Ex - Hacked accounts, BPD, Obsession... Help /advice please
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Right sort of age, right location, right hair colour, definite bunny boiler potential?
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itsrodders said:
Ex - Hacked accounts, BPD, Obsession... Help /advice please
LordGrover said:
slinky said:
"My dog smells of fish"
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itsrodders said:
she drove 30 miles to sit outside my flat in her car for an hour last night!
Darn it... I thought that Deborah Meaden in a tight PVC Dominatrix suit disguise would be infallible.itsrodders said:
I promise that I will give a clue as soon as I'm sure it has all died down.
Jedwood?Sorry, couldn't resist & no it wasn't me
Personally I would just ignore it and move on,
Emailing her threatening what you might do will just antagonise further
You cant argue with idiots, they lower you down to their level and win on experience
I dont think you have kids (did I read that) so thats a relief
I would keep all the records and maybe a diary of threats in case she gets worse, but otherwise just move on.
Emailing her threatening what you might do will just antagonise further
You cant argue with idiots, they lower you down to their level and win on experience
I dont think you have kids (did I read that) so thats a relief
I would keep all the records and maybe a diary of threats in case she gets worse, but otherwise just move on.
Magog - my God!
TheExcession - thanks. Epecially for the Jedward bit!
TMM - Fair point. I honestly just want her to leave me the feck alone, but it shows no sign of abating.
More advice from a friend who works in family protection this pip emma. She knows something of the ex's past that I clearly don't (but wouldn't go into it) and said to report it to the police *immediately* - "don't waste a second!"
She then rang her pet brief and booked me an appointment for 9am tomorrow morning!!
I'm not going to make the complaint official yet for fear of stirring up the hornet's nest... But should be in a posish to update immediately after Shed O'Clock tomorrow morning.
TheExcession - thanks. Epecially for the Jedward bit!
TMM - Fair point. I honestly just want her to leave me the feck alone, but it shows no sign of abating.
More advice from a friend who works in family protection this pip emma. She knows something of the ex's past that I clearly don't (but wouldn't go into it) and said to report it to the police *immediately* - "don't waste a second!"
She then rang her pet brief and booked me an appointment for 9am tomorrow morning!! I'm not going to make the complaint official yet for fear of stirring up the hornet's nest... But should be in a posish to update immediately after Shed O'Clock tomorrow morning.
itsrodders said:
More advice from a friend who works in family protection this pip emma. She knows something of the ex's past that I clearly don't (but wouldn't go into it) and said to report it to the police *immediately* - "don't waste a second!" She then rang her pet brief and booked me an appointment for 9am tomorrow morning!!
I'm not going to make the complaint official yet for fear of stirring up the hornet's nest... But should be in a posish to update immediately after Shed O'Clock tomorrow morning.
Do I spy some code in there...? She then rang her pet brief and booked me an appointment for 9am tomorrow morning!! I'm not going to make the complaint official yet for fear of stirring up the hornet's nest... But should be in a posish to update immediately after Shed O'Clock tomorrow morning.
I got an hour and a half gratis in the end! Very long and in-depth talk and the brief clearly knew her stuff. My friend had also filled her in on whatever it was from the ex's past - she had two legal pads, one open and another closed and would occasionally look up, give me a very "serious look" then make some scribbles in the closed pad. I still have no idea what all that is about.
Her considered advice was:
1. Don't f
k about.
2. Report ALL past stuff to police, but ask them only to log the crime and not investigate for now.
3. Wait. At first sign of any "mental" report or call police again, repeat as necessary.
4. Police will do the rest, including PFH if necessary. Appaently the local force is absolutely brilliant with this stuff, having recently received up to date training.
For those who wish to know more about BPD and where it can take you this article reflects my experience extremely accurately:
http://gettinbetter.com/fallout.html
Her considered advice was:
1. Don't f
k about.2. Report ALL past stuff to police, but ask them only to log the crime and not investigate for now.
3. Wait. At first sign of any "mental" report or call police again, repeat as necessary.
4. Police will do the rest, including PFH if necessary. Appaently the local force is absolutely brilliant with this stuff, having recently received up to date training.
For those who wish to know more about BPD and where it can take you this article reflects my experience extremely accurately:
http://gettinbetter.com/fallout.html
Monkeylegend said:
Looking at the OP's current cars, it won't be anybody glamorous.
Halb said:
Many a good ride has been had in an old banger. As I'm sure the OP can attest.
t-meter"! I can reveal that they are, however, a surprisingly versatile and spacious vehicle.
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