What am i worth?

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Penelope Stopit

11,209 posts

110 months

Wednesday 13th July 2016
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Ikemi said:
I'd be wanting around £60K too ... See it as compensation for your life, as you'll be giving up a large chunk of it! Also, bear in mind the amount of tax owed on £60K. Once over £43K, you'll be paying 40% of the remainder to the Government. It's something to consider when negotiating!
This is a deciding factor....Good post

chilistrucker

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4,541 posts

152 months

Wednesday 7th September 2016
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R6VED said:
Best of luck and I would certainly advise going in higher than you are happy with as otherwis eyou have nowhere to go. £75k may be a bit high, perhaps £60kish?

Whatever happens if you do not fully update us on the outcome, I will track you down and throttle you :-)
Finally an update for anyone who is interested.

The money man came to me last night, and tbh looked a bit embarrassed. He informed me that the head of the family had now decided they don't need a full time chauffeur and that they were only looking at paying a salary of 30k a year for my role. I just laughed it was all I could do, after having spent 8 hours yesterday with my backup chauffeur cleaning the main garage to an exceptional standard, I was quite frankly insulted. This summer has been bizarre there to say the least!!!


I informed him I was happy to carry on at my current rate for as long as I was needed, as some of the family are probably now staying till Christmas. My current rate would actually put me at 52k if I was there year long. I know, you couldn't make it up. I am now obviously looking for another full time job and as and when I can find something suitable, I'll be off.

craigjm

17,977 posts

201 months

Wednesday 7th September 2016
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Well i dont think its the update that any of use were hoping for but at least now you know the score. Good luck

AyBee

10,543 posts

203 months

Wednesday 7th September 2016
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craigjm said:
Well i dont think its the update that any of use were hoping for but at least now you know the score. Good luck
Agreed. Best of luck with the search thumbup

MrJuice

3,375 posts

157 months

Thursday 8th September 2016
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Maybe offer to do 4 or 5 months for 30k. Rest of the time do other seasonal work

My cousin told me an amusing story about a middle eastern family. He works at a five star central London hotel. A ME family check in to ten rooms of which one is being used solely to receive guests. Cost is just under 10k per night. So they pay 10k in cash at the check in desk. Next morning more money is needed so cousin goes up and speaks to the money woman who brings out 50k in cash for the next five days. Dinner and other spending is on top. Moral of the story is these guys have silly money and are not afraid of spending it.

I suspect they have other reasons for offering 30k. Not sure what but I don't think it is a money issue.

chrisxr2

1,127 posts

195 months

Thursday 8th September 2016
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Read the thread from start to finish, really surprised they offered so little. Hope you find something that pays you your true worth.

chilistrucker said:
Finally an update for anyone who is interested.

The money man came to me last night, and tbh looked a bit embarrassed. He informed me that the head of the family had now decided they don't need a full time chauffeur and that they were only looking at paying a salary of 30k a year for my role. I just laughed it was all I could do, after having spent 8 hours yesterday with my backup chauffeur cleaning the main garage to an exceptional standard, I was quite frankly insulted. This summer has been bizarre there to say the least!!!


I informed him I was happy to carry on at my current rate for as long as I was needed, as some of the family are probably now staying till Christmas. My current rate would actually put me at 52k if I was there year long. I know, you couldn't make it up. I am now obviously looking for another full time job and as and when I can find something suitable, I'll be off.

chilistrucker

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4,541 posts

152 months

Thursday 8th September 2016
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Yesterday applied for a job with my local Mercedes dealer, delivering and picking up customer cars for servicing etc, the money isn't great, but an easy life and on my doorstep appealed. Got a reply today saying I don't match their criteria .
Don't know if they think I'm over qualified, under qualified, too young, too old, who knows???

Beetnik

512 posts

185 months

Friday 9th September 2016
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Why not ask them for some feedback?

chilistrucker

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4,541 posts

152 months

Friday 9th September 2016
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I will do, and definitely need to update my C.V

MrJuice

3,375 posts

157 months

Friday 9th September 2016
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Maybe speak to a senior family member.yourself if you think you're on your way out anyway. Not that much to lose. Lot to gain

johnfm

13,668 posts

251 months

Friday 9th September 2016
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You have family office work on your CV.

