Car damaged, Scote caught, now wants to apologise
Discussion
Soovy said:
cal72 said:
Give her a chance.
Those that are from a troubled/not so well off family back ground. Are the more lickly ones to cause this sort of damage.There is good in some of those people and you got to give them at least one chance to help get them out of it.
Don't write everybody off straight away.You never know when someone appologises they may even learn to actually meen it.
Those that are from a troubled/not so well off family back ground. Are the more lickly ones to cause this sort of damage.There is good in some of those people and you got to give them at least one chance to help get them out of it.
Don't write everybody off straight away.You never know when someone appologises they may even learn to actually meen it.
Quite possibly the most limp wristed apologist b0ll0cks I've EVER read, and the reason why this country is in such a state.
She should be beaten to DEATH, because she's a pikey scumbag. She trashed a GT3RS for no reason, and she's had a warning from the police before.
People like this should be sent to the workhouse for life!!
Edited by Soovy on Monday 5th July 11:17
I don't disagree that the girl and her friends should pay for the damage even push it through small claims court.
What i was getting at that this girl or many other kids out there may just be screaming out for the attention of someone decent to help shape them into the person they beleive they are inside and not the person their parents treat them like(or the so called friends).
What i am saying is give her the chance to appologise ask her to work off some of the bill by way of doing some odd jobs she may even be happy to do than that hang with the friends she does.
Not everyone is bad inside people.
What i was getting at that this girl or many other kids out there may just be screaming out for the attention of someone decent to help shape them into the person they beleive they are inside and not the person their parents treat them like(or the so called friends).
What i am saying is give her the chance to appologise ask her to work off some of the bill by way of doing some odd jobs she may even be happy to do than that hang with the friends she does.
Not everyone is bad inside people.
cal72 said:
I don't disagree that the girl and her friends should pay for the damage even push it through small claims court.
What i was getting at that this girl or many other kids out there may just be screaming out for the attention of someone decent to help shape them into the person they beleive they are inside and not the person their parents treat them like(or the so called friends).
What i am saying is give her the chance to appologise ask her to work off some of the bill by way of doing some odd jobs she may even be happy to do than that hang with the friends she does.
Not everyone is bad inside people.
This is my Wifes thinking in this matter. She thinks she was only doing it to fit in with the even more troubled kids that roam our streets. My initial thinking on this subject was bWhat i was getting at that this girl or many other kids out there may just be screaming out for the attention of someone decent to help shape them into the person they beleive they are inside and not the person their parents treat them like(or the so called friends).
What i am saying is give her the chance to appologise ask her to work off some of the bill by way of doing some odd jobs she may even be happy to do than that hang with the friends she does.
Not everyone is bad inside people.
ks a fking apology just won't cut the mustard but I am sure that if I suggest something to the police like she should help pick up litter or something in our village it would give her time to think about what she has done. I know deep down it will be my wallet paying to fix the damage and not hers. Its just the way things are.cal72 said:
I don't disagree that the girl and her friends should pay for the damage even push it through small claims court.
What i was getting at that this girl or many other kids out there may just be screaming out for the attention of someone decent to help shape them into the person they beleive they are inside and not the person their parents treat them like(or the so called friends).
What i am saying is give her the chance to appologise ask her to work off some of the bill by way of doing some odd jobs she may even be happy to do than that hang with the friends she does.
Not everyone is bad inside people.
It has been suggested before.What i was getting at that this girl or many other kids out there may just be screaming out for the attention of someone decent to help shape them into the person they beleive they are inside and not the person their parents treat them like(or the so called friends).
What i am saying is give her the chance to appologise ask her to work off some of the bill by way of doing some odd jobs she may even be happy to do than that hang with the friends she does.
Not everyone is bad inside people.
Depends on her "qualifications" of course
.ZesPak said:
cal72 said:
I don't disagree that the girl and her friends should pay for the damage even push it through small claims court.
What i was getting at that this girl or many other kids out there may just be screaming out for the attention of someone decent to help shape them into the person they beleive they are inside and not the person their parents treat them like(or the so called friends).
What i am saying is give her the chance to appologise ask her to work off some of the bill by way of doing some odd jobs she may even be happy to do than that hang with the friends she does.
Not everyone is bad inside people.
