Confused about an ex-girlfriend

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bluenosewrx said:

What's on the Tiffany thing?? Or pandora, I am interested in you want rid, ram the teddy and mug though

The Tiffany thing is hers. I won't be selling it despite spending a four figure sum on it.

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We'll see.

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One MoreDonkey said:

You've spent a four figure some on one item for an EX!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Jesus H Christ. You are a mug.

She wasn't an ex at the time.

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If you want an update a month down the line, two months etc then I'll do that.

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Okay, it was going okay, things were getting back to normal but she keeps changing her mind again so I told her I'm going away for a while, that didn't go down well.

Just waiting for all the told you so comments...

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I'm moving back home for six months...

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130 miles away or so. Going down for a few days until I can sort out a permanent place.

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Probably. She knows how to guilt me into it. Need to grow some balls and get laid elsewhere to get my mind off it

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No selling, I'm a doormat remember...

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All that jazz said:

Respect to PH95 for keeping us all updated on the situation - most others would have stormed off in a huff by now at all the piss-taking . In the interests of balance, while we all take the piss it's only because we did exactly the same thing ourselves, ignoring the sage advice of own friends and family, convincing ourselves that they were most definitely wrong and ploughed on regardless. I expect you will end up treading the same beaten path and meet your eventual fate the same way we did . It's easy for us to sit here shouting END IT NOW!!11 but it was nigh on impossible to do back then and isn't any different now.

So what's your plan for Christmas, PH95? Disappointingly I've not managed to find your 3ft teddy bear or Tiffany ring thingy on Ebay so does that mean you're still pressing ahead to woo her back with expensive gifts?

Plan for Christmas is/was to spend it with her on Christmas Day and Boxing Day, then both of us to go down to my family for a couple of days after. The plan now I have no idea...

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I have heart problems so have had my licence revoked. Life is grim right now!

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I'm glad I can keep you entertained. We've only just scratched the surface so far!

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I'd update this thread but I'll get shouted at.

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Sold my Fiesta ST, mostly because I can't drive it, secondly to fund something else.

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I'm here. Sorry to disappoint but nothing to update.

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Thread has run its course. I got the advice I needed and that's all I was after.

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No, I haven't proposed and I definitely don't plan to either. Nothing like that either. I have clarity now so I don't really have much else to say! Sorry to disappoint.

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Romantically involved? No. Still friends? Yes. Not spending Christmas together as I've taken a step back. I have taken everyone's advice.

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"Friends with benefits". I'll still give her the presents, we haven't fallen out after all.

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Not sure what part of not romantically involved you guys didn't grasp. I've been honest about being hung over about it so far, why would I start lying now? It's actually surprising that once you've lost feelings how stupid you feel about the whole thing.