problem sorted after get connected to the diagnose computer it turns out that the fault is the coil pack even though that when tested it was and is giving spark for the 4 cylinders, but at least isnt engine wise the problem
or maybe its not sorted.... after all this and a new coil pack now it seems to be the throttle position sensor....... grrrrrrr starting to have enough of it, love the car but its a bit frustrating spending money to fix it and still not fixed..........