Your views on letter from School Governor

Your views on letter from School Governor

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Dogwatch

6,229 posts

223 months

Friday 13th November 2015
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bearman68 said:
If your FB comment is as written, you don't criticize anyone on there. You say that after a meeting with xxx you have received feedback to say your child is a delight, and not the horror previously reported.

Where is the defamatory comment there? Certainly not to xxx

Ask the governer to explain his reasoning.
My thoughts too. Have people been reading it as intended or skim reading it and picking up on the final sentence as being a criticism of the teacher praised in the first sentence?

Or are they the same person? Seems unlikely but difficult to judge without having some background - which is perhaps best kept out of the public domain.

OldGermanHeaps

3,837 posts

179 months

Friday 13th November 2015
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If what is in the first post could genuinely considered harrasment, then surely what the original teacher said about your child could also be considered harrasment going by their hair trigger threshold.

C Lee Farquar

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4,068 posts

217 months

Friday 13th November 2015
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JustinP1 said:
I don't think either party has holy light shining on them in this.

However, consider if the letter was like this:

"Dear Facebooker,

I write on behalf of the governors of X school. It's been brought to my attention that you have posted on Facebook some comments about teaching at the school.

I would ask that any concerns you have about teaching are raised with the Headteacher, or, failing this, I am more than happy to hear your concerns.

I appreciate that this was not your intention, however, I hope you can also appreciate that your comments can be read of criticising a teacher in public. Not only does this undermine the school, it has caused distress to Mrs Miggins.

As such, I would like to ask that you could remove these comments from public viewing. I appreciate that you have concerns which is why I offer my telephone number and email address, where I am more than happy to discuss them with you.

Yours,

Sensible Governor.


Would this even be an issue now, if that were the letter?
This my opinion.

In answer to other queries, facebook setting are private but she probably has too many 'friends'. She had previously communicated her opinion to the school. This was her only comment on facebook, she stands by it but has removed it to diffuse the situation (which we believe we have done).

My view is that it would have been better not posted, but I also question the appropriateness of the tone and the involvement of the Governor.

dacouch

1,172 posts

130 months

Friday 13th November 2015
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C Lee Farquar said:
This my opinion.

In answer to other queries, facebook setting are private but she probably has too many 'friends'. She had previously communicated her opinion to the school. This was her only comment on facebook, she stands by it but has removed it to diffuse the situation (which we believe we have done).

My view is that it would have been better not posted, but I also question the appropriateness of the tone and the involvement of the Governor.
As Ash has asked, what were the other comments your wife posted on Facebook referring to the teacher / school that the letter from the Governor refers to?

ORD

18,120 posts

128 months

Friday 13th November 2015
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You're right OP. The letter was over the top. But your OH is very sensible to simply defuse the situation and move on. It could otherwise be a load of hassle with no winners.

Jujuuk68

363 posts

158 months

Friday 13th November 2015
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Of course, for all those who say that you should be cautious with Facebook, whils't I understand the sentiment, miss a major point.

If half a dozen other parents see it, and also note their child has responded well to a new teacher, having had poor performance under the previous one, then it could signify an issue with the teacher. And without open "discussion", how would they find out otherwise? A school could manage to continue being either unaware or covering up a poor teacher, by dealing with complaints on a one by one basis. When half a dozen all find out they're suffering the same, then something may be done.


C Lee Farquar

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4,068 posts

217 months

Friday 13th November 2015
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dacouch said:
C Lee Farquar said:
This my opinion.

In answer to other queries, facebook setting are private but she probably has too many 'friends'. She had previously communicated her opinion to the school. This was her only comment on facebook, she stands by it but has removed it to diffuse the situation (which we believe we have done).

My view is that it would have been better not posted, but I also question the appropriateness of the tone and the involvement of the Governor.
As Ash has asked, what were the other comments your wife posted on Facebook referring to the teacher / school that the letter from the Governor refers to?
She posted: so happy.. have just been to meet xxx tutor, who said she was a kind, clever, caring model student that never puts a foot wrong J… not the disruptive naughty child that always makes bad choices she has been told she is for the last 2 yrs!!! I knew it was the teacher not the child that had the problem

She was referring to two different teachers - she has made no other comment on facebook. She had raised an issue about the teacher on the section the parent can comment on a school report, which was returned to the Head but not shown to anyone else.

supertouring

2,228 posts

234 months

Friday 13th November 2015
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Jujuuk68 said:
Of course, for all those who say that you should be cautious with Facebook, whils't I understand the sentiment, miss a major point.

