Problem at work

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Piersman2

6,597 posts

199 months

Friday 12th September 2014
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Blib said:
Pleased to hear that you kept your job, OP. Honest and heartfelt contrition is a powerful force for reassessment .

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Indeed. Here, here!

Now then, where's the picture of those two new little fillies with the short skirts and high heels? lick

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DSLiverpool

14,740 posts

202 months

Friday 12th September 2014
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Is the retraining having to watch "The Office" and pointing out the un PC activity ?

bitchstewie

51,176 posts

210 months

Friday 12th September 2014
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Glad to hear it, and just thank fk you didn't have to submit a written defence biggrin

Rude-boy

22,227 posts

233 months

Friday 12th September 2014
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Good news.

Please learn from this!

Employee 'A' might just be worth spending a little time listening to.

essayer

9,064 posts

194 months

Friday 12th September 2014
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Looks like your Friday drinks are back on.

Just to check, it's not down the local Spearmint Rhino is it?

boxst

3,716 posts

145 months

Friday 12th September 2014
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CAH706 said:
Obviously my code will go and the team can revert to the company code.

Colleague A has saved my job which I suspect a decent majority on here feel I should have lost.


Firstly my comments in the first post were not acceptable and embarrassing/disrespectful

Secondly thanks to all who have provided input
I understand what you were trying to do by enforcing some sort of 'smart' code and that is fine, but as you've found out it has to be a company wide thing and you cannot say things like 'short skirt' without coming across as a complete sexist idiot.

Hopefully the training will help.

anonymous-user

54 months

Friday 12th September 2014
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Take the training with an open mind, OP. HR were right to get involved once they heard what was going on.

anonymous-user

54 months

Friday 12th September 2014
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Blib said:
Pleased to hear that you kept your job, OP. Honest and heartfelt contrition is a powerful force for reassessment .

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Agree totally.

Alcohol and posting - not always a good idea smile

tenpenceshort

32,880 posts

217 months

Friday 12th September 2014
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Blib said:
Pleased to hear that you kept your job, OP. Honest and heartfelt contrition is a powerful force for reassessment .

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Seconded.

PorkInsider

5,886 posts

141 months

Friday 12th September 2014
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Good to hear you've got it sorted!

I'm still sure you're David Brent, though.

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southendpier

5,260 posts

229 months

Friday 12th September 2014
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Turned out as I thought. Onwards Op!

SV8Predator

2,102 posts

165 months

Sunday 14th September 2014
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southendpier said:
Turned out as I thought.
Gosh.

If only the OP could have consulted you at the beginning. It would have saved all this consternation.


southendpier

5,260 posts

229 months

Monday 15th September 2014
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SV8Predator said:
southendpier said:
Turned out as I thought.
Gosh.

If only the OP could have consulted you at the beginning. It would have saved all this consternation.
Thank you rolleyes, my comment was for the OP.

He did ask for advice by starting the thead and I offered. This thread was slightly sad in that the OP asked for help and actually got a load of insults and suggestions that his future was a P45 and ruined career. Way above and beyond leg pulling IMHO.

Business does not always work like that and often a sensible approach is the one that works best for all. But you would know that, having read and understood the thread.

southendpier from Thursday said:
It is a very minor issue, no one has left, no one has lost a contract, no one has been sacked, no one has not been employed... and the original complainent has attempted to tone down her complaint to HR but HR will go through the process, it is their job afterall.

Seems a little education and a shift of attitudes is required from the OP yes....

... general point of learning current acceptable standards of attire for his department, repeated to the company as whole, with updated clarification in the Staff Handbook is required..

anonymous-user

54 months

Monday 15th September 2014
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The OP needs to learn more than "acceptable standards of attire". He needs to move his head away from the Neanderthal place where it was previously located. There are signs above that he may do so.

boobles

15,241 posts

215 months

Monday 15th September 2014
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Just remember OP that we are not living in the early 60's/70's so you can not ask women to wear skirts to work otherwise losing your job could be the least of your worries should a husband/boyfriend find out about what could be seen as being a pervert.

anonymous-user

54 months

Monday 15th September 2014
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The irony is strong in this one!

southendpier

5,260 posts

229 months

Monday 15th September 2014
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Breadvan72 said:
The OP needs to learn more than "acceptable standards of attire". He needs to move his head away from the Neanderthal place where it was previously located. There are signs above that he may do so.
See: "Neanderthal"? hehe This thread really pressed your buttons BV, I wonder why!

Businesses need people like the OP, by his own adminission organising a sucessful and on the face of it friendly and close team. That the OP absolutely needs to modernise, be more proffessional, is not in question. As he is an employee of a large business this should have been picked up and dealt with as part of his development a long time ago. At least the immediate future is in his hands, he has been told and he can make his choices.

anonymous-user

54 months

Monday 15th September 2014
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We have no evidence save the OP's assertions that he is a good manager, and the only concrete instance we have of him managing is the crass error that led to this discussion. He thought that women were there to be decorative. He may be changing his view now, and that would be a good thing.

BGARK

5,494 posts

246 months

Monday 15th September 2014
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Breadvan72 said:
We have no evidence save the OP's assertions that he is a good manager, and the only concrete instance we have of him managing is the crass error that led to this discussion. He thought that women were there to be decorative. He may be changing his view now, and that would be a good thing.

kowalski655

14,635 posts

143 months

Monday 15th September 2014
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BGARK said:
Phwooooar




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