Advice on dispute with a private school please

Advice on dispute with a private school please

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Lurking Lawyer

4,534 posts

226 months

Thursday 15th October 2015
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singlecoil said:
I hold a very different opinion, and would much prefer BV and his 'side' to give it a rest.
Given that neither side is ever likely to agree, surely the best way forward is just for everyone to agree to disagree and let it drop or a mod to close the thread. Either way, I think it's fair to say that it has run its course....

anonymous-user

55 months

Thursday 15th October 2015
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singlecoil said:
No doubt in my mind, and your chip is showing.
Is that a sentence? Alas, I am no grammar school boy. I am just some chippy oik from a compo, so I don't dare to opine on the matter.

singlecoil

33,782 posts

247 months

Thursday 15th October 2015
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Breadvan72 said:
singlecoil said:
No doubt in my mind, and your chip is showing.
Is that a sentence? Alas, I am no grammar school boy. I am just some chippy oik from a compo, so I don't dare to opine on the matter.
Relax, BV, I'm just teasing you smile

spikeyhead

17,377 posts

198 months

Thursday 15th October 2015
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Lurking Lawyer said:
singlecoil said:
I hold a very different opinion, and would much prefer BV and his 'side' to give it a rest.
Given that neither side is ever likely to agree, surely the best way forward is just for everyone to agree to disagree and let it drop or a mod to close the thread. Either way, I think it's fair to say that it has run its course....
Then the internet would lose it's purpose*

with the exception of course of its primary purpose

anonymous-user

55 months

Thursday 15th October 2015
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Now that the Frankie Vaughan card has been played at last, we can all claim victory and retire for tea and medals.

Group hug, but not in a pervy way.

JustinP1

13,330 posts

231 months

Thursday 15th October 2015
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anonymous said:
[redacted]
This is a selection just from this thread:

Breadvan72 said:
He is possibly the worst person to take advice from as he is, according to his anecdotes here, relentlessly litigious…
Breadvan72 said:
He is the typical well meaning but unreliable amateur.
Breadvan72 said:
I think that Justin is over complicating matters...It is easy for pub experts to encourage the OP to spend time and money defending the claim...,
Breadvan72 said:
Are you the soul of Zeeky reincarnated?
Breadvan72 said:
Justin makes the keen amateur's error...
Breadvan72 said:
I quoted Alexander Pope once already above, but he really is right about Justin in this thread..
Breadvan72 said:
Practice does not make perfect, but it gives you a clue, something of which, in this thread, you are sadly bereft...
Breadvan72 said:
So, if the OP has bluffed his way out of adhering to his promises, bully for him and his expert team..
Breadvan72 said:
He is lovely, but I fear he may suffer from woodfortreesitis.
Breadvan72 said:
I am sorry, Justin, but your posts suggest that you are a bit adrift on how the law of contract works.
Breadvan72 said:
You may be cross when I say this, Justin, but you don't appear to me from your posts to have that knack.
Breadvan72 said:
This suggests that you know little about the law of contract. ...like many amateur lawyers, you...
Breadvan72 said:
By the way, the Estate of L'Estrange is even more litigious than Justin!
You could have fooled me that the posts aren't about me.

Breadvan72 said:
I have no personal animus against you, Justin and you have made the classic internet error of mistaking an attack on your ideas as an attack on you.]
Oh yeah, right sorry - my bad again.

Seriously though, if you are on the other end, you get tired of the same tactic of singling out the poster, putting the poster in a box, and beating the box with a derogatory stick from a pedestal rather than just discussing the post.

I've got a lot of respect for BV's knowledge but, not his recent debating tactics.


Edited by JustinP1 on Thursday 15th October 14:28

Centurion07

10,381 posts

248 months

Thursday 15th October 2015
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Breadvan72 said:
...only silly and old fashioned people like me think that keeping promises matters.
So can you tell us the details of the Jenson Button case and how your assertion about keeping promises didn't matter in that case? Serious question.

surveyor

17,872 posts

185 months

Thursday 15th October 2015
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Lurking Lawyer said:
singlecoil said:
I hold a very different opinion, and would much prefer BV and his 'side' to give it a rest.
Given that neither side is ever likely to agree, surely the best way forward is just for everyone to agree to disagree and let it drop or a mod to close the thread. Either way, I think it's fair to say that it has run its course....
Hear hear.

Countdown

40,017 posts

197 months

Thursday 15th October 2015
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JustinP1 said:
I've got a lot of respect for BV's knowledge but, not his recent debating tactics.


Edited by JustinP1 on Thursday 15th October 14:15
Ditto.

RobinOakapple

2,802 posts

113 months

Thursday 15th October 2015
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Countdown said:
JustinP1 said:
I've got a lot of respect for BV's knowledge but, not his recent debating tactics.


Edited by JustinP1 on Thursday 15th October 14:15
Ditto.
Agreed. And they are starting to become very tedious (having been tedious for some time).

drdel

431 posts

129 months

Thursday 15th October 2015
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Breadvan72 said:
I am sorry that you are so bitter about the profession that, perhaps, you failed to enter. Maybe you should have studied harder on that law course. You adopt the typical PH assumption that lawyers care only for billable hours, and not for just outcomes. The contrary is often the case (not with all lawyers, but with some). My take on litigation is that it is dreadful stuff, and to be avoided if at all possible. I advise my clients to avoid litigating more often than not. I could be a lot better off if I did not give such advice.

