Car damaged, Scote caught, now wants to apologise

[Mr Darcy]

So to cut a long story short one of my cars got vandalised but luckily I saw them little scrotes that did it. Police caught them, one admitted to it and now wants to apologise. Now how can I make this 15yr girl feel really uncomfortable about the damage she caused to my beloved motor. I really want to put her through the mill about it.

[Mr Darcy]

Fat chance of that happening. even if I but a civil claim in can a 15yr old girl realistically pay off 1.5Ks worth of repair bill? Probably not. Could pimp her out I guess.

[Mr Darcy]

Tsippy said:

Could you vandalise her?

Can't I go to jail for that?

[Mr Darcy]

Her and her mates seemed to think it would be funny to run a stone or something donw the whole side of the RS. Lovely people. She actually got a final warning from the old bill and when I mentioned to the copper about a civil claim, now she has been charged, he did say "Good luck with that. They are not well off people." If I put a claim in they will be forced to repay it at about 50p per month and the chances of me even seeing that are minmial. I also know she is only apologising as the BiB probably made her do it along with her new appointed social worker type person. I still want to make her feel uncomfortable about it.

Edited by Mr Darcy on Monday 5th July 11:06

[Mr Darcy]

Soovy said:

Mr Darcy said:

Her and her mates seemed to think it would be funny to run a stone or something donw the whole side of the RS. Lovely people. She actually got a final warning from the old bill and when I mentioned to the copper about a civil claim now she has been charged he did say "Good luck with that. They are not well off people." Now if I put a claim in they will be forced to repay it at about 50p per month and the chances of me even seeing that are minmial. I also know she is only apologising as the BiB probably made her do it along with her new appointed social worker type person. I still want to make her feel uncomfortable about it. It is not going to be a breeze for her.

Yes it is.

She doesn't give a fk.

She's probably texting her mates calling you a .

You are 100% right. I don't think she has any remorse for it at all. This is what I want to try to distill in her. I shall think of something that will make sure her summer weekends aren't what she thinks they are going to be like.

[Mr Darcy]

cal72 said:

I don't disagree that the girl and her friends should pay for the damage even push it through small claims court.
What i was getting at that this girl or many other kids out there may just be screaming out for the attention of someone decent to help shape them into the person they beleive they are inside and not the person their parents treat them like(or the so called friends).
What i am saying is give her the chance to appologise ask her to work off some of the bill by way of doing some odd jobs she may even be happy to do than that hang with the friends she does.
Not everyone is bad inside people.

This is my Wifes thinking in this matter. She thinks she was only doing it to fit in with the even more troubled kids that roam our streets. My initial thinking on this subject was bks a fking apology just won't cut the mustard but I am sure that if I suggest something to the police like she should help pick up litter or something in our village it would give her time to think about what she has done. I know deep down it will be my wallet paying to fix the damage and not hers. Its just the way things are.

[Mr Darcy]

ZesPak said:

cal72 said:

I don't disagree that the girl and her friends should pay for the damage even push it through small claims court.
What i was getting at that this girl or many other kids out there may just be screaming out for the attention of someone decent to help shape them into the person they beleive they are inside and not the person their parents treat them like(or the so called friends).
What i am saying is give her the chance to appologise ask her to work off some of the bill by way of doing some odd jobs she may even be happy to do than that hang with the friends she does.
Not everyone is bad inside people.

It has been suggested before.
Depends on her "qualifications" of course .

According to one of the younger lads in the village she is meant to be pretty qualified in those matters

[Mr Darcy]

Dupont666 said:

can you not claim off insurance and instruct them to chase the family for payment?

How did they manage to get to the car? Is it not kept in a garage off the street? if not I suspect you want to move all of them now.

Been out, pulled up outside house to get wallet, then intended to drive off to get some smokes. As I come outside at about 9PM after being delayed by stuff I hear a scratchy noise and 1 local and 1 not so local chav girls running off. Noticed the damage straight away. Its a big fking scratch!

The insurance won't go after the family. I will have to pay the excesses and lose some NCB.

AS I said, it will be me having to pay to repair the car. Though I will probably go to small claims court, sell the debt to someone like Moorcroft or some other dodgy dca. Will investigate this.

Edited by Mr Darcy on Monday 5th July 11:52

Edited by Mr Darcy on Monday 5th July 11:57

[Mr Darcy]

Soovy said:

I would be concerned that any "positive" action would turn the OP into a target for further attacks- "that with the flash car what grassed us up".

This is my greatest fear. If I do take her family to court I am pretty sure that it will not be the end of it. I already get dirty looks off her friends when they see me.

[Mr Darcy]

Mazda Baiter said:

Pommygranite said:

Compensation, taking it further etc will get you precisely fking nowhere. There's a good chance she's sucking off a local Terry fkwit who will come back for more fun.

Balloon filled with paint stripper thrown at parents car as you run past, job done. Won't fix your damage but will give you a smug sense of getting even.

No. That is not the right way of going about things.

You want to damage her. Not her parent's car.

Might I suggest hog-tying her when she is naked, then suspending her from the rafters whilst you beat her with a willow broom, then use the broom handle to VBRJ her into seeing your point of view. Once that is done knock her teeth out with the back of a machete.

That would seem fair to me. These little Lydia Bennets have to be taught somehow.

Now this I like. What does VBRJ mean though?

[Mr Darcy]

So I have just spoken to her youth officer and a meeting will be taking place on thursday with myself, her, her youth officer and her parents. This will be taking police at the local nick. I suspect though that I will come out of that meeting more pissed off than I already am and launch some kind of claim against her parents.

Will let you know the outcome.


I do have her name now though so I guess I could facebook her but I don't have access to FB at work.

[Mr Darcy]

Found her boyfriend on Facebook

http://www.facebook.com/home.php?#!/profile.php?id...


God help us all.

[Mr Darcy]

Don't know how to.

[Mr Darcy]

Tried doing that but there is nothing.

If I could get on to his birds page I imagine she will have said something about it.

[Mr Darcy]

That is indeed our little scrote vandal.

[Mr Darcy]

That is indeed our little scrote vandal.

[Mr Darcy]

That is indeed our little scrote vandal

[Mr Darcy]

I will be taking notes.

[Mr Darcy]

**** UPDATE *****


So late yesterday afternoon the BiB come round to visit me. Thought it was just something to do with closure and what not so we have a little chat. It turns out the BiB arrested 2 people for it, one admitted to it the other said it wasn't her it was her boyfriend that did the damage. Now to me this seems very strange, why would she admit to doing it? TO protect her boyfriend? Why would the boyfriend let her do it? Seesm a bit cad type behaviour? So in the end I have decieded she can stick her "heart felt" apology up her smegging oXo and have a lovely little form from the small claims court. If she wants to waste the BiB time, pervert the course of justice or obstruct a policeman then let her do it in her own smegging time and she can stop wasting mine I have really lost all patience with this and of course her. So its now time to go to my local OPC and get a quote for the paint work, my time to have it sorted and of course a smilliar rental vechicle and see how her parents like that little bill.

What is it with kids today eh?

Mr Darcy, fire up the RS...

[Mr Darcy]

Reprisals are expected.