Instant quitting of a job

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bitchstewie

51,188 posts

210 months

Saturday 8th August 2015
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Keep an eye on places like Reddit and Spiceworks too - they're heavily US oriented but if you do feel you're a little rusty on being exposed to stuff they're fantastic resources.

dave123456

1,854 posts

147 months

Saturday 8th August 2015
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impossible question to answer due to variables in a specific situation..

I have done it before and was in a new job quicker than I wanted to be! I've set myself up financially to not be tied to a job, it's an unfortunate situation that many people who get pissed off with their job are often quite passive individuals who allow themselves to be pushed around at home and at work, a consequence of which is they often have no choice anywhere.

sometimes a little bit of constructive selfishness can pay dividends in sustaining happiness in all areas.

I have a couple of guys who I work with, youngish and very entitled and both of them are total lapdogs, phones going off 2 mins after their contracted hours finish from nagging girlfriends...they're the same ones who want a payrise...to pay for the people who are stifling their progression!

Turn7

23,605 posts

221 months

Saturday 8th August 2015
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TheAngryDog said:
I've applied for over 20 jobs today. Hopefully one will give me a chance. I need a change. I am amazed at how this has affected me mentally. I am not ashamed to say that I am utterly miserable.
Been there too often myself Im sad to say. I think the Labour market is very tough these days, certainly at blue collar level.

Its hard to keep chipper, and I dont have an answer other than try to maximise your fun times so work can be viewed as a way to enjoyment.....

miniman

24,945 posts

262 months

Saturday 8th August 2015
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Would you consider a move to Wiltshire?

0000

13,812 posts

191 months

Saturday 8th August 2015
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TheAngryDog said:
I live in Bucks, so anywhere around here, London, MK, Luton, Oxford, basically anywhere that is commutable within around 90 minutes.
Hanslope Park can't be too far away then? Must be jobs there for the FCO or HMGCC either direct or via a defence/IT company - try looking at CGI, Lockheed Martin, BAE, Raytheon, etc. Don't be put off applying by people asking for certifications either, they only mean so much.

TheAngryDog

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12,406 posts

209 months

Saturday 8th August 2015
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0000 said:
TheAngryDog said:
I live in Bucks, so anywhere around here, London, MK, Luton, Oxford, basically anywhere that is commutable within around 90 minutes.
Hanslope Park can't be too far away then? Must be jobs there for the FCO or HMGCC either direct or via a defence/IT company - try looking at CGI, Lockheed Martin, BAE, Raytheon, etc. Don't be put off applying by people asking for certifications either, they only mean so much.
I wouldnt know, I dont know this area so well, I've only lived here in July last year and aside from working in London for a weeks, I've worked at the place I do now ever since.

Thanks for the suggestions, I will take a look.

miniman said:
Would you consider a move to Wiltshire?
Moving is made harder due to my mrs as she has a well paid job that she couldnt give up really. I guess it also depends on location, job, wage etc. Do you know of opportunities there?

TheAngryDog

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12,406 posts

209 months

Saturday 8th August 2015
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bhstewie said:
Keep an eye on places like Reddit and Spiceworks too - they're heavily US oriented but if you do feel you're a little rusty on being exposed to stuff they're fantastic resources.
I've never really given Reddit much time - I'll have to take a look, thanks.

dave123456 said:
impossible question to answer due to variables in a specific situation..

I have done it before and was in a new job quicker than I wanted to be! I've set myself up financially to not be tied to a job, it's an unfortunate situation that many people who get pissed off with their job are often quite passive individuals who allow themselves to be pushed around at home and at work, a consequence of which is they often have no choice anywhere.

sometimes a little bit of constructive selfishness can pay dividends in sustaining happiness in all areas.

I have a couple of guys who I work with, youngish and very entitled and both of them are total lapdogs, phones going off 2 mins after their contracted hours finish from nagging girlfriends...they're the same ones who want a payrise...to pay for the people who are stifling their progression!
I can survive for a while, but it does seem the nuclear option to leave a job without one to go to. I've always been told by my dad (lol) not to do it whenever I have spoken of my unhappiness.

Thing is, if I had a bit of support and structure, I'd not be as bad, I could live with (to a degree) the other things. I just want to do my job, and do it well.

Turn7 said:
TheAngryDog said:
I've applied for over 20 jobs today. Hopefully one will give me a chance. I need a change. I am amazed at how this has affected me mentally. I am not ashamed to say that I am utterly miserable.
Been there too often myself Im sad to say. I think the Labour market is very tough these days, certainly at blue collar level.

Its hard to keep chipper, and I dont have an answer other than try to maximise your fun times so work can be viewed as a way to enjoyment.....
It is definitely an employers market. Fun times are hard as I dont get to see much of my gf due to working most weekends.

miniman

24,945 posts

262 months

Saturday 8th August 2015
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Yes we have a few:

https://www.careers.dyson.com/jobs/job.aspx?id=580...
https://www.careers.dyson.com/jobs/job.aspx?id=584...

