Perth Guys - Divorce Advice

Perth Guys - Divorce Advice

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Bibbs

Original Poster:

3,733 posts

209 months

Tuesday 24th June 2014
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Hey guys,

Anyone know of where I can get some (free/cheap) advice.

I've called citizens advice, but it's a rolling month waiting list and it's always full.

The ex and I have got a plan for the financial figures, I've got the forms from here :-
http://www.familylawcourts.gov.au/wps/wcm/connect/...

But it's all very detailed on who's taking what. Where we have a "I give you A, B & C, You give me D".

Any pointers?

Reardy Mister

13,757 posts

221 months

Tuesday 24th June 2014
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Definitely do it.



Was that the sort of thing you meant? biggrin

200bhp

5,663 posts

218 months

Tuesday 24th June 2014
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Bibbs said:
....we have a "I give you A, B & C, You give me D".
So as usual, you're getting one thing and she gets three? wink

Were you not married in the UK? Is an overseas marriage even legal in another country?

Bibbs

Original Poster:

3,733 posts

209 months

Tuesday 24th June 2014
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Ha ha. It's defo being "done". She moved out in Feb, the dogs moved out last week.

A = cash, B = a year of small payments to her parents, C = Hilux.
D = house. And I keep the V8.

Yeah, married here, she paid most of the deposit for the house, but I paid most of the repayments.

The issue is the forms ask for values of possessions, cars, kids etc..

Hasbeen

2,073 posts

220 months

Tuesday 24th June 2014
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How much are kids worth these days?

StefanVXR8

3,603 posts

197 months

Tuesday 24th June 2014
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Hasbeen said:
How much are kids worth these days?
About $3 each, $4.50 if they're any good at washing up.

Stef

Pommygranite

14,229 posts

215 months

Wednesday 25th June 2014
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I did it here in 09. Piece of piss, $400, wait 13 months, file, done.

Basically once you've both signed the financial forms you're done and dusted.


Bibbs

Original Poster:

3,733 posts

209 months

Wednesday 25th June 2014
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Pommygranite said:
I did it here in 09. Piece of piss, $400, wait 13 months, file, done.

Basically once you've both signed the financial forms you're done and dusted.
That's what I want to hear. Did you list *everything* in the financial forms?

Google [bot]

6,682 posts

180 months

Wednesday 25th June 2014
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Worst 'my cock's available' thread eva.

Pommygranite

14,229 posts

215 months

Wednesday 25th June 2014
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Bibbs said:
Pommygranite said:
I did it here in 09. Piece of piss, $400, wait 13 months, file, done.

Basically once you've both signed the financial forms you're done and dusted.
That's what I want to hear. Did you list *everything* in the financial forms?
Yes. She knew what we had so no game playing

Really your ultimate aim is to divide agreeably, get it dealt with quickly (which means her agreeing and signing so no protracted games) and noping the fk out of there.

As 3 lawyers told me - 'keep the lawyers out of it' - they cost they inflame, they have a vested interest in making the process longer, more costly and more inflamed.

Lawyers exist because people can't swallow pride and lose the battle to win the war.


Bibbs

Original Poster:

3,733 posts

209 months

Wednesday 25th June 2014
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Google [bot] said:
Worst 'my cock's available' thread eva.
hehe

Two comments.

1. It isn't.
2. Have you *seen* the Match thread on PH?

Pommygranite

14,229 posts

215 months

Wednesday 25th June 2014
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Bibbs said:
Google [bot] said:
Worst 'my cock's available' thread eva.
hehe

Two comments.

1. It isn't.
2. Have you *seen* the Match thread on PH?
1. You off the market already?!
2. Worst 'my ex wife is on the market - someone take her off my hands' thread ever wink


Bibbs

Original Poster:

3,733 posts

209 months

Thursday 26th June 2014
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Pommygranite said:
1. You off the market already?!
2. Worst 'my ex wife is on the market - someone take her off my hands' thread ever wink
hehe

Yeah, something like that.

Pommygranite

14,229 posts

215 months

Thursday 26th June 2014
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Bibbs said:
Pommygranite said:
1. You off the market already?!
2. Worst 'my ex wife is on the market - someone take her off my hands' thread ever wink
hehe

Yeah, something like that.
Where was Tinder when I was younger wink


Bibbs

Original Poster:

3,733 posts

209 months

Thursday 26th June 2014
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Pommygranite said:
Where was Tinder when I was younger wink
Ha ha .. yeah. I see internet dating is now pretty much at a base level.

400 questions that probe your soul, or swipe left to party.