Wearing perfume at work

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wiggy001

6,545 posts

271 months

Friday 21st October 2016
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You say she doesn't overdo it, but if it's the same one she wears all the time she probably doesn't realise how strong it is. More than 2 presses of the button is probably "overdoing it".

Steve Campbell

2,136 posts

168 months

Saturday 22nd October 2016
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More than a "hint" of the perfume, I'm thinking, what is that masking ?

Probably OTT on my part, but I find masssive use of perfumed products a real distraction from the real person.

Perfume "so it can be smelt"......hmmm....depends on how close you are to the person. My personal perspective is that perfume is for "close" proximity, not 3 metres.

Edited by Steve Campbell on Saturday 22 October 22:45

ChasW

2,135 posts

202 months

Sunday 23rd October 2016
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I went in for surgery a few weeks ago and my pre-admission instructions stated no perfume etc. Maybe the expect the same of the staff

DoubleSix

11,715 posts

176 months

Sunday 23rd October 2016
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Pilchard said:
I fear this could be part of the problem, maybe a large part. My OH is very particular in ensuring her hair and makeup are right, with perfume being part of that.
I know the type...




Shoegrip

399 posts

91 months

Sunday 23rd October 2016
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I've certainly come across work places where there is the one bimbo who insists on stinking the place out with perfume but none of her colleagues have wanted to mention it.

Perfume in the work place is inappropriate.


Flooble

5,565 posts

100 months

Sunday 23rd October 2016
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What effect does perfume have on people with COPD or other breathing disorders?




okgo

38,038 posts

198 months

Sunday 23rd October 2016
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DoubleSix said:
I know the type...

rofl

I'm actually staggered people have so little going on that THIS is the worst thing in their lives at current and warrants nuclear fall out.

Excess aftershave/perfume is a hallmark of a certain kind of person.

Pothole

34,367 posts

282 months

Sunday 23rd October 2016
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okgo said:
DoubleSix said:
I know the type...

rofl

I'm actually staggered people have so little going on that THIS is the worst thing in their lives at current and warrants nuclear fall out.

Excess aftershave/perfume is a hallmark of a certain kind of person.
I'm actually staggered that you'd use "at current" and wonder what on earth you think it means and why you think it's preferable to "currently".

okgo

38,038 posts

198 months

Sunday 23rd October 2016
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Pothole said:
I'm actually staggered that you'd use "at current" and wonder what on earth you think it means and why you think it's preferable to "currently".
Good point, I'm hungover - words will be misplaced!

Pothole

34,367 posts

282 months

Sunday 23rd October 2016
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okgo said:
Pothole said:
I'm actually staggered that you'd use "at current" and wonder what on earth you think it means and why you think it's preferable to "currently".
Good point, I'm hungover - words will be misplaced!
LOL

Jasandjules

69,895 posts

229 months

Sunday 23rd October 2016
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Flooble said:
What effect does perfume have on people with COPD or other breathing disorders?
I don't have a breathing disorder but some perfumes make me choke....

elanfan

5,520 posts

227 months

Sunday 23rd October 2016
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Jasandjules said:
Flooble said:
What effect does perfume have on people with COPD or other breathing disorders?
I don't have a breathing disorder but some perfumes make me choke....
Me too. Particularly the ones that have a very sweet citrusy smell.

klmhcp

247 posts

92 months

Sunday 23rd October 2016
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I'm surprised she's allowed it at all. Who's she trying to attract?

rog007

5,759 posts

224 months

Monday 24th October 2016
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It may be worthwhile checking the Trust's dress code policy to see what that says; good ones will have this angle covered.

Regardless, there has been much written about this on-line and in the physical press to know it's an old chestnut. It's similar to those with BO; needs handling sensitively in order to maintain good working relationships.

Do keep us updated.

Fastchas

2,646 posts

121 months

Monday 24th October 2016
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If someone at work suggests you're wearing too much perfume then.....you're wearing too much perfume.
It should be a subtle fragrance that someone can smell when close up, not something that can be smelled over the counter or that fills a room.

Hoofy

76,360 posts

282 months

Monday 24th October 2016
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Pilchard said:
(isn't that the idea?)
(Only when someone is up close eg hugging her. It shouldn't be a protective force field. One spray should do it.)

megaphone

10,725 posts

251 months

Monday 24th October 2016
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I had to complain to a senior manager at one place I worked. A lady colleague would insist on wearing (obnoxious) perfume in the office. I'd already spoken to her on a friendly basis, explaining I was allergic to strong perfume smells, she just didn't get it. Management had to intervene and they eventually wrote it into the 'rule' book. I was pleased as subsequently we employed a new 'lad' who would wear the most obnoxious after shave, I could not stay in the room, he was asked to stop wearing it, he didn't get it either.

I thought it was just me, however doing some research I found it was a common issue. Most strong perfume smells give me a headache, sneezing etc. Worse I can get quite angry and bad tempered.


Hoofy

76,360 posts

282 months

Monday 24th October 2016
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megaphone said:
I had to complain to a senior manager at one place I worked. A lady colleague would insist on wearing (obnoxious) perfume in the office. I'd already spoken to her on a friendly basis, explaining I was allergic to strong perfume smells, she just didn't get it. Management had to intervene and they eventually wrote it into the 'rule' book. I was pleased as subsequently we employed a new 'lad' who would wear the most obnoxious after shave, I could not stay in the room, he was asked to stop wearing it, he didn't get it either.

I thought it was just me, however doing some research I found it was a common issue. Most strong perfume smells give me a headache, sneezing etc. Worse I can get quite angry and bad tempered.
Wouldn't it have been easier to give you the boot? biggrin

Rude-boy

22,227 posts

233 months

Monday 24th October 2016
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As others have said the chances are that it is a valid comment.

Other than the odd waft on the odd occasion the only time i can recall smelling the perfume of any of the many ladies here is when they have just applied it 30 seconds before i walked into the room.

With the Mrs I can only smell her perfume when I am literally right next to her, and then only occasionally.

Then there are those who wear stuff like Dune which i can smell at 100 metres.

FWIW the Mrs works in healthcare and the only lady in her sphere that wears enough perfume that others can smell it all the time wears a knock off of a big name expensive perfume that smells nothing like the real deal but and choke a lab chimp at half a mile. In their case though general opinion is that it is to disguise their lax personal hygiene.

megaphone

10,725 posts

251 months

Monday 24th October 2016
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Hoofy said:
megaphone said:
I had to complain to a senior manager at one place I worked. A lady colleague would insist on wearing (obnoxious) perfume in the office. I'd already spoken to her on a friendly basis, explaining I was allergic to strong perfume smells, she just didn't get it. Management had to intervene and they eventually wrote it into the 'rule' book. I was pleased as subsequently we employed a new 'lad' who would wear the most obnoxious after shave, I could not stay in the room, he was asked to stop wearing it, he didn't get it either.

I thought it was just me, however doing some research I found it was a common issue. Most strong perfume smells give me a headache, sneezing etc. Worse I can get quite angry and bad tempered.
Wouldn't it have been easier to give you the boot? biggrin
They did eventually!