If half a dozen other parents see it, and also note their child has responded well to a new teacher, having had poor performance under the previous one, then it could signify an issue with the teacher. And without open "discussion", how would they find out otherwise? A school could manage to continue being either unaware or covering up a poor teacher, by dealing with complaints on a one by one basis. When half a dozen all find out they're suffering the same, then something may be done.
So parents are now suitably qualified to review teaching staff via Facebook.

Pitchforks at the ready then.

GCH

3,992 posts

203 months

Friday 13th November 2015
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If whoever wrote that letter is going to reference the 1997 Protection From Harassment Act , they could at least quote it, as the stuff written is not taken from it.

http://www.legislation.gov.uk/ukpga/1997/40/pdfs/u...

"(1) A person must not pursue a course of conduct—
(a)which amounts to harassment of another, and
(b)which he knows or ought to know amounts to harassment of the other.

(2)For the purposes of this section, the person whose course of conduct is in question ought to know that it amounts to harassment of another if a reasonable person in possession of the same information would think the course of conduct amounted to harassment of the other.

(3)Subsection (1) does not apply to a course of conduct if the person who pursued it shows—
(a)that it was pursued for the purpose of preventing or detecting crime,
(b)that it was pursued under any enactment or rule of law or to comply with any condition or requirement imposed by any person under any enactment, or
(c)that in the particular circumstances the pursuit of the course of conduct was reasonable."

and from later on in the act, in reference to the above:

"A “course of conduct” must involve conduct on at least two occasions".



None of which - in my opinion as a reasonable person - has been done. Furthermore, your post does not state that XXX is 'the teacher' referenced- you could be talking about a different person.


Note: IMNAL

C Lee Farquar

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4,068 posts

217 months

Friday 13th November 2015
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GCH, The OH spoke to a senior retired Policeman who said the same.

In her reply my OH pointed out that there was no 'course of conduct'

Bigends

5,419 posts

129 months

Friday 13th November 2015
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Its not harassment or even a minor communications offence - doesnt fit the bill for either

Durzel

12,272 posts

169 months

Friday 13th November 2015
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ORD said:
Gargantuan overreaction. How did we end up here? A world in which people are so vulnerable that even minor criticism leaves them in an hysterical tailspin?!
Because nowadays everyone is triggered by the slightest thing, and any concept of accountability or - God forbid - acceptance that one night not be a special snowflake deserving of special treatment or consideration, is unheard of.

Everyone is special now, even children who might just not be as brilliant or irreproachable as one would believe.

castex

4,936 posts

274 months

Friday 13th November 2015
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supertouring said:
Jujuuk68 said:
Of course, for all those who say that you should be cautious with Facebook, whils't I understand the sentiment, miss a major point.

If half a dozen other parents see it, and also note their child has responded well to a new teacher, having had poor performance under the previous one, then it could signify an issue with the teacher. And without open "discussion", how would they find out otherwise? A school could manage to continue being either unaware or covering up a poor teacher, by dealing with complaints on a one by one basis. When half a dozen all find out they're suffering the same, then something may be done.
So parents are now suitably qualified to review teaching staff via Facebook.

Pitchforks at the ready then.
Yes, that's a bit lame from you Jujuuk. Teachers are qualified, carefully certified and ostensibly doing their best for the kids. They are in loco parentis and as such have to be given respect and the benefit of any doubt by pupils and parents alike in the absence of evidence. This sort of thing is corrosive and detrimental to the child, class, teacher and school. Not to mention the parent / poster.
As has been said, take up any grievance in person with the person in authority. Don't whinge and bleat in public hoping that others will join you in your pathetic lamentations.

Greendubber

13,217 posts

204 months

Friday 13th November 2015
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Bigends said:
Its not harassment or even a minor communications offence - doesnt fit the bill for either
Same opinion as me.

File the letter in the bin and maybe be aware of how far and wide social media posts can spread.

