please find something/someone, hold it tight and hopefully in time, the pain will subside. You are loved.

Big love to you and your family.
Club.


Seriously OP dark clouds can be overwhelming and very dark but they equally do pass to reveal light and better times. Stay with us.