Your views on letter from School Governor

Your views on letter from School Governor

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Foppo

2,344 posts

124 months

Thursday 19th November 2015
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Of course you are entitled and is your right to defend your child.

Posting on Facebook about a teacher making negative comments is a no.

Andy Zarse

10,868 posts

247 months

Thursday 19th November 2015
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Foppo said:
Of course you are entitled and is your right to defend your child.

Posting on Facebook about a teacher making negative comments is a no.
Why not? You don't believe in free speech?

liner33

10,690 posts

202 months

Thursday 19th November 2015
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Seesure said:
They also made accusations of me of stalking them on FB because of this, although it was parents who brought it to our attention and subsequently the police. I also got challenged on my credentials in regards to dealing with children... despite having 3 CRBs, completing various child safety, protection, safeguarding and welfare courses/certifications.
and therein sums up why a school governor ANY school governor should not involve themselves outside of the schools complaints policy

JustinP1

13,330 posts

230 months

Thursday 19th November 2015
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liner33 said:
Seesure said:
They also made accusations of me of stalking them on FB because of this, although it was parents who brought it to our attention and subsequently the police. I also got challenged on my credentials in regards to dealing with children... despite having 3 CRBs, completing various child safety, protection, safeguarding and welfare courses/certifications.
and therein sums up why a school governor ANY school governor should not involve themselves outside of the schools complaints policy
Exactly this.

If the OP and his other half wanted to be even a fraction as awkward as those parents, they could have done absolutely nothing.

The Chair of Governors would then be in a pickle, and might well have on behalf of the public body then repeated his threats of criminal proceedings against the OP's other half.

Then, there's two letters sent from a person in authority that will clearly cause distress through the implied consequences of totally unfounded allegations of criminality. Then, somewhat ironically, whilst the original Facebook incident could never be seen as such, those actions might actually start to fall foul of the laws he misrepresents.

He might defend himself by saying 'I thought I was doing the right thing...' but the question would then be why on earth a pseudo-employee of a public body is going round writing to parents accusing criminality without even thinking of consulting the Local Authority legal department first.


Whilst the OP's other half did not see the consequences of an off-hand comment probably typed on her phone in 60 seconds, the Chair of Governors has actually sat down and spent a long time Googling his amateur law interpretations and fired them out on behalf of a public body. If the OP's other half did something a little foolish, then this guy is a fool of the weapons-grade standard.

Edited by JustinP1 on Thursday 19th November 17:13

Countdown

39,799 posts

196 months

Thursday 19th November 2015
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Would it be acceptable for the teacher to discuss a parent's attitude or a child's behaviour or performance on FB?

Even if they stuck to the facts "e.g Tinkerbell came bottom of the class again this year but Mummy thinks it's the school's fault." ?

Andy Zarse

10,868 posts

247 months

Thursday 19th November 2015
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Countdown said:
Would it be acceptable for the teacher to discuss a parent's attitude or a child's behaviour or performance on FB?

Even if they stuck to the facts "e.g Tinkerbell came bottom of the class again this year but Mummy thinks it's the school's fault." ?
No it would be totally unprofessional, not to mention illegal.

Andy Zarse

10,868 posts

247 months

Thursday 19th November 2015
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doogz said:
Andy Zarse said:
Why not? You don't believe in free speech?
Shut it you donkey rapist.

See, freedom of speech is fine if it's used for its intended purpose.
You shag one donkey... Just one lousy donkey! smile

Tonsko

6,299 posts

215 months

Thursday 19th November 2015
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Andy Zarse said:
You shag one donkey... Just one lousy donkey! smile
It was non-consensual... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SeQ5gdrzbdA

BertBert

19,025 posts

211 months

Thursday 19th November 2015
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JustinP1 said:
If the OP's other half did something a little foolish, then this guy is a fool of the weapons-grade standard.
Very nice summary!

longblackcoat

5,047 posts

183 months

Friday 20th November 2015
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Andy Zarse said:
doogz said:
Andy Zarse said:
Why not? You don't believe in free speech?
Shut it you donkey rapist.

See, freedom of speech is fine if it's used for its intended purpose.
You shag one donkey... Just one lousy donkey! smile
Not even close to the truth

1 The donkey had been deloused at your request, so the 'lousy' accusation is very hurtful to poor Henrietta
2 You promised her a bag of carrots and a new straw hat, NEITHER of which were provided
3 When you said you'd take her for a ride on the beach ..... well, she had rather different expectations

Take advantage of our donkeys, Mr Zarse, at your own peril!



Andy Zarse

10,868 posts

247 months

Friday 20th November 2015
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longblackcoat said:
Andy Zarse said:
doogz said:
Andy Zarse said:
Why not? You don't believe in free speech?
Shut it you donkey rapist.

See, freedom of speech is fine if it's used for its intended purpose.
You shag one donkey... Just one lousy donkey! smile
Not even close to the truth

1 The donkey had been deloused at your request, so the 'lousy' accusation is very hurtful to poor Henrietta
2 You promised her a bag of carrots and a new straw hat, NEITHER of which were provided
3 When you said you'd take her for a ride on the beach ..... well, she had rather different expectations

Take advantage of our donkeys, Mr Zarse, at your own peril!
hehe

This is definitely harr"ass"ment! smile

eldar

21,708 posts

196 months

Friday 20th November 2015
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Andy Zarse said:
hehe

This is definitely harr"ass"ment! smile
Don't moke a mountain out of a molehill....

walm

10,609 posts

202 months

Friday 20th November 2015
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C Lee Farquar said:
I shall be discussing the matter with xxx in the next few days to determine whether she wishes to bring the incident to the attention of regulators or take any other action.


You should at least ask him what on earth he is talking about.
There are no "regulators".

Countdown

39,799 posts

196 months

Friday 20th November 2015
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walm said:
You should at least ask him what on earth he is talking about.
There are no "regulators".
I think you'll find there are two; Nate Dogg and Warren G.

Rude-boy

22,227 posts

233 months

Friday 20th November 2015
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C Lee Farquar said:
The reason I started the thread is because I would welcome thoughts on the content of the Governor's letter. I felt the tone and content was incompatible with the role of a school Governor and if the school had an issue then the Head should have raised the issue first.
To my eyes the tone and content of the Governor's letter was bullying and threatening.

Your wife did not name the teacher (as you have confirmed), although it wouldn't take a rocket scientist to work out who 'she' was once your wife's ID was known.

The content was psydo legal bullst from someone who should know a whole lot better than to make such misleading statements - you would expect that someone in that position wring a letter like that would have had half a go at getting the legal basis of their threats right.

IIRC you said that the child has now moved school? I would suggest that that was a very wise decision, on the scant evidence presented here there is little to suggest that it is well run.