First Crash...Afterthoughts :(

First Crash...Afterthoughts :(

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R7YN

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278 posts

141 months

Sunday 14th July 2013
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Ray Luxury-Yacht

8,910 posts

218 months

Sunday 14th July 2013
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R7YN said:
Cannot prove the other vehicles speed and as it was their right of way
Not strictly true.

Did the BiB turn up? If they did, then as a result of your observation that the other driver was speeding (I assume he hit the brakes pretty hard when he saw you in the way?) then they can measure the skid marks left in the road and make a decent stab at estimating his speed. Doesn't have to be an exact measurement, as long as it can be shown that he was exceeding the limit by a decent margin, then happy days.



rix

2,807 posts

192 months

Sunday 14th July 2013
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Chin up mate...

I'd always advocate advanced driving lessons as able to improve even the above averagely skilled driver, but don't be too hard on yourself, these things happen.

A reflective moment on a relatively minor accident may well have saved a bigger spill that may have been brewing!

Fantuzzi

3,297 posts

148 months

Sunday 14th July 2013
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Ray Luxury-Yacht said:
R7YN said:
Cannot prove the other vehicles speed and as it was their right of way
Not strictly true.

Did the BiB turn up? If they did, then as a result of your observation that the other driver was speeding (I assume he hit the brakes pretty hard when he saw you in the way?) then they can measure the skid marks left in the road and make a decent stab at estimating his speed. Doesn't have to be an exact measurement, as long as it can be shown that he was exceeding the limit by a decent margin, then happy days.
Try this, sorry to hear about this.

Hark

592 posts

182 months

Sunday 14th July 2013
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Take it easy and get back out on the roads. You're confidence will come back. Learn from it and move on.

F1GTRUeno

6,384 posts

220 months

Sunday 14th July 2013
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I've had two write off's now.

First was youthful inexperience, second was an example of not knowing what to do when a hazard runs across in front of you (hit the fker next time).

This time around I was quite apprehensive about getting back behind the wheel but as soon as I did I was the same as ever.

I dislike driving though really. Far too many middle aged mums clogging up the road or dheads in their pride and joy cutting you up or flying past you to enjoy it. It's just a means to get from A to B without having to take the bus or walk.

ging84

9,028 posts

148 months

Sunday 14th July 2013
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sounds like it must have been a very blind corner the 4x4 was hammering round
i expect that is something the insurers would taking into account when assessing

Ray Luxury-Yacht

8,910 posts

218 months

Sunday 14th July 2013
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R7YN said:
Ray Luxury-Yacht said:
Not strictly true.

Did the BiB turn up? If they did, then as a result of your observation that the other driver was speeding (I assume he hit the brakes pretty hard when he saw you in the way?) then they can measure the skid marks left in the road and make a decent stab at estimating his speed. Doesn't have to be an exact measurement, as long as it can be shown that he was exceeding the limit by a decent margin, then happy days.
Yea I called the Bib.

No Roads Policing Arrived, just response, and as it was a non-injury RTC no investigation took place to be honest.
Er, well my flabber is gasted...

Did you assert with any degree of gravitas to the Police that the other party was definitely speeding, no doubt, and that an investigation was warranted???

After all, it's your insurance and your pocket that will take the hit, no??!!


P1H

418 posts

150 months

Sunday 14th July 2013
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F1GTRUeno said:
I dislike driving though really. Far too many middle aged mums clogging up the road or dheads in their pride and joy cutting you up or flying past you to enjoy it. It's just a means to get from A to B without having to take the bus or walk.


Why on earth are you on pistonheads?


Camaro

1,419 posts

177 months

Sunday 14th July 2013
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Cheer up lad, these things happen, just be glad both parties have walked away and nothing more serious.

After my first 'bump' i was adamant I was never going to drive again, but you realise its only metal and plastic and driving is a useful skill!

gforceg

3,524 posts

181 months

Sunday 14th July 2013
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Serious question OP.

Didn't you hear it coming? Tyre noise? Revving (possibly diesel) engine?

I don't doubt you saying she was hammering it but how long were you in the danger area before she hove into view?

Don't let it dent your confidence.

smiffy180

6,018 posts

152 months

Sunday 14th July 2013
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Google maps link? PH can judge for itself how bad the corner is then?

Bad luck though, I was nearly caught out on a blind bend junction like you this morning. Luckily it was a 20 and the driver happily let me out, a lot don't do 20 though.

Ray Luxury-Yacht

8,910 posts

218 months

Sunday 14th July 2013
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R7YN said:
Ray Luxury-Yacht said:
Did you assert with any degree of gravitas to the Police that the other party was definitely speeding, no doubt, and that an investigation was warranted???
I explained the circumstances to the Officer who stated it was a matter for the insurance companies. Spoke to a mate also who is a Traffic Cop and was of the thinking that without any proof of her speeding I need to just take it and learn from experience.

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Seriously? Jesus, have some of the Police forgotten their 'MO' - i.e. that they work for us, to protect and serve???

It seems like the attending officer and your mate have both decided that they are qualified to be 'judge and jury' to an incident, despite not actually being present at that incident!

Unless something has changed to a horrendously detrimental degree, last time I looked the Police were duty bound to investigate fully with every tool at their disposal, any complaint made to them by the public (you know, the people who pay their taxes for an effective Police force?) They are surely duty bound to at least attempt to gather evidence to substantiate / support / prove / disprove an allegation???

I know that if I was in your shoes, I would be jumping up and down and making a lot of noise about this to the BiB, if I was as confident as you are that the other party was speeding.

