Assisted suicide..

[Shuvi McTupya]

TooMany2cvs said:

Shuvi McTupya said:

But, she doesn't want to go into care..so you are suggesting I sell the house to force her to go into a care home against her wishes.

Nobody WANTS to go into a care home... The question is whether she is able to still live at home - and a large part of that is what support and care she can get at home.

Shuvi McTupya said:

And to answer other people's question, I don't Still live at home but I recently sold my house and moved up to Scotland for work, seeing as she already lived up here it made sense to pool our resources. I pay a reasonable rent so she is able to have a higher quality of life, and I don't have to go shopping

So you don't live with your mother, you just... live with your mother. Who does all your shopping for you.

What I clearly mean is that I haven't lived with her for my adult life, and yes I give her money and she does the shopping , you have an issue with that? She likes shopping, I don't.

[Shuvi McTupya]

desolate said:

How do you know she will need long term full time care?

Loads of people don't need that.

Either by dying early or being well until relatively close to their death.

We both hope you are right! Just trying to figure out what options are available really.

Plan for the worst but hope for the best and all that..