Advice over "Stage2 warning"

[Sheepshanks]

AJB88 said:

Nah she wants to work there just one of them people who you literally have to do it for.

She doesn't sound very dynamic and, with the best will in the world, people who are off for lots of random short periods are a pain. Maybe the employer and your missus are better off without each other?

AJB88 said:

My major gripe is that my company - a massive company, we have members of staff which call in all the time stating "they are too tried to come in" and get away with it.

Get her a job at your place, then!