Ex - Hacked accounts, BPD, Obsession... Help /advice please
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What ho, chaps.
Lionel IS straight (apparently)!
You are all thinking a bit too "famous", as another poster pointed out. That could all be set to change over the next few months, however. A close relative of hers gets paid for being a vacuous gobsh*te, so I fear that it is inevitable...
Anyway, I decided on a plan. I have sent her copies of all data collected and correspondence between me and solicitor and me and BiB.
I worded it ever so nicely, hem-hem. Any further harassment and I shall make my complaint official.
Lionel IS straight (apparently)!
You are all thinking a bit too "famous", as another poster pointed out. That could all be set to change over the next few months, however. A close relative of hers gets paid for being a vacuous gobsh*te, so I fear that it is inevitable...
Anyway, I decided on a plan. I have sent her copies of all data collected and correspondence between me and solicitor and me and BiB.
I worded it ever so nicely, hem-hem. Any further harassment and I shall make my complaint official.
skwdenyer - I missed your post, apologies.
She is undiagnosed (she "tried" therapy for a week or two a few years ago but gave nothing away to the therapist, then declaring herself cured), but has all the triggers and behaviours and has disclosed/admitted to them individually over the years, if not in an all-in-one-go "I have a problem" recognition. Much of my own time therapy was spent in dealing with her shenanigans and their impact on my wellbeing.
I am extemely fortunate that I have no financial or parenting ties with her whatsoever.
Despite her having a new man she continues to stalk - she drove 30 miles to sit outide my flat in her car for an hour last night!
She is undiagnosed (she "tried" therapy for a week or two a few years ago but gave nothing away to the therapist, then declaring herself cured), but has all the triggers and behaviours and has disclosed/admitted to them individually over the years, if not in an all-in-one-go "I have a problem" recognition. Much of my own time therapy was spent in dealing with her shenanigans and their impact on my wellbeing.
I am extemely fortunate that I have no financial or parenting ties with her whatsoever.
Despite her having a new man she continues to stalk - she drove 30 miles to sit outide my flat in her car for an hour last night!
Edited by itsrodders on Thursday 24th April 13:30
LordGrover said:
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Rumbled!!Ahem.
I promise that I will give a clue as soon as I'm sure it has all died down.
In the meantime, if someone guesses I promise that I won't deny it. The star is due to properly ascend in the next few months, the game would be better played then but I needed the advice now!!
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