How do you get through divorce?
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This isn’t a wind up and he original (male) poster is back. I did all these horrible things including visiting a sex
Worker between dropping and picking my children up. Horrid.
I am in lots of therapy and I am pleading with my wife to give me one more chance. I don’t deserve
It but am throwing myself on her mercy.
She has reached her limit of course, but still hoping.
Worker between dropping and picking my children up. Horrid.
I am in lots of therapy and I am pleading with my wife to give me one more chance. I don’t deserve
It but am throwing myself on her mercy.
She has reached her limit of course, but still hoping.
Here we go guys. More s
t is coming my way from hubby. So last night I found out 13th October last year he took our youngest to see her sister at Med school. The eldest was depressed and they went to cheer her up. They got there by 10.00. He left them in E’s room and told them he is going shopping. By 10.12am he already got a text from a working girl with her address and was with her by 10.35am. After he finished he was back with our children, hugging them and taking selfies like it was normal. He took them shopping and for lunch and rewarded himself with new doc martens. And this happens some other times when he was with them, as he admitted it.
He polluted my babies with pathology and he doesn’t understand why I’m upset. He is on the phone telling me it’s not a big deal because they weren’t there with him and he showered and why can’t I just get over this and give him another chance.
At a risk of sounding hysterical please tell me is this normal for men to think???
t is coming my way from hubby. So last night I found out 13th October last year he took our youngest to see her sister at Med school. The eldest was depressed and they went to cheer her up. They got there by 10.00. He left them in E’s room and told them he is going shopping. By 10.12am he already got a text from a working girl with her address and was with her by 10.35am. After he finished he was back with our children, hugging them and taking selfies like it was normal. He took them shopping and for lunch and rewarded himself with new doc martens. And this happens some other times when he was with them, as he admitted it. He polluted my babies with pathology and he doesn’t understand why I’m upset. He is on the phone telling me it’s not a big deal because they weren’t there with him and he showered and why can’t I just get over this and give him another chance.
At a risk of sounding hysterical please tell me is this normal for men to think???
Dan_1981 said:
Imagine for one second that this is real....
Do either of you think this is helping? Seriously?
Now as it's a wind up it doesn't particularly matter but....
It doesn’t help in the practical sense, Joanna is rightly annoyed that I shared a bias story where “husband has been wronged financially” where there is a much bigger story where she isn’t a “witch” but acting rationally to be sure her and our children are protected financially.Do either of you think this is helping? Seriously?
Now as it's a wind up it doesn't particularly matter but....
Now, if any of you are a marriage counsellor or psychiatrists feel me to message me.
Sorry guys for my previous post. I get upset when he throws more crap my way and I’m like a lioness for my babies. And he sounds so sane that I forget he is mentally unwell. Sane person wouldn't have done everything he did. Please forgive me for putting all of you in the middle of this. It’s enough. I’m out. Thank you for your understanding and helpful comments.
Soon-to-be-ex-shadowy_me said:
Sorry guys for my previous post. I get upset when he throws more crap my way and I’m like a lioness for my babies. And he sounds so sane that I forget he is mentally unwell. Sane person wouldn't have done everything he did. Please forgive me for putting all of you in the middle of this. It’s enough. I’m out. Thank you for your understanding and helpful comments.
I was going to say the same, this isn’t the place for this. I would take it off line. You won’t solve anything here.evoraboy12 said:
Shadowy_me said:
Apart from everything else, he has also been posting ads on Craig’s list, hello London and gum tree and told me that they were just to chat to people to make himself feel better. To me it looks like they were ads for sex. Can you tell me your male opinion please?
1. “Nice guy looking for wild passion”
2. “Bored and looking for daytime fun”
3. “ Single guy looking for adult fun”
4. “ English guy looking for hook ups”
this must be a joke! you really need to ask?1. “Nice guy looking for wild passion”
2. “Bored and looking for daytime fun”
3. “ Single guy looking for adult fun”
4. “ English guy looking for hook ups”
The fact that both accounts were posting pretty much one after another are the biggest clue.
10/10 for effort. Bonkers.
Shadowy_me said:
This isn’t a wind up and he original (male) poster is back. I did all these horrible things including visiting a sex
Worker between dropping and picking my children up. Horrid.
I am in lots of therapy and I am pleading with my wife to give me one more chance. I don’t deserve
It but am throwing myself on her mercy.
She has reached her limit of course, but still hoping.
jesus weptWorker between dropping and picking my children up. Horrid.
I am in lots of therapy and I am pleading with my wife to give me one more chance. I don’t deserve
It but am throwing myself on her mercy.
She has reached her limit of course, but still hoping.
Epic thread
Reminds me of another forum when a chap spun a web of himself, his sister, her friends and all sorts of family members all posting on the same thread discussion but it was all him
The fallout when he got sussed was great :lol: one of the weirdest threads I've read
This comes close - better subject matter. Amazing effort logging In/out to keep it going
Reminds me of another forum when a chap spun a web of himself, his sister, her friends and all sorts of family members all posting on the same thread discussion but it was all him
The fallout when he got sussed was great :lol: one of the weirdest threads I've read
This comes close - better subject matter. Amazing effort logging In/out to keep it going
jules_s said:
Epic thread
Reminds me of another forum when a chap spun a web of himself, his sister, her friends and all sorts of family members all posting on the same thread discussion but it was all him
The fallout when he got sussed was great :lol: one of the weirdest threads I've read
This comes close - better subject matter. Amazing effort logging In/out to keep it going
From what I understand from your posts here there are some bored and crazy people out there. I’m kind of fed up having to proof to you that I’m real. I even put my photo onto my login at a risk of being bulldozered here. I honestly don’t know what else I can do to get your advice. I can’t give you my name or social media as I’m connected to my children and want to preserve their privacy too. Reminds me of another forum when a chap spun a web of himself, his sister, her friends and all sorts of family members all posting on the same thread discussion but it was all him
The fallout when he got sussed was great :lol: one of the weirdest threads I've read
This comes close - better subject matter. Amazing effort logging In/out to keep it going
And I know this sounds crazy but this pathology is my life now and I don’t know what to think about it apart from every now and then go “what the hell?!”
I needed to hear the male side of things as we have been together for 22 years and my husband is great at manipulating me. I actually think he believes all that he says, it must be a mental illness.
I wanted to hear your opinions and reactions because it’s difficult not to loose faith in men all together after s
t like that. And if I have to be celibate for the rest of my life not to put myself in such a situation again, I will be, but I needed to know what is normality for you guys. I would like to believe that there are good men out there and that maybe there is a chance for me in the future after I’m done with all the therapy and healing.
Hearing your opinions also helps with staying strong in my resolve at not letting my husband back into my life again.
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