The grammar sideline is a bit of merriment, triggered by Singlecoil's assertion that he went to a good grammar school. The accuracy of that assertion was placed in doubt by his poor written English.

As for name dropping, are you aware that Molesworth and Peason are fictional characters? In shorter words, that means that they are made up people and do not exist. HTH.
What's wrong with you that you have to get personal with snide comments? I am very successful in my career thank you.

The name dropping, referred to the dropping in of "Harvard" etc; where I've lectured, along with several other worldwide institutions.

It seems to me that Justin was unfortunate in putting his head above the parapet; he was well intentioned and helped another member and, it seems in the process, has been shot for his efforts.

I totally agree with others who say the topic has been killed.

pincher

8,608 posts

218 months

Thursday 15th October 2015
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Centurion07 said:
Breadvan72 said:
...only silly and old fashioned people like me think that keeping promises matters.
So can you tell us the details of the Jenson Button case and how your assertion about keeping promises didn't matter in that case? Serious question.
I'm so glad that someone else has asked this question - by my reckoning, this is the fourth time BV has been asked to expand on it and so far, we have been met with silence.

Willhire89

1,330 posts

206 months

Thursday 15th October 2015
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RobinOakapple said:
Countdown said:
JustinP1 said:
I've got a lot of respect for BV's knowledge but, not his recent debating tactics.


Edited by JustinP1 on Thursday 15th October 14:15
Ditto.
Agreed. And they are starting to become very tedious (having been tedious for some time).
BV - time for an SP&L sabbatical .....

anonymous-user

55 months

Thursday 15th October 2015
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drdel said:
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The name dropping, referred to the dropping in of "Harvard" etc; where I've lectured, along with several other worldwide institutions.
WTF? I was discussing educational opportunity, not the case. Ther have been two or three strands of discussion running side by side. I referred to a bloke from a tough background who was able to get to Harvard because of a good state school (and his ability and effort, of course). Harvard is a real place. How is it name dropping to refer to it? How odd that you feel the need to tell us that you have lectured at Harvard. I suggest that a bit of mirror purchasing on eBay might not go amiss. I have no idea who you are or why you are apparently so angry about stuff, but would you like to show us your CV so that we can applaud it?

ORD

18,120 posts

128 months

Thursday 15th October 2015
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BV is sometimes a bit rude. To put it nicely, he does not suffer fools gladly; to put it less nicely, he is prone to snide remarks and a patronising tone. He is also right about every legal issue that I have seen him argue.

I have some sympathy for his grumpiness. At times, these threads sound a lot like this:-

Non-lawyer: I think the correct analysis is x, y and z.

Lawyer: All bad arguments, I am afraid.

Non-lawyer: No, there are not! X is a great argument, isnt it, because of blah blah blah? Admit it!

Lawyer: Nope, still a bad argument.

[Repeat 3 or 4 times]

Non-lawyer: What about this point - [argument x is repeated in slightly different terms]?! Admit I am right!

Lawyer: You're an idiot.

At which point, the lawyer is the bad guy for being rude. But I have no doubt that a surgeon would become just as rude just as quickly if someone with an A -level in biology told him that they had a great idea about how to perform a particular operation and it involved a kitchen knife and some sellotape.

anonymous-user

55 months

Thursday 15th October 2015
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pincher said:
Centurion07 said:
Breadvan72 said:
...only silly and old fashioned people like me think that keeping promises matters.
So can you tell us the details of the Jenson Button case and how your assertion about keeping promises didn't matter in that case? Serious question.
I'm so glad that someone else has asked this question - by my reckoning, this is the fourth time BV has been asked to expand on it and so far, we have been met with silence.


I had barely noticed a reference to a Jenson Button case here. I had not noticed that anyone was asking me anything about Jenson Button, but if I have missed something, naughty me. I recall that Jenson Button once had a contract that was an unfair restraint of trade. The contract was not enforceable. The law upholds enforceable promises. It does not uphold unenforceable promises. It also refuses to uphold, for example, promises to do something illegal. The OP made a promise of a kind that the law enforces. He did not keep that promise. In consequence, he had to pay the other party some money. Thanks to the skills of Justin and JandJ, the OP was able to pay less than he otherwise would.

anonymous-user

55 months

Thursday 15th October 2015
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Willhire89 said:
BV - time for an SP&L sabbatical .....
Nope. Jumping is good. Getting pushed is not good. Also, if I happen in passing to irritate singlecoil and a few others of the grumpy fraternity, the gaiety of life is increased.

Centurion07

10,381 posts

248 months

Thursday 15th October 2015
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A more accurate description would be this:

OP: I want out of this contract on this point.

BV: Tough, that point is watertight so pay up.

Others: Maybe there's something else in the contract that OP can use?

BV: Nope, OP should just pay up because the contract is watertight.

Others: But you've not seen the contract?

BV: Doesn't matter. I'm right and OP should just pay up. Ignore the fact I make a living out of getting people out of contracts that both parties signed in good faith and that I will at least read their contracts before advising.

RobinOakapple

2,802 posts

113 months

Thursday 15th October 2015
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ORD said:
I have some sympathy for his grumpiness. At times, these threads sound a lot like this:-
Maybe, but not this one.

anonymous-user

55 months

Thursday 15th October 2015
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Pop will eat itself! I had deja vu reading that, as Centurion apparently thinks that if he keeps posting the same nonsense then it will eventually transform itself by alchemical powers from nonsense into sense. Now I am off to talk about deathtrap cars, so mwah.
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