This strikes me as, once again, the attending officer deciding that there is no 'easy nick' to be made, and that to investigate further on your behalf would only benefit you and not him, so it's way too much trouble and it's easier to fob you off.

I would be proper Mr. Angry right now mad





FakeConcern

336 posts

139 months

Sunday 14th July 2013
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Sorry for you having to go through this. I had almost the same thing about a year ago, the main difference being instead of a bend it was the brow of a hill on my right. The car that hit me was driven by a woman who had just passed her test & made no attempt to stop, steer around or slow, any of which would have easily avoided contact. So no skid marks left on road. Both cars written off. The driver behind me was willing to testify that this was the other drivers fault, but my insurance company took the view that as I was in the minor road it would cost too much to fight the case. Now it is still going on as she now claims she was hurt in the accident & claiming compensation. I hope it is more straight forward for you!

Synchromesh

2,428 posts

168 months

Sunday 14th July 2013
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Streetview link...

http://goo.gl/maps/9FbxX

bencollins4

1,107 posts

208 months

Sunday 14th July 2013
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Ray Luxury-Yacht said:
R7YN said:
Ray Luxury-Yacht said:
Did you assert with any degree of gravitas to the Police that the other party was definitely speeding, no doubt, and that an investigation was warranted???
I explained the circumstances to the Officer who stated it was a matter for the insurance companies. Spoke to a mate also who is a Traffic Cop and was of the thinking that without any proof of her speeding I need to just take it and learn from experience.

frown
Seriously? Jesus, have some of the Police forgotten their 'MO' - i.e. that they work for us, to protect and serve???

It seems like the attending officer and your mate have both decided that they are qualified to be 'judge and jury' to an incident, despite not actually being present at that incident!

Unless something has changed to a horrendously detrimental degree, last time I looked the Police were duty bound to investigate fully with every tool at their disposal, any complaint made to them by the public (you know, the people who pay their taxes for an effective Police force?) They are surely duty bound to at least attempt to gather evidence to substantiate / support / prove / disprove an allegation???

I know that if I was in your shoes, I would be jumping up and down and making a lot of noise about this to the BiB, if I was as confident as you are that the other party was speeding.

This strikes me as, once again, the attending officer deciding that there is no 'easy nick' to be made, and that to investigate further on your behalf would only benefit you and not him, so it's way too much trouble and it's easier to fob you off.

I would be proper Mr. Angry right now mad
This completely the norm I'm afraid. The Police will virtually never spend time investigating an accident where there are no serious injuries.

Unless you have an independent witness I think you'll have to take it on the chin I'm afraid OP. Even with one it's not your right of way as you say and even if he was speeding it wouldn't mean he was at fault.

Best of luck getting it all sorted.

Ray Luxury-Yacht

8,910 posts

218 months

Sunday 14th July 2013
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bencollins4 said:
Ray Luxury-Yacht said:
R7YN said:
Ray Luxury-Yacht said:
Did you assert with any degree of gravitas to the Police that the other party was definitely speeding, no doubt, and that an investigation was warranted???
I explained the circumstances to the Officer who stated it was a matter for the insurance companies. Spoke to a mate also who is a Traffic Cop and was of the thinking that without any proof of her speeding I need to just take it and learn from experience.

frown
Seriously? Jesus, have some of the Police forgotten their 'MO' - i.e. that they work for us, to protect and serve???

It seems like the attending officer and your mate have both decided that they are qualified to be 'judge and jury' to an incident, despite not actually being present at that incident!

Unless something has changed to a horrendously detrimental degree, last time I looked the Police were duty bound to investigate fully with every tool at their disposal, any complaint made to them by the public (you know, the people who pay their taxes for an effective Police force?) They are surely duty bound to at least attempt to gather evidence to substantiate / support / prove / disprove an allegation???

I know that if I was in your shoes, I would be jumping up and down and making a lot of noise about this to the BiB, if I was as confident as you are that the other party was speeding.

This strikes me as, once again, the attending officer deciding that there is no 'easy nick' to be made, and that to investigate further on your behalf would only benefit you and not him, so it's way too much trouble and it's easier to fob you off.

I would be proper Mr. Angry right now mad
This completely the norm I'm afraid. The Police will virtually never spend time investigating an accident where there are no serious injuries.

Unless you have an independent witness I think you'll have to take it on the chin I'm afraid OP. Even with one it's not your right of way as you say and even if he was speeding it wouldn't mean he was at fault.

Best of luck getting it all sorted.
Well then, as a UK citizen and taxpayer - 'I are disappoint...'

What a rather rubbish state of affairs...

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crazy about cars

4,454 posts

171 months

Sunday 14th July 2013
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This is a good reason to have a good in-car DVR camera. Although I'm not so sure how effective is that for side impact though...

Hope you get everything sorted soon.

Mandat

3,908 posts

240 months

Sunday 14th July 2013
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Synchromesh said:
Streetview link...

http://goo.gl/maps/9FbxX
Taken from the Street View link, that is no way a blind bend in any sense of the word.

Both drivers would have seen each other from a long distance away, therefore the OP's story doesn't seem to hold water.


crazy about cars

4,454 posts

171 months

Sunday 14th July 2013
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Mandat said:
Synchromesh said:
Streetview link...

http://goo.gl/maps/9FbxX
Taken from the Street View link, that is no way a blind bend in any sense of the word.

Both drivers would have seen each other from a long distance away, therefore the OP's story doesn't seem to hold water.

If the 4x4 is doing > 50mph around that corner it would be hard to judge...