Dress code

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blueg33

35,907 posts

224 months

Tuesday 27th January 2015
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Tie is playing safe.

I have a meeting today with the CEO of a substantial charity. We dont wear ties in our office and they dont wear ties, but this meeting is my first meeting with her and the deal is many millions. I am playing safe and wearing a tie.

CAPP0

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19,587 posts

203 months

Tuesday 27th January 2015
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Thanks for all the input, chaps. I've had the meeting now, went in suit & tie (and shiny shoes!) and happily the guy I met walked in wearing a tie. So, PH gets it right (again/as usual!).

BrabusMog

20,165 posts

186 months

Tuesday 27th January 2015
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Hope the meeting went well thumbup

Dr Jekyll

23,820 posts

261 months

Tuesday 27th January 2015
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iphonedyou said:
Martin_M said:
Personally, I think ties are a bit old hat these days. I tend to buy high collar dress shirts, (Hawes and Curtis - recommended!) which are smart enough with a suit imo.
For an awful lot of people, they're really not old hat at all.
A surprising number of people do still have to wear them, but that doesn't mean they don't regard them as an irritating anachronism.

Not that anachronism is quite the right word, since it implies that once upon a time ties might have made sense.

BrabusMog

20,165 posts

186 months

Tuesday 27th January 2015
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Dr Jekyll said:
iphonedyou said:
Martin_M said:
Personally, I think ties are a bit old hat these days. I tend to buy high collar dress shirts, (Hawes and Curtis - recommended!) which are smart enough with a suit imo.
For an awful lot of people, they're really not old hat at all.
A surprising number of people do still have to wear them, but that doesn't mean they don't regard them as an irritating anachronism.

Not that anachronism is quite the right word, since it implies that once upon a time ties might have made sense.
They did actually used to hold shirts together, hence the name "tie".

Hoofy

76,362 posts

282 months

Tuesday 27th January 2015
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ChasW said:
Hoofy said:
Dress like you're middle-aged. jester
I know this was written partly in jest but a few years back I was visited by two senior businessmen from Manchester. They were very smartly dressed in sharp suits, shirts and ties, but looked liked footballers about to board the coach on their way to Wembley for the cup final. I struggled to take these 45+ gents seriously with their giant tie knots and slim fit trousers. They were a joke. The excessive use of hair gel did not help either. So it's one thing to be smart and another to be appropriately smart. Dress your age or older but not the other way around.

Also, as a colleague of mine always used to say, "never hire a man whose trousers are shinier than his shoes"!
Ha!

And ha! (Wait, my Matalan suit is a no-no then? frown )

iphonedyou

9,253 posts

157 months

Tuesday 27th January 2015
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Dr Jekyll said:
A surprising number of people do still have to wear them, but that doesn't mean they don't regard them as an irritating anachronism.

Not that anachronism is quite the right word, since it implies that once upon a time ties might have made sense.
And a lot of people don't have to wear them, but do, and don't regard them as an anachronism. It really is that easy!

CAPP0

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19,587 posts

203 months

Tuesday 27th January 2015
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BrabusMog said:
Hope the meeting went well thumbup
Cheers, yes, very interesting!

ChasW

2,135 posts

202 months

Tuesday 27th January 2015
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Hoofy said:
ChasW said:
Hoofy said:
Dress like you're middle-aged. jester
I know this was written partly in jest but a few years back I was visited by two senior businessmen from Manchester. They were very smartly dressed in sharp suits, shirts and ties, but looked liked footballers about to board the coach on their way to Wembley for the cup final. I struggled to take these 45+ gents seriously with their giant tie knots and slim fit trousers. They were a joke. The excessive use of hair gel did not help either. So it's one thing to be smart and another to be appropriately smart. Dress your age or older but not the other way around.

Also, as a colleague of mine always used to say, "never hire a man whose trousers are shinier than his shoes"!
Ha!

And ha! (Wait, my Matalan suit is a no-no then? frown )
Hoofy

I am sure you Matalan outfit is perfect provided it suits both you and the occasion.

Hoofy

76,362 posts

282 months

Tuesday 27th January 2015
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ChasW said:
Hoofy

I am sure you Matalan outfit is perfect provided it suits both you and the occasion.
You mean... when I'm in the dock on a GBH charge? biggrin