Should I talk my mother in law out of this?

Should I talk my mother in law out of this?

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gr1340

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980 posts

205 months

Tuesday 29th July 2014
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My MIL owns a 2008 Honda Civic 1.4 petrol with just 32k on the clock that she has had from new and always serviced on the button at Honda.

During the service she spotted a brand new blue Civic 1.4 diesel and was offered 6k trade in and a balance of 11k to pay to change. The reason she wants to change is that she doesn't want to lose anymore money on it in depreciation.

Obviously she doesn't do a lot of miles and she isn't a car lover really, just an a to b type owner. An example of this is the trip computer has the same mileage as the odometer (no idea how to reset) and I am pretty sure she doesn't understand all the Eco lights that appear at a certain rev range.

So, should I talk her out of it? Yes, it's her money but she has taken the big hit already, chucking another 11k into the mix will just leave her in the same situation in 5 years time but without 11k in the bank. I just don't feel that she is spending her hard earned cash for no benefit.

Am I right or should I leave her to her own devices?

Shaw Tarse

31,544 posts

205 months

Tuesday 29th July 2014
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gr1340 said:
Am I right or should I leave her to her own devices?
Yes

mybrainhurts

90,809 posts

257 months

Tuesday 29th July 2014
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You are right.

But wimmin don't listen to good advice...smile

mybrainhurts

90,809 posts

257 months

Tuesday 29th July 2014
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Shaw Tarse said:
gr1340 said:
Am I right or should I leave her to her own devices?
Yes
Just about covers it...hehe

PS...what are these "devices", of which you speak?

gaz1234

5,233 posts

221 months

Tuesday 29th July 2014
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Let her blow it

Tc24

528 posts

141 months

Tuesday 29th July 2014
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I'd be more concerned that she's not even averaging 6k miles per year and is considering a diesel!

Stenn

2,315 posts

136 months

Tuesday 29th July 2014
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Tc24 said:
I'd be more concerned that she's not even averaging 6k miles per year and is considering a diesel!
This. If she fancies a shiny new car it's her money, no problem but Id advise her to look at petrol models.

Looket

688 posts

123 months

Tuesday 29th July 2014
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Does she think the new one is a future classic and hence won't depreciate?

mybrainhurts

90,809 posts

257 months

Tuesday 29th July 2014
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gaz1234 said:
Let her blow it
It's his mother in law, so that's incest...

brillomaster

1,288 posts

172 months

Tuesday 29th July 2014
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'doesnt want to lose any more money on depreciation'... so is considering selling the car that will depreciate maybe £3k in the next 5 years, for one that will depreciate £11k in the next 5 years?!?

man maths definitely trumps women logic, they clearly dont have a clue!

pork911

7,289 posts

185 months

Tuesday 29th July 2014
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mybrainhurts said:
It's his mother in law, so that's incest...
...?

Otispunkmeyer

12,662 posts

157 months

Tuesday 29th July 2014
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Doesn't want to lose any more in depreciation. So buy a new car that's going to drop value at an even greater rate of knots. Nice logic!

shalmaneser

5,944 posts

197 months

Wednesday 30th July 2014
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gr1340 said:
During the service she spotted a brand new blue Civic 1.4 diesel and was offered 6k trade in and a balance of 11k to pay to change. The reason she wants to change is that she doesn't want to lose anymore money on it in depreciation.


TooMany2cvs

29,008 posts

128 months

Wednesday 30th July 2014
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gr1340 said:
The reason she wants to change is that she doesn't want to lose anymore money on it in depreciation.
DPF asides, my head hurts.

Bennet

2,125 posts

133 months

Wednesday 30th July 2014
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If she's the nice, reasonable, appreciative sort, tell her. If she's a sow, leave her to it.

Bill

53,082 posts

257 months

Wednesday 30th July 2014
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hehe

Polrules

394 posts

236 months

Wednesday 30th July 2014
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How old is she? Anywhere near 60 then there is a good chance her current car will outlive her anyway.

trickywoo

11,951 posts

232 months

Wednesday 30th July 2014
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No good comes out of giving advice on cars.

If it needs work doing in the near future you'll get the blame for it (never mind if that would still work out less than the depreciation on new).

Most women just don't get cars. I'm surprised she has it serviced.

If you really want to do her a favour give her the trade in price and sell the car yourself for a profit - then take her out for a nice dinner.

996TT02

3,309 posts

142 months

Wednesday 30th July 2014
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If she is concerned about depreciation, you should agree with her that she should replace her Civic with another one. Preferably made in 1978.

FredClogs

14,041 posts

163 months

Wednesday 30th July 2014
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Get a solicitor to draft some paper work giving you power of attorney, she's clearly mental.