Three in a bed - should I go there?

[goggs]

PetrolTed said:

dick dastardly said:

Can a Moderator IP check him please.

You think I haven't already

So, Ted, you'll know why i need anonymity. i'm trusting you on this one

[toni896]

forget Google, swingingheaven.com is your friend.

Just remember her suggestion, your blame when it goes tits up !!!

[goggs]

ahhh moneypenny said:

I would also say go for it, but from my perspective I am the jelouse type, are you really sure she wouldn't get annoyed with you afterwards, a friend of mine did this and afterwards she said it was really wierd, and brought up in loads of jelouse arguements.

exactly!

[goggs]

Jinx said:

Worms, can of, opening - re-arrange these words into a well known phrase or saying.

By posting this query either you are A - just showing off in an carrera2 fashion or B - you own reservations are making you wary of such a motion.

If it is B then I suggest you need to look at this situation with open eyes (suggest a quick coffee bean moment to reduce hormonal influences). Obviously you are uncomfortable with the idea of bringing a third person into your relationship - can you be detatched enough to segment the lust side of the relationship from the loving side?
If you can cope with the inherent trust issues of a third player in the bedroom, then and only then could this work out and not be the beginning of the end for you and your other half.
I suspect this is the beginning of the end (it is difficult enough having a relationship with one other, never mind one other and a stream of cameo's) so - invite the "extra" in and have some fun before it goes pear shaped.

Wise words

[Plotloss]

Fill your boots.

Or should that be their boots?

Dunno.

[mel]

goggs said:

PetrolTed said:

dick dastardly said:

Can a Moderator IP check him please.

You think I haven't already

So, Ted, you'll know why i need anonymity. i'm trusting you on this one

LMAO, don't worry Ted is like a doctor or priest and as a keeper of websites he is sworn by an oath to not divulge such information apart from on the secret mods forum where your identity is now being openly discussed.

[Nick P]

personally i couldn't do it.

I think i'd be a bit freaked out by the sight of my missus with another woman.

I think it would be a large helping of 'regrets all round' after

and i'd hate to be a disappointment to 2 women. it would be crushing

[dinkel]

As a boy i thought: yeah!

But now I'd probably pass . . .

[Yertis]

Nick P said:

personally i couldn't do it.

I think i'd be a bit freaked out by the sight of my missus with another woman.

I think it would be a large helping of 'regrets all round' after

and i'd hate to be a disappointment to 2 women. it would be crushing

You're one wierd guy...

[neil_cardiff]

Nick P said:

personally i couldn't do it.

I think i'd be a bit freaked out by the sight of my missus with another woman.

I think it would be a large helping of 'regrets all round' after

and i'd hate to be a disappointment to 2 women. it would be crushing

That'd be my sentiment two pumps and a squirt and all that

[eccles]

and most importantly.... if you do go for it, take pictures, lots of pictures!

[mel]

And a video

[Nick P]

Yertis said:

Nick P said:

personally i couldn't do it.

I think i'd be a bit freaked out by the sight of my missus with another woman.

I think it would be a large helping of 'regrets all round' after

and i'd hate to be a disappointment to 2 women. it would be crushing

You're one wierd guy...

why?

imagine the nagging you'll get when you let the horse bolt too soon cos it's all a bit exciting.....enough to put any man off

i'd be finished and asleep before they'd even have time to get into the swing of it

Edited by Nick P on Wednesday 6th September 11:55

[stone]

neil_cardiff said:

Nick P said:

personally i couldn't do it.

I think i'd be a bit freaked out by the sight of my missus with another woman.

I think it would be a large helping of 'regrets all round' after

and i'd hate to be a disappointment to 2 women. it would be crushing

That'd be my sentiment two pumps and a squirt and all that

[BliarsGoing]

[goggs]

The thing is, if I do go for it, I can't really tell my mates, so I'll just have to tell you lot instead! (and weather the resulting p1ss-take...)

[Donut]

mel said:

And a video

It's Paris Hilton!!!


I would do it, just so I could say I have

[littlegreenfairy]

I personally wouldn't.

Call me old fashioned but to me marriage is between one woman and one man and should stay that way. Anything else isn't cricket and in my eyes is nothing short of adultery, whether it happens with permission or not. It is opening up a whole can of worms and sounds like it is the start of a a very slippery slope...

As much as it is joked about, I do wonder how many could actually go through with it.

[Plotloss]

If you do do it, any chance at a crucial moment in the proceedings you could chirp up in a high pitched voice 'Roll Over, Roll Over!'

As it would go some way to appeasing the comedy gods.

Thanks.

[wanty1974]

Are they married?

Not that it makes a difference. I have had two previous girlfriends where one ended up a lesbian and one actually had an op to be a bloke (it must be me, then... ) If they want to do it, they will. Go along for the erm, ride.