Vroom101

828 posts

134 months

Friday 13th November 2015
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So let's get this straight - the teacher who feels they were the subject of 'harassment' was never actually named on Facebook?

Now I would argue that it would be pretty hard to prove harassment (which I don't consider this is) if the 'victim' wasn't even identified. But then I am not a lawyer. So perhaps one might be along in a minute to put your mind at rest on that front.

I am, however, a governor at a school, and I can understand the issues that posts on Facebook can cause (been there, done that, worn out the T-shirt!).

Nevertheless I certainly think this has been handled incorrectly by the Chairman. Whilst they have a responsibility to protect the interests and the staff of the school, I don't think they should have written this letter - any communication should have come from the Head in the first instance. I reckon they have used the Chairman of the Governors as a bit of a bullying tactic as most people are not too knowledgeable on the role of governors and the authority they actually possess (which in all honesty, isn't an awful lot).
Getting a letter from the Chairman of the Governors (CoG) sounds much grander than it really is. From the tone of the letter it sounds like the CoG is a bit up their own arse and full of self importance.

castex said:
Teachers are qualified, carefully certified and ostensibly doing their best for the kids. They are in loco parentis and as such have to be given respect and the benefit of any doubt by pupils and parents alike in the absence of evidence.
All this is true, but it is also true that some teachers are lazy, vindictive, complacent, behind the times, not as qualified as they should be and just floating along until retirement. I've been a governor at a school that was placed in Special Measures by Ofsted - the standard of teaching was shocking. As a new, wet behind the ears untrained governor I didn't see what was going on, and it was only after the school was taken over by another Outstanding school that the difference was apparent.

Yes, teachers should be respected, but that that respect should be earned, not handed to them on a plate because they have managed to pass a qualification. Governors should be holding the school to account, and striving to improve the education of the pupils by demanding the highest standards from the staff. Teachers have a very difficult job, but they choose to do that job, and if they aren't up to the task then they should either shape up or ship out.










Well, reading that back it turned into far more of a rant than I intended! Somewhere in all that there was a point......now what was it?


Ah yes - OP, don't worry about the letter from the CoG, and maybe tell your other half to be more aware of what she posts on Facebook (or at least who can view it) biggrin


Edited by Vroom101 on Friday 13th November 23:56

Dodsy

7,172 posts

228 months

Saturday 14th November 2015
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If the teacher was one of the few good ones then they would just laugh it off. The fact that they havent means you've most likely hit a raw nerve and put them into panic mode as they've been publicly outed as the poor teacher that they are.

Unfortunately nothing much you can do, teachers, heads and governors always close ranks and will back each other up. Consider yourself lucky that your child is now doing well with the new teacher, suck it up and move on. Sounds harsh but if you push this then its your child who will suffer in school not you.



Edited by Dodsy on Saturday 14th November 01:01

Eclassy

1,201 posts

123 months

Saturday 14th November 2015
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How is harrasmenr? Even if you mentioned a name.

It is no different from critisizing anyone else by name. Politicians, policemen, doctors, lawyers, judges e.t.c all get critisized everyday in newspapers and on the internet. That is not harrasment. It is an opinion and you are entitled to share it whether on facebook or on a box outside the school gates.

If you followed the said teacher about or posted on the teachers wall on facebook, then thats a different matter.

Dr Mike Oxgreen

4,126 posts

166 months

Saturday 14th November 2015
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I strongly suspect we're receiving an interpretation of the events, and a précis of the Facebook post (what further comments were there, for example?).

However, on the facts given, if they are true and complete, then the governor's letter is so ridiculous that it would get a reply from me similar to the reply given in the case of Arkell v. Pressdram (1971).

Burwood

18,709 posts

247 months

Saturday 14th November 2015
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x type said:
Sorry got to say it

keep off facebook ?
As soon as I read what the op said I thought sheesh. Facebook strikes again. Would you say that to the teachers face. No. Why you even shared private matters with the world.

Burwood

18,709 posts

247 months

Saturday 14th November 2015
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C Lee Farquar said:
x type said:
Sorry got to say it

keep off facebook ?
I agree, I don't have a facebook account. However the OH does and says what she thinks and I stand by her.
Sure, stand by her but you will finding your kids a new school . If that's ok then keep the course