It has been suggested before.What i was getting at that this girl or many other kids out there may just be screaming out for the attention of someone decent to help shape them into the person they beleive they are inside and not the person their parents treat them like(or the so called friends).
What i am saying is give her the chance to appologise ask her to work off some of the bill by way of doing some odd jobs she may even be happy to do than that hang with the friends she does.
Not everyone is bad inside people.
Depends on her "qualifications" of course
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cal72 said:
I don't disagree that the girl and her friends should pay for the damage even push it through small claims court.
What i was getting at that this girl or many other kids out there may just be screaming out for the attention of someone decent to help shape them into the person they beleive they are inside and not the person their parents treat them like(or the so called friends).
What i am saying is give her the chance to appologise ask her to work off some of the bill by way of doing some odd jobs she may even be happy to do than that hang with the friends she does.
Not everyone is bad inside people.
i know what your saying, but what you dont get is this...What i was getting at that this girl or many other kids out there may just be screaming out for the attention of someone decent to help shape them into the person they beleive they are inside and not the person their parents treat them like(or the so called friends).
What i am saying is give her the chance to appologise ask her to work off some of the bill by way of doing some odd jobs she may even be happy to do than that hang with the friends she does.
Not everyone is bad inside people.
she will say sorry by letter, you can not reply, you do not have the right to ask her to perform unpaid work.
and more importantly, the op is not her social worker, she has been caught many times before to be on her last warning. social workers and what other expensive resources have been thrown at her will have tried to help, do you think the op is better qualified to put this girl to right ?it is NOT her that wishes to say sorry, its a way to get off, offered to her not suggested by her.
if she honestly meant the apoligy, she would offer the free work would she not?
no offence, but its the thoughts like yours that makes this offer one they use. why do the police offer it? because it closes the case as final without a huge cost.
cal72 said:
I don't disagree that the girl and her friends should pay for the damage even push it through small claims court.
What i was getting at that this girl or many other kids out there may just be screaming out for the attention of someone decent to help shape them into the person they beleive they are inside and not the person their parents treat them like(or the so called friends).
What i am saying is give her the chance to appologise ask her to work off some of the bill by way of doing some odd jobs she may even be happy to do than that hang with the friends she does.
Not everyone is bad inside people.
bWhat i was getting at that this girl or many other kids out there may just be screaming out for the attention of someone decent to help shape them into the person they beleive they are inside and not the person their parents treat them like(or the so called friends).
What i am saying is give her the chance to appologise ask her to work off some of the bill by way of doing some odd jobs she may even be happy to do than that hang with the friends she does.
Not everyone is bad inside people.
ks. The st apple never falls far from the st tree. She's a stter, Her friends are stters and it's a pretty safe bet that her parents are stters too.I just thought i should counter-act your Rose-tinted spectacles with my Brown-tinted ones.
Soovy said:
You oculd agree to drop it if she does OXO on her 16th birthday.
She probably already does it with all the local chav trash.Another thing to look forward to will be in a
Perhaps you could agree to the apology if she will agree to be sterilised? It would probably be cheaper for you in the long run.
Mr Darcy said:
Her and her mates seemed to think it would be funny to run a stone or something donw the whole side of the RS. Lovely people. She actually got a final warning from the old bill and when I mentioned to the copper about a civil claim, now she has been charged, he did say "Good luck with that. They are not well off people." If I put a claim in they will be forced to repay it at about 50p per month and the chances of me even seeing that are minmial. I also know she is only apologising as the BiB probably made her do it along with her new appointed social worker type person. I still want to make her feel uncomfortable about it.
Simple, you get a judgement against them then sell the debt. Granted you'll get less than the total value of the claim, but you'll get a chunk of cash and they'll get a knock on the door from big burly men to take their stuff away.T_Pot said:
i know what your saying, but what you dont get is this...
she will say sorry by letter, you can not reply, you do not have the right to ask her to perform unpaid work.
and more importantly, the op is not her social worker, she has been caught many times before to be on her last warning. social workers and what other expensive resources have been thrown at her will have tried to help, do you think the op is better qualified to put this girl to right ?it is NOT her that wishes to say sorry, its a way to get off, offered to her not suggested by her.
if she honestly meant the apoligy, she would offer the free work would she not?
no offence, but its the thoughts like yours that makes this offer one they use. why do the police offer it? because it closes the case as final without a huge cost.