Look for another family office role.

Or ask to do more estate management stuff if you were covering a lot of that anyway.

anonymous-user

55 months

Friday 9th September 2016
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Chilli, not sure where in the SE you are but our company posted this today which made me think of this thread

https://www.markerstudygroup.com/careers/latest-va...

(it seems it just goes to main page, put Estate in keyword search)

chilistrucker

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4,541 posts

152 months

Monday 12th September 2016
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anonymous said:
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Thanks for that wink
I've worked last weekend, plus the weekend just gone, and also will be working this weekend, all both Saturday and Sunday. Told the family I need Wednesday off as I have a couple of job interviews to attend, (I don't) but thought I'd just drop it in the conversation.

Birdster

2,530 posts

144 months

Wednesday 14th September 2016
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I was expecting you to be offered the money you was thinking.

Any updates? Good luck though. smile

chilistrucker

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4,541 posts

152 months

Friday 16th September 2016
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Birdster said:
I was expecting you to be offered the money you was thinking.

Any updates? Good luck though. smile
Update.
Just drove a family member into central London and she said she had heard I was to be taking the role full time. I thought this was odd and explained to her exactly what had happened. I made it clear I wasn't expecting the 60k but the 30k I was offered was way under my expectation and so I would not be the families chauffeur after all.

I think the timing of our conversation was of no real surprise really, and she gave me an excellent platform to properly this time fully explain my worth, so to speak. She also went onto explain, (butter me up) that I was very well liked, fully trusted, and treated as part of the family. Hmmmmm.

Anyway, she has said she will raise this issue with her husband later tonight on our return to the house. Her husband is the oldest son.

We'll see eh?
I'll be very interested to see if they come back with another offer.

The Mad Monk

10,474 posts

118 months

Friday 16th September 2016
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chilistrucker said:
Update.
Just drove a family member into central London and she said she had heard I was to be taking the role full time. I thought this was odd and explained to her exactly what had happened. I made it clear I wasn't expecting the 60k but the 30k I was offered was way under my expectation and so I would not be the families chauffeur after all.

I think the timing of our conversation was of no real surprise really, and she gave me an excellent platform to properly this time fully explain my worth, so to speak. She also went onto explain, (butter me up) that I was very well liked, fully trusted, and treated as part of the family. Hmmmmm.

Anyway, she has said she will raise this issue with her husband later tonight on our return to the house. Her husband is the oldest son.

We'll see eh?
I'll be very interested to see if they come back with another offer.
When did you get your licence back? Was that difficult?

Edit.

Found your thread on that subject. Hmm. V. interesting.


Edited by The Mad Monk on Friday 16th September 18:08

chilistrucker

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4,541 posts

152 months

Friday 16th September 2016
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It took 4 months from the accident to get my car licence back, and only got it back when the 3 bleeds on my brain had gone and I was cleared by my neuro consultant.
Nearly 2 and a half years later, they still won't give me my lorry licence back, and probably never will frown

The Mad Monk

10,474 posts

118 months

Friday 16th September 2016
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Your story reminded me of my own experience.

I was contacted by a family that I drove - HNW, located England, Central Europe and USA. I had done some work for them and got on with all the family. They asked me to go and work for them and I declined.

I sometimes wonder how that might have worked out.

chilistrucker

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4,541 posts

152 months

Friday 16th September 2016
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I'm am still very interested in the role with my lot, but it's got to be worth it as the job is pretty full on.
As hard as the last couple of years has been, I'm not buckling and being underpaid, I'm just after s fair crack of the whip wink

chilistrucker

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4,541 posts

152 months

Monday 26th September 2016
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Well thats another year done, and the full time thing didn't happen. They were not prepared to go above 30k and considering the effort I put in and the hours I would work the money is just way too low.
I got midway through last Monday, and was called into the office and told that Wednesday would be my last day.
They have kept my backup chauffeur on though, who said he would leave. I told him not too and to get out of it what he could for as long as it suited him.
I also told the money man not to phone me next year as he clearly won't be able to afford me. I wished him all the best in finding a suitable replacement wink