Removing cheating spouse from home - URGENT advice needed

[Psycho Warren]

what corner though? materialism over happyness? or some deluded belief at her age she should cut free and get you to pay for some cosy cafe lifestyle? as its what she deserves for putting up with use bd men? lol

[theboss]

anonymous said:

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The other mum was my own! My mum and stepdad had moved in with me temporarily as I was walking with sticks at the time and could hardly do anything, so I let my mum take care of all the child hand overs and didn’t have any direct contact with the ex. About 5 months post separation mum was at the school to collect my girls and the ex had turned up for some sort of end of day awards event just before the kids were let out. She ended up breaking down on my mums shoulder in front of the whole school saying how sorry she was.

This was barely a month after she gone to children’s services claiming my mother had done something deeply inappropriate towards my autistic daughter resulting in us all being interviewed by social workers.

That itself was her cunning ploy to undermine my family support network whilst unilaterally setting out the kids living arrangements having discovered that the 50/50 we’d been doing until then didn’t provide the maintenance she felt entitled to.

Not sure how my mother didn’t strangle her tbh.

Edited by theboss on Tuesday 8th September 19:37

[Deathmole]

anonymous said:

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Oh I assumed it was a "my husband has been left in a poor physical state by bungling doctors and his (read: our, or more selfishly, my) quality of life has been diminished" rather than a "I've fked up" one.

My bad!

[theboss]

Deathmole said:

Oh I assumed it was a "my husband has been left in a poor physical state by bungling doctors and his (read: our, or more selfishly, my) quality of life has been diminished" rather than a "I've fked up" one.

My bad!

Considering she had already found a new house with her partner and probably signed the tenancy agreement by the time of my injury, and was taking advantage of being able to meet him whilst I was laid up in a spinal ward, I think her concern was that the “clean looking” separation plan they were orchestrating was dead in the water and that there was no way she could come out of it smelling of roses whilst her husband was left paralysed and incontinent.

She was also present in a meeting in the hospital in which it was suggested by medical professionals that if they were in my shoes they might be inclined to seek specialist legal advice. At that moment she realised the potential monetary aspect. I’d love to have been a party to the next phone convo she had with her lover after that meeting!

Edited by theboss on Tuesday 8th September 19:47