Some other service desk roles that aren't listed at the moment. Is that the right sort of role?

bitchstewie

51,188 posts

210 months

Saturday 8th August 2015
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TheAngryDog said:
bhstewie said:
Keep an eye on places like Reddit and Spiceworks too - they're heavily US oriented but if you do feel you're a little rusty on being exposed to stuff they're fantastic resources.
I've never really given Reddit much time - I'll have to take a look, thanks.
Oh it's full of strange people but /r/sysadmin and /r/networking are useful for keeping up with industry stuff I've found smile

Now, this is where I might sound like a bit of a dick but do work out how much of the "I hate my job" thing you have now is because the employer and job is st, and how much might be your expectations - please do just take that the way it's intended - I've seen a lot of people go and come back where I am now because the grass actually wasn't greener.

If it's genuinely making you feel ill, get out, no if's, no but's smile

TheAngryDog

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12,406 posts

209 months

Saturday 8th August 2015
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miniman said:
Yes we have a few:

https://www.careers.dyson.com/jobs/job.aspx?id=580...
https://www.careers.dyson.com/jobs/job.aspx?id=584...

Some other service desk roles that aren't listed at the moment. Is that the right sort of role?
Thank you, I will take a look!

bhstewie said:
TheAngryDog said:
bhstewie said:
Keep an eye on places like Reddit and Spiceworks too - they're heavily US oriented but if you do feel you're a little rusty on being exposed to stuff they're fantastic resources.
I've never really given Reddit much time - I'll have to take a look, thanks.
Oh it's full of strange people but /r/sysadmin and /r/networking are useful for keeping up with industry stuff I've found smile

Now, this is where I might sound like a bit of a dick but do work out how much of the "I hate my job" thing you have now is because the employer and job is st, and how much might be your expectations - please do just take that the way it's intended - I've seen a lot of people go and come back where I am now because the grass actually wasn't greener.

If it's genuinely making you feel ill, get out, no if's, no but's smile
Thanks, I will take a look.

Oh of course, and I know I have been the problem at one of my previous jobs, and I left to avoid further damage being caused to both parties. In this instance though, I know its not me, as none of my team (including managers) are happy, and they are of the same persuasion as me.

Turn7

23,605 posts

221 months

Saturday 8th August 2015
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What part of Bucks are you in ?

bitchstewie

51,188 posts

210 months

Saturday 8th August 2015
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Don't rule out remote working as well.

I'm office based and wouldn't want to be home based because I like the social interaction you get from being in an office, however on a purely functional level if I had a monkey who I could remotely command to push the odd button on rare occasions, I can pretty much do my entire job from here in the back garden via VPN.

Just a thought.

TheAngryDog

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12,406 posts

209 months

Saturday 8th August 2015
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Turn7 said:
What part of Bucks are you in ?
Aylesbury. Well centred to get to Herts, Beds etc.

TheAngryDog

Original Poster:

12,406 posts

209 months

Saturday 8th August 2015
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bhstewie said:
Don't rule out remote working as well.

I'm office based and wouldn't want to be home based because I like the social interaction you get from being in an office, however on a purely functional level if I had a monkey who I could remotely command to push the odd button on rare occasions, I can pretty much do my entire job from here in the back garden via VPN.

Just a thought.
I do a mixture at the moment, my role enables me to do both, as it did in my last role as well, and I'd take a new role on doing that if one came up. I am self motivated when it comes to work, I am very happy being busy.

TheAngryDog

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12,406 posts

209 months

Saturday 8th August 2015
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miniman said:
Yes we have a few:

https://www.careers.dyson.com/jobs/job.aspx?id=580...
https://www.careers.dyson.com/jobs/job.aspx?id=584...

Some other service desk roles that aren't listed at the moment. Is that the right sort of role?
I've sent you an email / pm thing.

Turn7

23,605 posts

221 months

Saturday 8th August 2015
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TheAngryDog said:
Turn7 said:
What part of Bucks are you in ?
Aylesbury. Well centred to get to Herts, Beds etc.
Im in Tring, if ever you fancy a beer and some one new to vent to, drop me a pm.

TheAngryDog

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12,406 posts

209 months

Saturday 8th August 2015
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Turn7 said:
TheAngryDog said:
Turn7 said:
What part of Bucks are you in ?
Aylesbury. Well centred to get to Herts, Beds etc.
Im in Tring, if ever you fancy a beer and some one new to vent to, drop me a pm.
Thanks, that is much appreciated and I may take you up on that!

I dont mind Tring as a place, especially around Tring Fest!

TheAngryDog

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12,406 posts

209 months

Saturday 8th August 2015
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Damn. cant remember what I said now LOL.

TheAngryDog

Original Poster:

12,406 posts

209 months

Saturday 8th August 2015
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Turn7 said:
TheAngryDog said:
Turn7 said:
What part of Bucks are you in ?
Aylesbury. Well centred to get to Herts, Beds etc.
Im in Tring, if ever you fancy a beer and some one new to vent to, drop me a pm.
PM sent.

bucksmanuk

2,311 posts

170 months

Saturday 8th August 2015
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I'm in Aylesbury too
if you need a pint - just say so