If thats the case then i would go hardline.Take them to court all of them persue to the ends of the earth for justice.I am in the thinking that i would give anyone a fare chance but if they have used that up then hell yes sue the fshe will say sorry by letter, you can not reply, you do not have the right to ask her to perform unpaid work.
and more importantly, the op is not her social worker, she has been caught many times before to be on her last warning. social workers and what other expensive resources have been thrown at her will have tried to help, do you think the op is better qualified to put this girl to right ?it is NOT her that wishes to say sorry, its a way to get off, offered to her not suggested by her.
if she honestly meant the apoligy, she would offer the free work would she not?
no offence, but its the thoughts like yours that makes this offer one they use. why do the police offer it? because it closes the case as final without a huge cost.
kers for everything they and want to have for the next 10 years show them that there is nothing left but the stty little life they have is the best there ever goner be.Marf said:
Mr Darcy said:
Her and her mates seemed to think it would be funny to run a stone or something donw the whole side of the RS. Lovely people. She actually got a final warning from the old bill and when I mentioned to the copper about a civil claim, now she has been charged, he did say "Good luck with that. They are not well off people." If I put a claim in they will be forced to repay it at about 50p per month and the chances of me even seeing that are minmial. I also know she is only apologising as the BiB probably made her do it along with her new appointed social worker type person. I still want to make her feel uncomfortable about it.
Simple, you get a judgement against them then sell the debt. Granted you'll get less than the total value of the claim, but you'll get a chunk of cash and they'll get a knock on the door from big burly men to take their stuff away.They'll have their flat screen TV taken away, and the PS3/Xbox/Wii aswell.. All funded from our Taxes though, eh.
Jonny671 said:
Marf said:
Mr Darcy said:
Her and her mates seemed to think it would be funny to run a stone or something donw the whole side of the RS. Lovely people. She actually got a final warning from the old bill and when I mentioned to the copper about a civil claim, now she has been charged, he did say "Good luck with that. They are not well off people." If I put a claim in they will be forced to repay it at about 50p per month and the chances of me even seeing that are minmial. I also know she is only apologising as the BiB probably made her do it along with her new appointed social worker type person. I still want to make her feel uncomfortable about it.
Simple, you get a judgement against them then sell the debt. Granted you'll get less than the total value of the claim, but you'll get a chunk of cash and they'll get a knock on the door from big burly men to take their stuff away.They'll have their flat screen TV taken away, and the PS3/Xbox/Wii aswell.. All funded from our Taxes though, eh.
Marf said:
Mr Darcy said:
Her and her mates seemed to think it would be funny to run a stone or something donw the whole side of the RS. Lovely people. She actually got a final warning from the old bill and when I mentioned to the copper about a civil claim, now she has been charged, he did say "Good luck with that. They are not well off people." If I put a claim in they will be forced to repay it at about 50p per month and the chances of me even seeing that are minmial. I also know she is only apologising as the BiB probably made her do it along with her new appointed social worker type person. I still want to make her feel uncomfortable about it.
Simple, you get a judgement against them then sell the debt. Granted you'll get less than the total value of the claim, but you'll get a chunk of cash and they'll get a knock on the door from big burly men to take their stuff away.And for dessert, phone the Benefits Grassline and tell them they are fiddling benefits. Which they will be.
A shame that a bottle of gin and a knitting needle weren't used 16 years ago.
cal72 said:
If thats the case then i would go hardline.Take them to court all of them persue to the ends of the earth for justice.I am in the thinking that i would give anyone a fare chance but if they have used that up then hell yes sue the fkers for everything they and want to have for the next 10 years show them that there is nothing left but the stty little life they have is the best there ever goner be.
Indeed, and maybe then they'll learn that mindlessly damaging other people's property only makes their own skers for everything they and want to have for the next 10 years show them that there is nothing left but the stty little life they have is the best there ever goner be.tty little lives worse.
I would imagine that (as above) using the Small Claims Court procedure would work - and you could (as above) sell the debt.
However, her parents should be given the opportunity to pay before taking action. I imagine you'd need to do this before starting a claim through the court in any event.
Will your insurance cover the damage and how would they reclaim from the family I wonder? You would still need to reclaim the excess I imagine too.
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