Removing cheating spouse from home - URGENT advice needed
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well done for the mature way you have handled everything. Many people on here could learn a thing or two.
I read you have got her to rent a place , so she isn't living with you now?
Once you have set in stone that she is not living in your house and changed your locks etc then you are set. And continue to do best by your children.
well done for the mature way you have handled everything. Many people on here could learn a thing or two.
I read you have got her to rent a place , so she isn't living with you now?
Once you have set in stone that she is not living in your house and changed your locks etc then you are set. And continue to do best by your children.
theboss said:
Hard to know where to start with this update. Everything has come around full circle, much of which was predictable to friends and PHers early in the whole debacle.
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Edited by theboss on Wednesday 1st February 09:37
anonymous said:
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She stayed with him for a short while due to turning on the tears and having no where to live, she then left papers everywhere which he scanned into his computer when she wasnt looking then He rented her a pad and she gets to hoon around in the Golf R.." I have helped her rent a home nearby and the kids are happy spending time in either home. She has restored a relationship with her son after hardly seeing him for 6 months last year. I have even let her continue to use the lease car for the remainder of the lease"
Edited by johnwilliams77 on Wednesday 1st February 11:07
Just like to say well done for being the bigger person and being someone your kids can look up to.
Despite everything she has done the fact you have helped her out for the sake of the kids is admirable. Plenty of people would have taken the kids in and told her where to go, the fact you have taken time to help her will always stick in your kids minds.
Despite everything she has done the fact you have helped her out for the sake of the kids is admirable. Plenty of people would have taken the kids in and told her where to go, the fact you have taken time to help her will always stick in your kids minds.
AndStilliRise said:
Good outcome in the end.
What happened to the bloke and his family? Are you still in contact with his wife, I am hoping that you sent the information you have found to his wife.
Wishing you the best man, well done.
He lives on his own, his wife is in the process of financial remedy proceedings (aiming to keep the family home in the absence of any other support) and his older kids have disowned him for running off with a wWhat happened to the bloke and his family? Are you still in contact with his wife, I am hoping that you sent the information you have found to his wife.
Wishing you the best man, well done.
e, in their own words.I'm still in touch with his wife but am backing off now, I don't think I need to stir any further. His wife already suspects everything I know and will try to force disclosure, if he lies or fails to comply then I have the described ammo up my sleeve, but for the time being its easier just to keep handing the guy rope, and I'm trying to stay out of it as much as possible.
From what I can gather the guys sees himself as a bit of a hard man (he's probably on PH...) and expected any differences we had when we ran off with my wife, would be resolved by an old skool spot of fisticuffs, confident he'd beat me to a pulp. I only hope he got more than he bargained for.
Edited by theboss on Wednesday 1st February 11:22
theboss said:
He lives on his own, his wife is in the process of financial remedy proceedings (aiming to keep the family home in the absence of any other support) and his older kids have disowned him for running off with a we, in their own words.
I'm still in touch with his wife but am backing off now, I don't think I need to stir any further. His wife already suspects everything I know and will try to force disclosure, if he lies or fails to comply then I have the described ammo up my sleeve, but for the time being its easier just to keep handing the guy rope, and I'm trying to stay out of it as much as possible.
From what I can gather the guys sees himself as a bit of a hard man (he's probably on PH...) and expected any differences we had when we ran off with my wife, would be resolved by an old skool spot of fisticuffs, confident he'd beat me to a pulp. I only hope he got more than he bargained for.
When you say "force disclosure" what do you mean? If it's that he had an affair, the. That won't make one iota of difference to any financial outcome for their divorce. e, in their own words.I'm still in touch with his wife but am backing off now, I don't think I need to stir any further. His wife already suspects everything I know and will try to force disclosure, if he lies or fails to comply then I have the described ammo up my sleeve, but for the time being its easier just to keep handing the guy rope, and I'm trying to stay out of it as much as possible.
From what I can gather the guys sees himself as a bit of a hard man (he's probably on PH...) and expected any differences we had when we ran off with my wife, would be resolved by an old skool spot of fisticuffs, confident he'd beat me to a pulp. I only hope he got more than he bargained for.
Edited by theboss on Wednesday 1st February 11:22
theboss said:
An absolute gem from my youngest daughter just a few days ago, now turned eight, her mother said "mother's always know best" and her immediate retort was "well you didn't, did you".
Young children. Providing adults with the unfiltered truth since time began.OP it would appear that you are "one of the good ones". Well done you.
(Not that you need praise from a random stranger on the internet. But there you go.)
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